Which one should you choose, your first boyfriend or your current boyfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-09
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Choose this now, it's obvious that you yourself feel good about this now! He sometimes cares because he cares about you, and who knows if your first love is playing tricks on you! There is no point in losing a lot of things and coming back.

    Since he was cruel not to be with you in the first place, why should he return to him now when he says he regrets it?! Be assertive! Good luck at the end.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It still depends on which one you really love.

    If you don't know what you think.

    You assume this.

    When the two of them are in the forest, the exit can only accommodate one person to go out.

    And the exit is only opened once.

    In other words, only one of them can survive.

    Which one would you hope would survive?

    Your answer is the one you truly love.

    But I advise you to see what kind of people they are.

    This boyfriend now.

    Although he is more calculating.

    But he loves you very much.

    In his heart, you are more important than his family.

    Prove how much he loves you.

    And your first boyfriend told you that "he will treat you well and listen to you for everything".

    I don't think it's possible.

    If possible.

    You wouldn't have broken up in the first place.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course, I chose the current one. First love, that's just in the past. In fact, there is no one in this world who is specially prepared for you, everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings (if there is really a perfect person, it would be terrible), so you need to run in and communicate with him.

    Just look at "Love Call Transfer", it's a movie.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at your description, biased towards your current boyfriend. As long as you like, choose it, because it's very young now. As long as you are young, you will do what you like, and if you think too much, you will become old. As for the question of the money you think, you think too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Mature point! Now that's good! The current calculation shows that he knows how to cherish, and he doesn't waste it and wants to bring you more, he loves you more than his sister, will he not love you? If you have any grievances against him, just say it, and he will definitely change for you!

    If you are in love for the first time, he will not treat you like that before, and those who regret it are all lies, and there will be no good results!

    I'm afraid you don't understand! Let's keep it simple!

    I've seen and even done bad people and bad things, so I'll talk to you.

    Don't ask for extra points, make friends and communicate if you like!

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'll give you some advice.

    Is that man's first love also you? If yes, don't choose your first love.

    Because ,..When the man said that he missed his first love very much, he couldn't forget his first love, he felt sorry for his first love, he regretted that first love.

    We should be clear that his focus is not on the woman who fell in love with him for the first time, but on the man's own performance in his first love.

    The first love he can't forget is not that he can't forget his first love, but he can't forget his bad performance in his first love, and if he is asked to do it again, he will definitely be able to behave better.

    His regret for his first love is not for his old lover, but for himself.

    He was rude when he kissed for the first time, he was clumsy when he held a girl's hand for the first time, he was so stingy when he was out of fashion when he was dating a girl for the first time, and he was too stingy when he quarreled with a girl for the first time.

    It's these that the man can't let go, not the girl.

    All he misses is his own image.

    He is now asking to be with you, and you will be faced with:

    He didn't know how to cherish it before, and he won't cherish it today!

    You'd better be with what you are now.

    There is no one without shortcomings.

    You have to learn to be tolerant. Learn to experience!

    In this way, the two of them can last for a long time.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I choose the current one! Why did you separate in the first place of your first love? Ever wondered about this question? Man always knows to cherish when he loses, maybe he is just not used to being separated from you. And now this one hurts you like this when he hasn't lost it, which shows that he really cares about you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    - I'm guessing you're still a middle school student.

    If it's bigger, you'll understand.

    Gao Shuai: For the current real society, if you are not a star or rich and powerful, you are nothing at all.

    The choice still has to be promising, and the two people are happy together.

    Also beware of the ex's who said they regretted it.

    Maybe his mentality is just that he just broke up and wants to fill it.

    If you really cherish it, why did you leave at that time?

    However, first love is generally more memorable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Pick one that considers you.

    A person's ability is not in height, and appearance can be measured horizontally.

    If you just want to be in love. Just find one that can give you happiness.

    If it's a husband. I still feel sorry for you.

    As for buying things cheaply. Of course, the practicality of things is very good.

    Kindness. Let's get better.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Choose the one that really likes you.

    He loves you more than you love him.

    The one that makes you feel safe.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    So which one are you in love with now? Whichever one you love, choose whichever one you like. I think true love can contain a person ...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Which one is the most Choose. , love money and choose the best bank.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's gone, it's gone.

    Don't look back.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    What you like...It's so easy, give it to me.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I feel more in love with my first love, because my first love is a boy's first relationship, and it is also my favorite person, and it is also the relationship that I have worked hard for.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    My opinion is that boys love their first love more, because all boys have a first love complex, and their feelings for their first love are the most sincere, and they are the most selfless and dedicated to their first love, and they will not be mixed with any material relationship.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Boys love their first love more or love the current one more, depending on the boy himself, everyone has a different view of the relationship and the feeling of different people is also different, love and what kind of person to fall in love with is like a mirror, reflecting what kind of person he is, sometimes the first love gives people a better feeling, the current because he has been by his side, so more trivial things in life, may love the first love more is also a good memory.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This depends on whether the current is better than the first love, men prefer excellent people, as long as you are good enough, you will get a person's sincerity, so you have to improve yourself, make yourself better, surpass his first love, instead of putting your mind on unnecessary worries.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think I have to dwell on this, who can guarantee that I will only love one person in my life? And why should you care about things that have passed, first love will only be stored in a corner of the body like a certain file, if you don't want to open it, it will never be opened, and the current one is the one who will face it every day and will love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    My opinion on this is that what boys like is always their first love, and they regard their first love as a benchmark in their love life. The criteria for choosing a mate are also on par with the first love, so the current one will also be compared.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think I still love my first love more, because my first love is very simple, without any entanglement of interests, and I can't forget it for a lifetime.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Naturally, I love the current one more, if I love my first love more, why should I be with the current one, this is difficult to explain, but it is inevitable that there are some male compatriots, who always miss their first love.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    I think boys still love the current one more, because the first love is in the past, and it was just a good memory, and I didn't know what love was at that time.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think it's the first love, because everyone can't forget their first love, they are very impressed by the first love, and the first love also gave them a lot of love, so I think they love the first love more.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think I should love the current one more. The first love is said to be very beautiful, but the first time you fall in love, the feelings are not so strong at all, just because of play, but for the current one, you will use 100% of your heart to her, and you love her enough.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course, it's the current one, although the first love is always unforgettable, but the more important thing is now, he will hide the beauty of his first love in his heart, but go on with the current one.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    loves the first love more, because the first love is the mate selection standard in his mind, so the weight is different, but for the current one, some boys are just to satisfy the emptiness in their hearts.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    must love the current one more, if he doesn't love the current one very much, he won't choose to be with his current girlfriend, and about the first love, she will have a certain sense of existence in everyone's heart, so don't care about it specially.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think it's the first love, after all, what you can't get is always restless, and the first love will have regrets, and this regret will beautify the first love, so that the boy can't forget it.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Of course, I love the current one more, although every boy will have a very memorable first love, but they also understand that the first love can only be a thing of the past, so they prefer the current one.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I think boys must love their first love more, because when they first love, they are very innocent, and the relationship between the two people is very deep.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    The second girlfriend is often the one who leaves pain for the boys.

    For men, first love is always the most special and unforgettable. The heart is so big, there is a person who comes in, there must be a person out, if the memory is expressed in the heart with traces, then the first love is in your heart full of words wishing you happiness.

    Many years later, boys will still remember their first love, after all, the love at that time, as long as the four eyes meet, they will feel the heartbeat, and the simple and youthful happiness is something that everyone will miss.

    First love is a feeling, and it is also a feeling that most boys have. For boys, first love is the sweetest and most beautiful, and the first love does not need to look at material, work, or whether it is suitable, as long as you fall in love with each other. The first time I fell in love, I was young, and what I did was very naïve, I didn't have to think about the future, I just looked at the present, and I couldn't extricate myself from the vigorous love.

    However, the second girlfriend is often the one who leaves pain for boys. The first love is the happiness that remains in the memory, and the second breakup is the pain in the man's heart.

    When you fall in love for the second time, the man will think more and be more experienced. The second woman of the man will leave scars after the breakup, whenever I recall, happiness and sadness haunt each other and are indistinguishable, even if it is more pain than happiness, but it always makes you can't help but miss, and the heartache that comes with sourness is brought by missing.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Generally speaking, the first love has a special plot in the minds of boys, but there are also people who like this kind of person, and it also depends on their different feelings towards their respective objects.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Summary. If it's not a matter of principle, just because of a misunderstanding or a petty fight, then you must face your heart, if you really love the current and have no nostalgia for the ex, there will be no problem.

    What was the reason for your breakup with your ex-boyfriend?

    If it is a matter of principle, then there must be no turning back, and problems that have not been solved in the past may not be solved with the passage of time.

    If it's not a matter of principle, just because of a misunderstanding or a petty fight, then you must face your heart, if you really love the current and have no nostalgia for the ex, there will be no problem.

    Being able to ask this question shows that you still have nostalgia for your ex and don't like your current one that much.

    Can't forget your ex.

    But there is no way to let go of this incumbent.

    Is it convenient to ask why you and your ex broke up?

    Because he was talking to the woman, he apologized to me later and told me to go to him.

    But I can't let go of my current boyfriend.

    Trapped in memories.

    You can't forget your ex because the reason for your breakup seems solvable to you, or do you just think about his good qualities and think it's worth looking back on.

    Your ex and other girls crossed the line with words, you couldn't accept it at the beginning, but now you can accept it again?

    If you still can't accept it when you think about it, don't look back.

    The problems that led to your separation, and the problems that are still unforgettable for you now, mean that they have not been resolved.

    You only cherish the good memories of the past, or maybe the current is not as good as your predecessor in some aspects, or the two of you are not good enough for you to forget the past.

    But if there is an irreconcilable contradiction with your predecessor, you must not look back.

    It's important to cherish the moment.

    It's better not to. It also gives you a chance to rekindle your old feelings.

    You may be drowning in the good memories of your past and forgetting the present.

    And it's not fair to the incumbent, isn't it.

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