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Everyone has desires, but how we control these desires and make them useful to us will make us better is a science and a kind of wisdom. Desires are endless, and it is impossible for everyone to satisfy all their desires, so it is what we need to do to keep him at a stable level of moderation. In my opinion, we can start from the following aspects.
1. Learn to enjoy life. Don't always pursue shadows, impractical things, or even things that have nothing to do with yourself, because only when a person puts in the effort, is down-to-earth, and diligent to do what he obtains is the most real and truly belongs to himself. But with some inferior means or take some shortcuts, in the end will suffer the consequences, there are many good things in our lives, so we must learn to enjoy our lives, don't blindly see the good of others, do not see the pain and difficulties of others, I can live a good life, and naturally it will slowly become better and better.
Second, don't be ambitious. Some people will always live in the past, and some people will always live in anticipation of the future, never make actual actions, blindly think about how their future will develop, but all this is closely related to their own present. Don't always think too far into the future and get something that you don't deserve.
It's about knowing how to cherish what you already have and learning to enjoy life in the moment. <>
3. Consider the consequences of his. If one is too involved, then one should think about what will happen if these greeds are released completely. Whether it is life or history, it has taught us that if we have been indulging our desires, and then doing whatever it takes for our desires, then we will inevitably go to an extreme.
The consequences he had for me were something that many people could not bear.
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First of all, you must calm your mind, don't have too much greed, let yourself take life lightly, and don't pursue anything too much.
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Tell yourself that those who are content are always happy, and don't have too much greed, which will only make you more difficult and will have a lot of pressure in life.
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You can warn yourself that such things are wrong, let yourself put an end to this greed from the bottom of your heart, and slowly change it.
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Let go of obsessions and study often; Learn slowly. Don't want what you shouldn't have, don't want what you don't want, don't want what you can't want; Stay away from overly worldly, greedy people.
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You should learn to be content, don't be dissatisfied with some things, and cherish what you have, so that you can live a happier life.
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We must cherish the people and things around us, learn to be satisfied, and be grateful for what we have, so that we can change.
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You must tell yourself that contentment is the most important thing, and that only by being content can you be happy and make yourself happy.
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So to sum up, we can know that if you are very greedy, you can find ways to distract yourself from your greed. You can look for ways to relax yourself and raise your mind at the same time.
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We must adjust our mentality, don't put too much pressure on ourselves, and don't have too many desires, only in this way can we make our lives easier.
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Personally, I think that if our greed is very strong, then we must restrain our greedy thoughts and understand that people can't be too greedy.
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Greed is also a catalyst for improving the quality of life, and when greed is too strong, it will be much better to look at what you already have.
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Then you need to let yourself know that you are sufficient, and you must also understand that your bottom line is in the **, and don't violate your own principles.
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I think it's very difficult, because of the ambitious person, it's very difficult for you to let him settle down with the encounter, and the indifferent person, you let him get up, it's also difficult to fight for the cause, I think it's good to have a desire, it's the driving force to move forward, the key is that your efforts are proportional to your greed, don't want this and that, brush ** and play games at home every day, then you are not poor who is poor.
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If you want to overcome your greed, you must first know contentment, no matter what you do? Stop now.
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How to restrain your greed is certain. Be sure to restrain your greed and not too much.
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1. Be grateful for what you have.
A contented person is a person who knows how to be grateful. A person who knows how to be grateful is also a blessed person, and he will inevitably be a joyful person.
2. Don't complain about what you don't have.
A contented person does not complain about what he does not have. The discontented person often complains, and a person who likes to complain will neither be happy nor happy.
3. Don't compare with others.
The contented person is satisfied according to the basic needs of life, and he is content with food and clothing. You don't need to compare yourself to others. Those who compare themselves with others will always find people who have more than themselves, and they will never be satisfied.
4. Ask less, give more.
Another characteristic of a contented person is that he asks less and gives more. He learned that "it is more blessed to give than to receive." A giver must be a joyful person and will be happier.
You must remember that a contented person is a wise person, and a wise person is also a contented person, as long as you are truly content, you will never be greedy for money again, and you will also find that the world is so beautiful, and find your true joy and happiness!
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Regarding greed, I provide a cartoon of Zhang Yanjun to illustrate the problem!
A little brother at this age would be like this
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