Blind date without a house, can t you go on a blind date without a car or house?

Just say that there is no one for the time being, and then it can be said that I hope to buy a house after I get married, and I want to be neither humble nor arrogant, and men need to be confident and ...... the mostYou have to tell yourself that you are not without just not needing it for the time being.

Since you can afford to buy a house, let's buy it first. Bought in the woman's question. Ha.

Girls are very realistic now.

Tell him everything that is true beforehand.

Now, everyone advocates the freedom of marriage and love, but due to the pressure of many parties and the influence of various factors, letBlind dateIt has become a faster way to get married.

Some time ago, Real Estate Jun's friend was once again urged to marry by his family. In order not to be urged again, he embarked on a blind date trip arranged for him by the seven aunts and eight aunts. I thought that his emotional path could make progress, but it didn't end well.

After asking carefully, the real estate gentleman finally knew the reason.

Young man, come on a blind date, how old are you? **Work? Bought a house? ”

**People, when are you going to buy a house? ”

How much is your income, do you have a house? ”

Now the blind dates that parents are looking for for their children are all items that are "clearly marked".A house and a car are indispensable。Under the competition of various material conditions, those who do not have a house or a car for the time being or who are paying off the mortgage are naturally defeated.

Blind dates are tied to the house, and some will surely think that girls are becoming more and more realistic. In fact, there are many deep reasons behind this.

On the premise of blind date, marriage may not be entirely for love. On the one hand, it is necessary to fulfill the wishes of the parents, and on the other hand, it is necessary to share the resources of both parties.

This explains why young people pay attention to each other's looks and common interests when they first start dating or blind dates, but the most mentioned are houses, cars and families.

Why is a house a prerequisite for a blind date?

First of all,The association between the house and marriage is not a special case in today's society。According to conventional thinking, the first thing you do when you have money is to settle down. Whether in the city or in the countryside, spend the money on the house.

With the changing living habits of today's young people, most of them want to have their own living space after marriage, so that they must have their own house. Otherwise, how can you live separately from your parents?

Secondly, the main body of the current marriage discussion is basically the group born in the post-85s and post-90s. Due to the impact of the family planning policy, most of this generation are only children, and there are few siblings. In such a situation, not only marriage, but also their every move becomes especially important in the eyes of parents, especially girls.

Since childhood, parents have tried their best to give a carefree life, and if the person who will accompany their daughter through her life in the future does not even have a house, then most of the woman's parents will have some worries and concerns.

After all,A house is the foundation of a safe home, with a house, my daughter's married life does not have too many worries. Moreover, there will always be a comparison psychology between people.

Although we have never advocated comparison, in fact, this culture has always existed. Talking about marriage is a big event, and it will always bring satisfaction or loss if relatives, friends, and neighbors unintentionally mention it. A marriage without a new house may be more of a kind of melancholy and then loss.

Perhaps many people will dismiss such a practice, but have to admit that the house is of great importance in real life.

If you don't have a house, you won't even have a chance to go on a blind date!

**。Actually, my sister and brother-in-law didn't have a car or a house when they got married. At that time, they relied on renting a house to make a living, the elder sister was selling mobile phones in a mobile phone store, and the elder brother was a salesman in an air conditioner.

When the two of them first met their parents, my aunt was very reluctant. I was afraid that my sister would have a hard life in the future, so I dragged on for a long time, watching my sister get older and older. My aunt started to worry about Jane, so the two got married, and their current life is very happy, my brother-in-law now opens a mobile phone store, my sister sells mobile phones in it, and my brother also does some small business, along the way, although it is very bitter, but the heart is very sweet.

**。I also have a friend, the two of them also rented a house and got married, both of them were my high school classmates, they started to fall in love after graduating from high school, until they graduated from Bang Mo University, and finally they got married. At first, the man's family had a car and a house, but because the man's father was seriously ill and needed to spend money on treatment, he spent all the family's savings, resulting in nothing when the two got married.

can only rely on their own efforts to live, until now, the relationship between the two is also very good. He also bought a house, and the house was written in the woman's name, and the man said that he was very grateful to the woman for giving him a chance. I am also very grateful to the woman and can understand her hard work and difficulty.

I am very grateful to the woman for marrying her without hesitation at that time.

**。Some people say that without a house or car, there is no complete home. But if you spend your parents' savings at the beginning, buy a house and a car for yourself, this is not what a young person should do, this is gnawing the old people, although it is not easy to buy a house at the age of 20, but every girl should also give the man a chance, but also should give herself a chance.

Life requires Yundou to work hard and work hard by himself. After all, the parents' belong to the parents. Only those who struggle by themselves are the sweetest and happiest.

What do you think about this?