What have you taught your children? How should children be educated before they understand the truth

Children, adults make mistakes, and adults often make mistakes, because they often don't realize that they can make mistakes too, so the mistakes they make are often more justified and unquestionable, and the damage is huge. Children, you tend to be closer to nature than adults, so you tend to be more spiritual. So, please be bold enough to question adults, to question me, to argue with me, even to use limited language and thinking skills, to prove me wrong, and I will thank you.

I am a father of two children, my daughter is in the third year of 985 school, and I am also a school bully, and my son is 7 years old, sunny and enthusiastic. Tell your child to have a good attitude. A good attitude contains many contents, such as excellent morality, courtesy, tolerance, positive attitude, self-motivated spirit, learning behavior, and so on.

Personally, I think the most important thing is a good attitude, the ability can be trained, the mentality is cultivated, and it is slowly cultivated in the original family, so I think this is a very important education, the child's mentality is good, don't worry about the child's future.

Children may not know how to speak for themselves and defend their own rights and interests in some situations, and the reason behind this may be because some parents will respect adults more than respect children, causing children to think that their rights and interests are not so important, so parents should not only explain to their children the importance of respecting others, but also teach children to learn to defend themselves, which is very necessary.

Some children will find it important to be welcomed by their friends, and they will find ways to achieve and cater to their friends' wishes. At this point, mom and dad should lead by example and tell their children that being an honest, respectable person is more meaningful than being recognized by others.

At home, children should be given a general environment of mother-child education, because a child who does not respect his elders will have no empathy in the future. Don't tell your child every day, you have to do it practically, so that the child can be exposed to it, and when you go out to see the elders in the future, you will be called sweet, and someone will like it when you go to **.

Treat your parents, and don't treat them because they're your parents. In order to be loved, you have to endure the cruel words and joking sarcasm that your parents say to you. Whoever makes you feel uncomfortable. Be sure to say it directly. Don't put up with it.

People who like to take the initiative to pay for it are not because they are stupid and have a lot of money, but because friendship is more important than money. People who are willing to take the initiative to do more at work are not stupid, but understand responsibility. People who apologize first after a quarrel are not because they are wrong, but they know how to cherish them.

People who are willing to help you do not owe you anything, but treat you as a true friend. It is not the duty of others to help you, and it is not the duty of others to help you, and there is nothing to take for granted.

When it's time to say no, you should say "no" decisively. Parents should cultivate their children's ability to think independently and distinguish between right and wrong, rather than blindly obeying the orders of others.

Our children may be too shy or scared to ask questions. However, it is better to ask questions than to pretend to know everything. Childhood is the best time to train your child to dare to ask questions.

Regarding the question of how to educate children before they understand the truth, I think parents should do the following.

First of all, before the child understands the truth, we should not make a long speech about the truth, and then instill it in the child, but should be through the way of moisturizing things silently, so that these truths slowly penetrate into the child's heart, engraved in the child's mind, so that he first forms a theoretical system, and then when he grows up, he will begin to slowly digest these truths, parents have to answer is to establish this system first, and then slowly fill in the pie open, knead these truths, to understand the story, Let the children gradually understand these truths, so that they can understand what is right and what is wrong.

Secondly, parents can also use some ways to let their children understand these truths and attract their children's attention. If the child is too young, you tell him these big truths, he may neither understand nor listen, so to arouse the child's interest first, with interest in the child is likely to keep these truths in mind, when facing trouble or things, the child may associate with the truth of what the parents said, and then make the right choice. Parents can prepare some comic books for their children, let them watch some cartoons, and let them have some impressions and understanding of these principles in the form of pictures.

Finally, the most important point I want to say is that it is not necessary to say that children will understand, parents' words and deeds, parents' behavior will be the object of children's learning, because children have the most contact with their parents, and what parents do has a great impact on children. If their parents bully people a lot, then their children will bully others when they grow up, but if their parents are very polite, then their children will also become a polite person, children like to observe people the most when they are young, they will learn from their parents' words and deeds, so parents want to educate their children well, they need to set an example and set a good example for their children.

A good parent can make a child grasp his life earlier and better, and even directly affect the child's life. Therefore, parents should love their children unconditionally, watch their children, encourage their children, guide their children, and lead by example to educate their children.

1. Reason in a simple and interesting way.

In the initial stage of understanding the truth, children do not like boring and monotonous preaching, and prefer their parents to educate themselves in a simple, interesting and intuitive way.

2. Guide children to understand the truth in the process of experience.

In the initial stage of understanding the truth, children usually need to have first-hand experience, have intuitive and real feelings, and understand the teachings of their parents. Therefore, parents can take their children to experience different experiences, meet different people, and do different things, such as letting children know how to respect the elderly, and taking children to nursing homes to do volunteer work. Accompany the child to experience and perceive, and in this process, the parents will guide the child and gradually let the child understand the truth.

3. Strengthen children's understanding of the process in stages.

In the process of educating children to understand the truth, parents should not hope to do it once and for all, but should control the frequency, teach the child patiently and patiently, and use a variety of separate guidance to enlighten the child's thoughts, deepen the child's understanding, and let the child understand the reason better.

4. Pay attention to two-way communication between parents and children.

Therefore, in the process of education, parents must pay attention to the child's reaction, and pay attention to the information and feelings conveyed by the child, so that the parents can adjust the thoughts of education in time, and it is also convenient for parents to accurately judge the child's understanding of the situation and better guide the child.

Every child's life comes from wonderful, born with truth, goodness and beauty, too many parents in the process of feeding to erase the child's true nature, or doting, or comparison, or utilitarian, so do not understand education, do not like to learn people pay attention, don't give us the talent in this world to annihilate ah!

Before children are sensible, parents tell their children what to do and what not to do, they don't understand the reason, but they know how to imitate. Parents can teach their children some basic etiquette through their words and deeds, teach them to be peaceful, not noisy, and speak well.

Some parents always feel that their children do not understand the reason and cannot understand what they say, so they give up the education of their children, which is actually very wrong. The child understands what you mean, he knows that what he wants can be obtained by crying, so as soon as the child cries, you are at a loss to satisfy him, then, it will be difficult for you to control his emotions and behaviors in the future. On the contrary, when the child is hungry and thirsty, he cries and cries, and at that time the baby's affairs, when he is older, two or three years old, you have to tell him what he wants that can be expressed and satisfied, and the adults will give it; If you have additional requirements, such as eating a lot of ice cream a day, and you roll around if you don't meet them, then you just don't give them.

Parents must have a bottom line for their younger children, have principles, and can't point out because they are still young and blindly used to it, so it is difficult to establish rules when they are older. Even in public places, tell them in advance that they should not make noise, and if there is one time, they must resolutely stop it. Of course, some children will not be so obedient, and they especially want to challenge the bottom line of their parents, at this time they must give some warnings, and if they don't listen, some small punishments will also be given.

For example, if you don't obey the order, cancel the entertainment, stop giving cold drinks, or don't take them out to play, etc. And after a small punishment, make it clear.

Some parents, in fact, only travel posture is not unable to manage their children, is reluctant to manage, is unable to persevere, you know, you are reluctant today, tomorrow the society will educate your children for you. Seeing that some parents in the news are powerless about their children's behavior, it is actually quite heart-wrenching, such children will suffer in society sooner or later. So for the sake of your children, you should be conscious and abide by public morality.

If you really want to manage your children well, you must be ruthless, for the future of your children, set rules for them from an early age, set an example, and they will be grateful to you in the future, believe me!

1. Don't take a drastic approach.

Some parents believe that "jade is not a tool", "children are not easy to become talents without beating and scolding". Therefore, whenever a child makes a mistake, he does not reason calmly with Zheng in his heart, but indiscriminately scolds and beats him first. Such rough treatment of children not only does not make children truly realize their mistakes, but also is likely to leave a shadow in their hearts, and their personalities are easy to become extreme.

2. Care for and caress your children.

Give them more smiles and be more interested in what they are doing. Praise and encourage any of their efforts and successes, even if they are insignificant. When they study or practice, allow them to make mistakes, and at first Chakra may not do well, but don't blame them, don't hold them to the standards of adults.

When they say, "I can't do it" or "I can't do it," encourage them to try again and never give up halfway to save time or lack patience. Otherwise, once they develop the bad habit of giving up halfway through everything, then they will never experience a sense of accomplishment and their self-esteem will gradually decrease.

3. Let children learn to be independent and autonomous.

Respect their needs, respect their interests and hobbies, encourage them to express their thoughts and emotions, consult with them in case of trouble, listen to their opinions, allow them to make their own choices and decisions, and tolerate children with different opinions from their parents. Let children get in touch with social life, let them be honed in social life, increase their talents, and improve their social adaptability.

Fourth, make children feel happy.

Give them time, space, and toys to play, and encourage and support their hobbies. While learning is the dominant activity for children in school, play is still an essential and important aspect of their lives. Some parents have a misconception that games will waste time and delay their children's learning.

Because games can not only bring joy to children, but also enable them to enhance their physical fitness, increase their knowledge, and improve their self-esteem in happiness.

How should children be educated before they understand the truth? Personally, I think that children should be guided to play according to their interests before they understand the reason, and he will also learn a lot from this kind of play.

As parents of children, we should first let children know what they are interested in before they understand the reason, and let them play what they are interested in. In the process of playing, he will definitely encounter some problems to some extent, and we are helping him find solutions to solve them through these problems.

He may lose his temper when he plays, and we have to ask him why he is throwing a tantrum. Did you bump it, bump it, or do you think it's not fun? Usually children don't like to play alone, it's best to take him to a place with more children to play, more children, he can also find his own companions, how to play they will also discuss their own, no matter what the child plays, as long as it does not hurt himself, it will not hurt others, we should try to satisfy him, let him play, do not feel that children play at home is a scourge.

Therefore, before the child understands the reason, we should slowly guide him to play, and reason with him in the process of playing. Instead of blindly blaming him and scolding him, thinking that he can't do anything well. We know that only with more patience and more affirmation of him can we make him grow up happily.