Is it okay to separate as soon as you get married? Is it to get married or to break up?

Updated on society 2024-02-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course it's not good, but both parties should be considerate because of work. My husband and I have only been married for two months, and he went out to study for two months, and he has been out for less than ten days since he came back, and it has been more than two months now, and I heard that there is still a long time before he comes back. However, our relationship has not faded, and I already have his child in my belly, and I guess I will be born when he returns.

    Although we are far apart, our hearts are close. Although I have a lot of things that are inconvenient for me to start when he is not at home, I can only try to overcome it myself, and then spoil him, tell him to come back and be nice to me, and by the way, cheat a few beautiful clothes and a few good meals.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not good! Husband and wife should live together, as a family! It's only been half a year now, and you don't know each other's habits very well, so maybe there will be a lot of trouble and more conflicts in the future.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A quarrel between husband and wife is nothing, it is also a way to collude. Do you know what you are most afraid of? It's the two of them who have nothing to say, which is the most terrifying.

    If you still love her, tolerate her well. What women need is the security that men bring. and the thoughtfulness and attention to detail of men.

    Since she is willing to marry you directly, I believe she loves you. Love her well, care about her, pursue her like you loved at the beginning, and believe that you can come back to the good old days.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course it's not good, there will be problems after a long time, hurry up and reunite!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I have encountered such a situation, and it is recommended that you do not rush to get married during this time. Because marriage is not the final result.

    Many people say that they are married to love, but they ignore a problem, when they are about to get married, one party makes unreasonable demands, the other party can't meet them, and finally part ways.

    My mind is still in turmoil right now, and I can't accept this result at all. I can't figure it out at all, we said before that we were going to get married, but why was she about to get married, but she changed her mind temporarily? I really don't understand her anymore, she's not the same person who loved me anymore.

    She and I have been in a relationship since we first started working after graduating from college, and we have been in love for four years now. In the past four years, we have experienced the hardships of working together, the joy of life slowly getting better, crying together, laughing together, although we are only in love, we can be regarded as a "couple in distress". I have always believed that there is no one or nothing to break up in the relationship between us, I have long regarded her as a family, and she has also said that I will not marry in this life.

    We agreed to get married, and we agreed to buy a house at my house after we got engaged, and then we went home to work and live a life that belonged to just the two of us.

    Getting married is our common goal and the motivation for my work. I will always put her at the center of everything I do, and think about her first. It is precisely because I think of having her by my side in the future that I always feel very happy.

    We discussed marriage while working, and originally said to get engaged during the May Day holiday, but then she changed it and said that it was better to get engaged during the Dragon Boat Festival! She said she wanted to go on another trip with her before she got engaged. I already regard her as a wife, and of course I will agree to such a simple request.

    Time flies quickly, and it's May Day in the blink of an eye. Because we made a travel plan in advance, we went to Hangzhou together to play during the holidays. On the way to play, we still have a good relationship, and we are still talking about things together after marriage.

    However, since returning from her trip, she has begun to change her mind.

    It was almost time for us to get engaged, and I couldn't understand that she had suddenly done something like this. I asked her she wouldn't say anything, and I didn't know why. She said she would consider it, and I was sure she would respect my opinion, after all, we agreed at the beginning.

    If she was sure that she was what she said at the beginning, then I would respect her too. However, instead of respecting my opinion, she changed her mind again, so it was really uncomfortable, and I didn't know whether I should get married. In the end, we chose to calm down for a while.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't really understand what it means, are these two choices now, if you ask this kind of thing, are you thinking about breaking up, two people must have a fate to walk together, if you don't think it's suitable, there's nothing to break up, it's better than all kinds of problems after marriage, but if there is no principled problem, I think it is a very, very romantic thing to be able to be together, to be able to grow old together.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you are in the case of these two options, it is not recommended that you choose. Now that it's easy to get married like this, there is no turning back or leaving lifelong regrets, so it's better to be steady, think about it, communicate well, and then choose what you should go. What kind of decision to make?

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The question of whether to get married or break up should be carefully considered, and not to make the wrong choice on impulse.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Some people always want to separate after getting married, for the following reasons: first, because they have an unsatisfactory life after marriage, or they are unhappy. The second is because the marriage partner is not what you like. The third is because I was bound by my trembling marriage, and I felt very uncomfortable.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After getting married, you always want to separate for the following reasons:

    lack of sensibility, envy, and communication;

    quarrels; lack of mutual trust;

    mutual suspicion; Lack of independence in marriage;

    money management issues;

    Divergent values and interests.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This may be like the siege of Oak City, people outside the city want to enter the village, and people in the city want to go outside the city. Therefore, Gao Jibo must manage it well after marriage, and build his family into Qi Xiang very happy and harmonious. Two people must understand each other, support each other, encourage each other, and grow each other.

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Do you think that he made mistakes in the past and must have been a very serious betrayal to make you break up, you love him and can't agree to his request, so I think it's absolutely wrong to marry such a non-*** person, your discomfort now is love, he is very selfish and wants to use marriage to trap you, this is unfair to you, nothing to think about! Happiness can still be found, just not now.