Everything came very suddenly. Should I face it sadly or should I run away?

Facing happily, everyone will always encounter some unpleasant things, and his impact on you is determined by your attitude.

Be brave and I'm sure you'll be able to get through it.

Send you a sentence: "If you should come, you will come, and if you don't come, you can't escape".

You have to face it, and running away won't solve the problem.

What can be done is not necessarily what should be done; What should be done is not necessarily what you are willing to do. If you can cooperate with what you should have, you can live a stable life; It should be combined with the willingness to live a happy life.

When we admire the old lady's "nosy" spirit of public morality, we also think of the law-abiding habit and the hidden concept of discipline behind it. Laws are designed for people and can therefore be modified from time to place, but once they are enacted through reasonable means, they become universally valid norms and must be strictly observed. Carelessly undermining these norms can lead to reproach at least and disaster at worst.

Law-abiding habits are a necessary condition for modern people. If you want to have these conditions, you should first develop the concept of discipline in your life.

"Discipline" is the title of this lesson. Its contents include: not escaping freedom, accepting suffering before happiness, being willing to recognize the facts, and maintaining balance and harmony.

"Freedom" is a moving term, praised and praised by countless people, but we have to admit its unique character: people in so-called democracies, as the psychologist Fromm said, want to "escape from freedom", thousands of people in order to escape the pain caused by responsibility, have given up their right to choose freely, become people who escape freedom.

In the preface to his book "Learning Psychology", Dr. Brooke says: Basically, all patients who come to a psychiatrist have a common problem, that is, a feeling of helplessness and the belief that they are unable to cope with the reality of the situation. The reason for this "sense of uselessness" is that they are accustomed to escaping from their freedom and seeking help from others, and as a result, they are unable to deal with the problems in their own lives.

If these people want to be thorough, they must understand that life is made up of a series of choices and decisions; Only when you can choose and decide can you avoid the sense of powerlessness, uselessness and helplessness.

What can be done is not necessarily what should be done; What should be done is not necessarily what you are willing to do. If you can cooperate with what you should have, you can live a stable life; It should be combined with the willingness to live a happy life. A happy life cannot be separated from responsibility.

Camus once said, "Happiness is not everything, people are also responsible." "Human happiness lies in facing life situations, making voluntary choices, and taking responsibility for the consequences of one's choices.

Therefore, discipline is not only self-training, but also training autonomy, and it is the key to a person's growth and maturity. It is best for modern people to start from a small age, and start with small things, accept the concept of discipline, and cultivate a responsible attitude towards life.

I think a lot of things come and go suddenly, and it's not easy to find someone who can live a lifetime! I don't think you should run away, but face it! But in the face of it, you have to think about whether you should accept it or not, right?

I think it's better to start with friends first! Good things grind a lot, grind a lot of good things, and it will last longer, right?