Married to your first love? Would you like to marry your first love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-12
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. You are only a teenager, according to China, you have not reached the legal age, if you are married, in China, then it is definitely not protected by the law, 2, do you fancy his family background or he really wants you, if you are attracted to each other, why not, but the premise is, this kind of person is sincere or false, is it a long time or a moment? I'm afraid that once the freshness passes, you will become an abandoned woman.

    3. Learn to protect yourself, not to mention that he loves freedom, there is no need to have a home, such a person's general mentality is a playful mentality, an irresponsible attitude, no matter what, if you are willing to gamble with him once, then you should learn to bear the consequences. If you are worried or afraid, you can negotiate with him and make a guarantee that is beneficial to you.

    Bless you. He can definitely get married at the age of thirty, the point is on you, can you get married at 10+ years old? If you plan to get married, see if you are getting married in **, what protection does the local marriage have for both parties, go and understand it first, it will be good for you and the future.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The last sentence is already obvious. You all know the roots. That's already time to get married.

    Although you are not highly educated and old, you have rich experience and mature thinking. There is no gulf between you that cannot be crossed.

    Since you love each other, you can be together.

    The important thing is that you meet on the journey, you are the same kind of people, you know each other, and you can be happy together.

    It is not easy to meet someone in life who is similar to you and understands yourself.

    We look forward to a unique and enviable wedding between you.

    I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If it's really love.

    He: Your first love, your family background is superior, your appearance is good, you are a genius studying in a prestigious university, you have a personality when you walk the world, you can be a person, and most importantly - he loves you.

    You are truly the envy of all women.

    The most envied of all women.

    There was so much pain and pain in the first half of your life, but fortunately, God is fair, and in the second half of your life, you are the person who is the most envied by those who have discriminated against and betrayed you.

    You are the happiest.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you have so many questions, then I think you should think about it carefully, or at least solve some of these doubts before you think about getting married. Men are nearly thirty, and they're actually quite young, and they're not qualified, and you're too young, and you've been through a lot of things, but after all, you're not old enough, so a lot of things are different when you're older than when you're young.

    Although many people say that everything is not a problem with falling in love, but marriage is life after all, not love, if you ask me can you fall in love with him, I will say yes, but if you want to marry him, you have to consider firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea Marriage is not a union of two people, but a fusion of two families Do you think you can fit into his family well Can your family accept him These are all things to consider before marriage.

    Little sister, if you are hesitant, I will give you an opinion, if you really love each other, if you are destined, why don't you contact each other for a few years, and when you are relatively mature, you are qualitative, and you have repaid the loan, and you have made some achievements, such as finding a good unit, having your own small treasury, and you feel that the gap between you is not very big, then consider getting married.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think you are a person who has tasted the hardships of life since he was a child, and grew up with his own hard work and patience, and he has long ceased to naively believe in fairy tales. And when you meet a man who is seen as perfect and outstanding, and it just so happens that he is a man who is not bound by the world and has a wealth of inquisitions. At this time, uneasiness and a hint of inferiority naturally arise.

    His capital is large and can be played. And we, we can't afford to play and can't afford to lose. In the end, it is time to enter this so-called tomb, but there are countless sweet fantasies, a marriage with a stable life, or to withdraw as soon as possible, so as not to get a thousand holes.

    will hesitate.

    My suggestion is, first of all, you have to make sure of his heart, and don't ask him to be chaste, as long as he can treat you wholeheartedly. Let's talk to him.

    Ask your heart.

    This love is perfect.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Those who are married don't care about the first love, the key is to love each other sincerely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The most important thing is his attitude towards you, if he cherishes you very much and loves you very much, then get married, but often people with such superior conditions will not cherish others, because many things he gets are too easy, so you have to see clearly, feel with your heart whether he is really so good, worthy of you to cherish for a lifetime.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think the two of you are much older than each other, have a lot of poor academic qualifications, have different social circles, and presumably have different living habits and views on things, so a hasty marriage will inevitably bring a lot of problems. You are still very young and there are still many unknowns in the future, don't hang yourself from a tree. If he loves you, you love him, and you are responsible for your future, you still need a long run-in, and it is best to wait until you are mentally mature before getting married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Do you know the roots? That is, whether what he is showing in front of you is true. There are too many people who can speak well now. The dead can be said to be alive. Girls have to be cautious and cautious. Then he knows not to know about your life situation.

    If you want to stay with him for a long time, then you need him to love you, and then the family members of both sides agree.

    Age is not a restrictive condition.

    Generally speaking, if there is hesitation, it is not suitable yet.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you really love each other, and you are both willing to get married, just get married, what's so tangled with this! Believe that you can give him a home!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Girl, can you be sure that he is really in love, and that he is also the person you are going to spend your life with? If so, you don't really need to care about your age, you don't have to care about what the outside world thinks, just go on according to your heart! I believe you will be happy!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wait until you reach the legal age of marriage under the Chinese Marriage Law.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    As long as you truly love each other, nothing else is a problem.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    The gap is too big and there will be no good results if you get married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Can I get married? It asks your own heart, and if you love, you don't have to care so much about the outside. If you don't love him, no matter how good he is, it won't give you a sweet feeling!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you are of legal age, you are still willing to marry him, and he is still willing to marry you, so why not.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You also said that he didn't think it was necessary to have a family, and if marriage was the result of a discussion between the two of you, then you have to ask yourself why you want to marry him, and why he wants to marry you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you feel happy and get married, age, status, money, it is not a problem! ~

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    After the beginning, before the end, in the dream, in the clouds. In the end, dust returns to dust, and dust returns to earth. There are many of you in his rich life.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This is a very happy thing I wish the landlord happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    If both parties love each other, it's fine.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If the relationship is good, this is the most perfect!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Of course I do, my husband and I are our first love.

    We've been together since we met, and it's been almost ten years now. He's not the kind of warm guy who can take care of you meticulously, and I'm not a soft woman who can knit scarves for love all night. We have been together for ten years, experienced many hardships, and broke up many times, but we still love each other and never give up.

    We were high school classmates, in fact, at first, he was not the type I liked, probably because of the ignorance of my youth, which made me accept his little note. He has a proactive and optimistic personality, while I am introverted and timid. In the three years of high school, we experienced the first hand-holding, the first hug, the first kiss, and our hearts were always nervous and excited, and of course, we also experienced the obscurity of youth, which was heart-wrenching, and we looked forward to the college entrance examination as if we had experienced a century.

    After the college entrance examination, we were successfully admitted to the same university. When I first went to college, it was like entering heaven, without the discipline of the teacher, without the pressure of studying, I accompanied him to fight Warcraft, he accompanied me to watch dramas, and I wanted to stick together every moment, and I was reluctant to separate. He gave lectures to junior students, and I would definitely listen quietly below, and I would perform on stage at the school theatrical performances, and he would definitely accompany me offstage to take pictures of me.

    We worked as tutors together, put up posters, ate and drank with a little money, and played around. Looking back now, we were really carefree, comfortable, simple, and a wonderful time back then.

    When I was in a period of emotional ignorance, my first love gave me different feelings. Being with your first love is always your most memorable relationship, but you won't consider marrying your first love. Because the love of first love is the purest.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I am willing to marry my first love, but my first love has not come to the point of getting married.

    It is undoubtedly a particularly happy thing for two people to be able to enter marriage from first love. Of course, I am willing to step into the palace of marriage with my first love and hold hands to the end of happiness, but our relationship has not come to this point, it has already broken up and ended.

    The love of first love is always unforgettable. My first love and I met on the Internet, and the two of us were thousands of miles apart, but they were unusually sweet. At that time, I thought that the two of us would be able to enter into marriage, and I also made a lot of preparations for marriage.

    But no one thought that this relationship was still at a distance, and I didn't say much when I broke up, because I knew that I couldn't change it. But up to now, more than ten years have passed since my first love, and I still have a trace of nostalgia in my heart, and I still have a little regret.

    I think he'll stay in my mind for the rest of my life, and I won't be able to go through many ups and downs in my life, and no matter where my emotional life goes, I can't forget him.

    The purity of love always makes people ignorant and fearless, but looking back many years later, it can only leave people with a sigh.

    I want him to be happy, and I want myself to be happy.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Absolutely. The green years are simple and ignorant, and they pass by. Ten years later, when I get together again, I will still be the same as before, warm as I was back then, only to know the bitter nostalgia in his heart, and only then will I know the love for him.

    However, the leading edge is difficult to continue. Another ten years, the north and south of the river, each with their children and children in their own way, thousands of miles apart, lovesick and attentive, looking at each other in the north and south. In the afterlife, the dream of husband and wife can be realized.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If I could marry my first love, of course I would.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If you can marry your first love, you must be willing, because your first love is what you really like, and there are not too many things mixed with it, and you can get married, and you like it very much.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It depends on what the first love looks like, if the first love is beautiful, then of course I will, if the first love gives me a very bad impression, I will never want to remember it again. Then I don't want to marry my first love.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Yes, the first love is the person I like at the beginning, representing my initial appearance, and the person I like at a glance will like it after a few glances.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Willing, but not denying that it is a fixed psychology in the initial stage of love.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    If the first love is very good, and now it is still the same intention, the ability to work is strong, and the support of the parents, I must be willing.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course I am willing, and marrying my first love must be a happier thing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Of course I am willing, this kind of feeling is the purest.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    We have a deep memory of our first love, and the first time must be unforgettable, and the simple and beautiful feeling of the student days cannot be recovered. Of course, there are also first loves who have walked into the marriage hall, and I don't know if this feeling is particularly happy. We miss our first love, we can't forget that ta, time is a terrible thing, the girl you used to like has become beautiful, and you regret that you shouldn't have broken up with her in the first place.

    The girl you like becomes ugly, and you say to your friends that you're glad you didn't stay together, and who knows she'll grow up like this.

    Everyone is growing up, he has become something you don't know, or he has become the person you used to hate the most, do you want to continue to do it all over again?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    First love is the joy of the first youth, not the present.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I don't want to, because I'm in my thirties, I've experienced too many things, it's really good to treat first love as a memory, what I can't get is always the best, and if I get it, I won't cherish it, and at the same time, it will destroy this beauty, and having regrets is the perfect life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Unwilling. Time has changed, time has changed, the environment has changed, and there is no going back.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Most likely, yes. The first point is that as an ordinary person, you can't fully understand your lover, everyone has their own private space, both parties need a sense of distance, distance produces beauty, and it is unrealistic to be transparent with each other. This means that the lover you know is one-sided.

    The second point is that when you are just in love, what you know is only one side of the relationship, and time will deepen the understanding between the two parties. At this time, the lover's actions will have an emotional bonus, as the so-called: the lover's eyes are out of the West.

    But time is the most powerful ** in the world, and the freshness when you first see it, and you get tired of it when you do more.

    It was love at first sight, but after all, they hated each other.

    Thirdly, I believe that the love between the two parties is strongest when they first meet, and over time, this love will gradually precipitate and brew into the wine of family affection, and companionship is the confession of affection. It's nice to have you by my side!

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