Do you think I m going to talk to my roommate? I don t want to

How can every two people be good friends, your personalities are not compatible.

Since you can't be a good friend, it's better to be a normal friend.

It doesn't matter. Why do you think so much?

Nine words. Be yourself, why bother with others.

Without them, you can still live a wonderful life, they don't like you, they don't see you well, so why should you please them? Do yourself well, and that's it. They don't deserve your pain. Friends, there are many people in the world, why don't you choose someone who is not good for you to be a friend?

If you want me to say, people like her, go and die!! There's nothing to say If she can't bear it anymore, she will be like this again, and she will go crazy directly, saying, are we very familiar? Tell her to

Since she doesn't treat you as a friend, you don't need to be nice to her.

Hehe, not only you, but many people also have this question, "Why can't I get something in return if I give so much?" "Actually, you've got! You just didn't think about it!

For example, care, loss, care, and bear a lot, maybe you think that these are better than not getting, then it is a big mistake, how to face the storm in the future if you don't exercise a pair of steel and iron bones! Remember, "If you lose your horse, you will know whether you are blessed, if you lose, you will gain, and if you lose, you will lose." "But the problem between people has always been the fundamental problem that plagues the hearts of some successful people, I have also experienced, in fact, you should be the kind of person who is more kind, this kind of person takes feelings more seriously, and if it is not hurt, it is very deep.

You are actually a bit like me, and I used to be a little like that, but in this way, it will only be yourself who will suffer in the end, and others will never cherish the feelings you give. It's still important to talk about living together, just don't invest too much. Let me tell you a story!!

Once upon a time there was an old woman, his son was an official in the capital, and the old mother and her neighbors refused to give in to each other in order to fight over which side of the wall should be, and they didn't speak, and finally the old mother decided to sue her son, but within a few days, his son only replied in the letter, "Thousands of miles of family letters are only for the wall, so why not let him be three feet" In fact, it is nothing Patience will not be anything less like you are now It will only make you more and more introverted and more and more dull In the end, look at what you both have gotten You deserve it." Sad" Hehe, tell you one more sentence, I will live only this sentence: "The wise man is not angry with the fool's words" You know! Hope you are wise! A wise man who is happy every day!!

I don't think you're really good, system.

She has difficulties and comes out to take the initiative to help, she is a kind person should have the conditions, and people who really help others do not need to reciprocate. The people in your roommates are really not very good, although usually people don't talk to her much, and she doesn't talk to you much. But I want to say that to be righteous, take the initiative to help people in difficulty, do not need to reciprocate, this kind of person is a high-quality person, whether it is in the future into the society, or into the society.

We need to be generous and sunny. The icing on the cake is all villains, and all the nobles are sent in the snow, and indifference is insensitive. Don't say she doesn't take the initiative to talk to you.

If you go to the pharmacy now and buy a few dollars of burn cream for her, you will make a friend, and I am sure she will be very moved, and she will feel different as a good deed every day.

I think Bai should help, du

After all, it's a roommate.,Although Zhi Ran didn't talk much.,But dao.

There's no grudge. Being able to have a dormitory is fate, whether it's a good friend or a stranger, you should help. Have a clear conscience, if you help her, will she still send messages here?

No. It's not that the person you help has to be familiar with you, some help doesn't need any reason, and I don't need anything in return to help you.

I don't think it's good, it takes time to get along, she may belong to the kind of slow-burning type, the personality is more introverted and doesn't like to talk, after a long time, I found your good, I will naturally talk to you, give others a little time. It's all a dormitory, so help if you can, after all, you can't look up and see you down.

I think it's a bit ruthless! Helping others is a matter of effort. Instead, it is regarded as invisible, and nothing is in the hair.

Bear. Also laughing and stuff like that. It's not very good!

Although this student is a learning freak. It's a bit impersonal. Everyone is a dormitory.

We should help each other. Rather than exclusive. Forming a clique is not good!

Such. A bit excessive. Or do a whole little aloe vera juice and rub it on her.

If something goes wrong with her. It's really impossible for the heavens to look past it. You've gone too far.

There's nothing wrong with her, maybe she's just unsociable, introverted, and should help her.

I don't think you're authentic. Empathy, just because you don't like to talk about dao, you can be specialized.

Ignorance? So, just because she doesn't speak, can you ignore her? Tell your parents about this, will your parents support you?

She doesn't like to talk, she doesn't care if it's right or wrong, you see something like a burn happening and turn a blind eye, who will say you're doing the right thing, saying you're good!?

I don't think you're doing right, you're a freshman, you've not known each other for a long time, she should be the kind of person who doesn't know much about making friends, because she doesn't know you very well, or doesn't know how to make friends with you, you should help her, and you will become friends.

Then don't listen, listen to ** or do your own thing, the other is that you can move out and live, so out of sight and out of mind, the world is quiet.

I think you should clean up this situation. Eat something for yourself and let your mind clear. Don't get bored with these things.

At this time, you need to buy a Gionee earphone, Gionee earphones can help you eliminate 99% of the noise, so that you will always be immersed in your own world.

If you find your roommates annoying and don't want to listen to them, you can go to the movies or go out to dinner.

Then just ignore them, because you think they are annoying, and listening to them is even more annoying, so you might as well listen to the song yourself.

If you don't want to listen and no one will force you to listen, you can go out quietly or bring a headset to solve this problem.

If it really annoys, you can go outside to study while they are awake and come back when they fall asleep.

Then you should bring your own headphones, or talk to them and tell them to stop talking and affect your normal life.

If you're annoyed and don't want to listen to them, you can listen to them or watch some TV series.

If you find it annoying, you can go out for a walk and don't have a problem with them.

The dormitory is a small society, you now realize that everyone may communicate less with you, indicating that you may usually interact less with everyone, the dormitory can not only be self-centered, nor can you just objectively judge the right and wrong of things, but to integrate, and maintain the same mentality with everyone, so that everyone can accept each other, and you can live in the dormitory and feel that there is no barrier with everyone, very comfortable.

1. Reflect on yourself If you are more isolated in the dormitory, then you must review yourself and don't blindly complain about others. Why is everyone else isolating you so "in unison"? Maybe your behavior is too "self-centered" - you rarely think about others in everything, you can do what you want to make a noise when you should rest, or you don't care much about the public affairs in the dormitory, you don't clean actively, and you only care about your own small space; There are even things that are not shared with others, but shared with others unceremoniously, etc.

These seemingly small things will hurt the feelings of your roommate and you for a long time, and everyone will treat you lightly. If you want to get along with your roommate, you can only change yourself, start from small things, take the initiative to share delicious food with others, be diligent with your hands and feet, and be positive in carrying water and sweeping the floor. Of course, you have to show sincerity in doing these things, and you need to stick to it, and think more about others in everything will naturally improve your relationship with your roommate and make a lot of friends.

2. To learn to be generous and tolerant of your roommate's bad habits, you might as well talk to him openly and honestly, because sometimes you don't realize it and hinder others, and someone may pay attention to it after someone brings it up to him. Students who live in the upper bunk may accidentally stain the sheets in the lower bunk, or crumple the otherwise flat and neat sheets, and it is better not to forget the lower bunk. When everyone lives in the same room, and the spoon always touches the edge of the pot, if you are often dissatisfied and worried about such trivial things, it is really difficult to get along with each other.

3. It is necessary to correctly view everyone's strengths and shortcomings, and no one is perfect. If you notice that your roommate is polite when he leaves the house and even a little rude in the dormitory, it may be evidence that he really thinks of the dormitory as a home where he behaves casually and does not need to be guarded. You can't hate someone because of a certain flaw, if it's not a quality, it's not a moral issue.

The fact that everyone can come together is a kind of fate in itself. When you each go to the wider world, I believe that everyone will not forget those "brothers and sisters who live in my top bunk" in the flower season.

You have to communicate with them more, learn to empathize with each other, help each other, and give selflessly, so that you can get along with them.

I think it's because you yourself have less contact with them, and you take the initiative to communicate with them more, and friendship needs to be built slowly.

zhi's. Moreover, you may be overthinking, don't be cranky. To get along with a person, you need to be more empathetic, and use your brain before you speak, so as not to offend people unintentionally. Don't hate someone just because they're cold to you.

Discord group!! This problem is to deal with the communication problem between people, so I want to be in good shape, and then cheer for homely harmony, interest, learning and other topics, arouse the curiosity of dormitory people. Ask more questions and listen more carefully! In this way, the people in the dormitory will think that you are very easy to get along with.

First of all, you have to adjust your mentality, don't think about the problem so badly, and secondly, you appropriately change some of your own practices that may make others uncomfortable, and if you learn to take the initiative, you will naturally maintain the collective.

There must be someone in the dormitory who has a good relationship with you. You can eat together and play together every time. Don't do everything alone.

Well, treat newcomers but so, it doesn't matter.

To take the initiative to communicate with them, no matter how good a friendship is, it starts from communication.

1. You're too careful.

2. Your own problem.

3. See if other people are like this to each other.

Take your time, it may be the reason why you just came into contact with them, and it will be fine after a long time.

It should be that you appear to be more difficult to approach.

Because you didn't take the initiative to communicate with them.

You have a cold personality! Others don't dare to get close to each other easily.

It could be a psychological problem for you.

Why should I talk to you, who do you think you are.

It's just unsociable, it doesn't matter what it is.

Break it down:

1. What you want to ask is that there is nothing to say between yourself and your roommate, and there should be no common language. It shows that you are not able to integrate into the group.

2. Not liking to talk is not a problem, not a shortcoming, you must remember.

3. Not liking to talk is also a kind of personality, and it is also good to establish a personality of your own.

4. Don't worry about things with roommates, after a long time, you naturally have something to say.

Summary: A person who doesn't like to talk, he doesn't have to force himself to change something, some things need to go with the flow, so that he can develop his own personality and form his own qualities. Promote the advantages and avoid the shortcomings.

Is your dorm room six Tomoga leakers?

Let's analyze the specific situation on a case-by-case basis, first of all: look at what kind of question you are asking, what if your question is not good for others? What if the other person brings headphones? What if the issue is a private matter of the other party?

Then: if it's the kind of question that others must be able to ask without touching privacy, it depends on whether you ask one roommate or all (3, 4) roommates, if one roommate doesn't ask you and doesn't dump you, it is not called isolation, it can only mean that the two of you are no longer suitable for friends and communication, if multiple roommates do this, you are isolated by this dormitory.

Third: Think of the solution, if it's not your own problem, it's the problem of the people in your dormitory.

Fourth: change the dormitory, if you don't want or can't change, you can't ask him for help to shoot a tenant (teacher or classmate), and you can't carry it alone, you can find a team with people who hate them, anyway, you have to find ways to help yourself.

Hello: Is his roommate busy and has no time to take care of it?

Is his roommate in a bad mood, not in the mood?

The word isolation is not used correctly, all the roommates do not reply, do not return to the source oak brigade, and do not offend him when asking questions, it is isolation. A single roommate is just ignoring and arrogant.