How to change your narrow mindedness, how to change your narrow mindedness

In daily life, you are worried about some small things in Changshawo, and you have suffered some small losses, and you are very angry and sad, then you may have a narrow problem, how to adjust? Brother will teach you some small methods here, set some small goals to improve your narrow-mindedness.

The higher the position, the less trivial things you will pay attention to.

Narrow-mindedness will reduce people's ability to tolerate frustration, poor mood, and inability to make more friends, so narrow-mindedness is harmful and not beneficial, to change this bad character, it is recommended to pay attention to the following aspects:

2. Deal with difficulties and setbacks in a positive way. It is impossible not to encounter difficulties and setbacks in the journey of life, and it is inevitable to cry bitterly, but blindly worrying and sorrowful will not only not solve the problem, but also not good for physical and mental health, so we should learn to deal with it positively in a problem-solving way. When you encounter difficulties, calmly think about what the reasons are and how to solve them.

Which method is best? Then make a plan to follow through. If you do so, you'll feel your progress in action, and there's no time to lament.

3. Broaden your horizons and mind. In his spare time, he walks out of the campus family.

Go out into nature and feel its vastness. The vast sea will make you feel small, and you can feel it when you climb high and look far away"Climb the East Mountain and Xiaolu, climb Mount Tai and the small world"The heroic spirit, coming out of a narrow personal circle, will not be like"The frog at the bottom of the well"In that way, he only saw his own momentary gains and losses.

4. Handle interpersonal relationships correctly and integrate"Ego"on"Big me"Among them, there have been since ancient times"The strong have their own strong players"said. If you don't recognize this and don't want to make friends with people who disagree or are stronger than you, you'll always be stuck in your own circle.

A1Enrich your knowledge. A person's mind is closely related to his knowledge and cultivation. The more knowledge a person has, the higher his foothold will be, and his horizons will be broadened accordingly. At this time, you will be able to take some small things and small profits, put them down, and throw them away.

2.Gain experience. Narrow-mindedness is closely related to lack of knowledge, shallow experience, less opportunities to contact society, and less knowledge and experience accumulated in the mind, and it is easy to have one-sidedness in understanding and absolutism and extremism in looking at problems.

Once radical understanding is generated, they will be stubborn and unable to tolerate people and things that are contrary to their own views. "Once the sea was difficult to water, except for Wushan, it is not a cloud." Generally speaking, the wider a person's experience, the higher his knowledge, the more open-minded he will be, and the more calm and calm his mood will be.

3.Give up being selfish. Narrow-mindedness and selfishness are "twin sisters".

Narrow-minded people set their sights on themselves, are self-respecting, stubborn, always and everywhere proceed from their own interests, and try their best to exclude "dissidents" in their interactions, and as a result, they end up in the cold. The neglect of the courtyard and the shrinking of the social circle will inevitably bring about loneliness, loneliness and emptiness. If we set a positive life goal for ourselves and take a farther view, our gains and losses will be nothing, and if we put our eyes out of the narrow personal circle and put aside the "self-centeredness", we will not be concerned about things, and only by being "selfless from the bottom of our hearts" can we "have a wide heaven and earth".

Repair Qi Zhiping, the last thing is to level the world.

If you are self-improving, you can open your mind.

There are many ways to do this, volunteer, take the initiative to help others, and try to let go of self-centered priorities.

When you feel the gratitude of others, you will also feel warmth.

It can also be the cause of narrow-mindedness, and family factors account for most of it. It's a good thing that I've realized that I'm narrow-minded. When you encounter a problem, can you first find the cause from yourself, can you not think about who to blame, but first face the problem and think about how to solve it.

Most people are easy to fall into emotions when they encounter problems, and how can people who are entangled in too many emotions be broad-minded? It is good for people to have self-knowledge, in addition to self-knowledge, they must also have self-control, be able to know their own shortcomings and control their bad emotions, and empathize when considering problems.

Question: What should I do?

Help others open their minds.

In the answer. It is not easy for everyone to increase their knowledge, look at the people and things around them, and think about problems in their own shoes. When you see more, think more, understand more, your mind will naturally be open-minded.

Be tolerant of things and take the initiative to care about others and ask questions.

I suggest that you reflect on yourself often, and even whenever you are free, reflect on whether I am doing well. Wouldn't it be better to do it differently? Smile at anyone, be it a colleague, a superior, a customer, a friend, or a stranger on the street, a salesman, a homeless person, etc., smile when you don't know what to say, smile before you say anything, and smile from the bottom of your heart.

You have to think that anybody has a good side to him, and for that I have to smile at him. Stick with it for a while, and you'll find that the world is not the same as it used to be. Create opportunities to talk to others, talk to the taxi driver, talk to the receptionist at the front desk of the unit, talk to the chef who sells food in the canteen, and say to anyone who has the opportunity to talk, if you want to be a threesome, you must have my teacher, listen to other people's opinions, and express your own opinions.

If you have low self-esteem and don't dare to express your remarks in front of familiar people, you might as well try to talk to strangers first, such as taxi drivers, and slowly you will find that your opinions also have many highlights. And more importantly, you don't have to plan for a long time, start right away, start showing your beautiful smile to the first person you meet now, and you will be rewarded right away. ]

This is a manifestation of a person's character, people are different, and they are very smug and careful. It is not so easy to say that it is not so easy to change, even if it is changed for a while, when it encounters a critical moment, it exposes its true face again. It's just that when you encounter a problem, let yourself try to think about the opposite side of the best.

For example, I bought a dress and then didn't get satisfied, I just thought so, come on, it's a loss of a hundred quick bucks, hehe. It's not so uncomfortable to think about it this way, although it's self-deception. ]

It's a problem, it's just that your personality can't be changed, like I sometimes feel that I'm too stingy, and I know that some people don't like me like this, and they just want to lose their temper once in a while. Take your time, let yourself relax in advance, let your personality change slowly, it will definitely not work all of a sudden, and it will be much better to put it in your stomach in advance].

Listen to me, it's true, that's how I walked, to some big mountains or the sea or to climb mountains, to swim. I also exercised like this, I myself am from Guangzhou, and now I am so arrogant, super powerful. ]