Regarding friendship, I hope you can help me analyze it. 10

Well, it's true that there are still a lot of people like that.

In fact, such a person is in love with vanity.

Lack of self-worth and persistence.

There are no principles of their own.

Need to look up to others from the envy and admiration of others.

Gain the value of your own existence.

In fact, they themselves are very fragile and selfish in their hearts.

Can't stand the blows and setbacks.

Don't pay too much attention to such people.

Don't make irresponsible judgments about her.

Let her be.

As long as you know it yourself.

In fact, sometimes I think they are quite pitiful.

That girl's personality should be a typical Leo personality (of course, not that she is a Leo), taking meeting new people as a sense of accomplishment, loving face, and her self-boasting is actually hoping that others can also praise her.

If you are very good at reading other people's faces and can pat her ass at the right time, she can go to the soup for you, become your arm and become your gun; If you are the kind of person who "others are good to me, I will be good to others", you may sometimes feel "why is she so annoying", then you can only be an ordinary friend with her, you can't be a best friend, for people with a temper like her, it is recommended that you keep a proper distance, only be a good friend, don't be the best friend, the relationship is too close and prone to unnecessary conflicts.

It shows that she actually has a strong inferiority complex, showing off or something is to comfort her heart, to escape the unhappiness she encountered with her good friends before, and she feels that it is a lifetime when she just makes a friend, and there are two reasons for this, she will say in front of you that there are two possibilities, one is to let you know that she is a person with a very good interpersonal relationship, and she may also be afraid of losing a friend like you, and the other is vanity. People always have to find something to prove that they are good, don't they? In fact, everyone has disadvantages and advantages, try to see her advantages, and keep a certain safe distance between friends.

In fact, this kind of girl is quite annoying, self-righteous, and loves to show off. You also count when you meet this kind of friend. Just listen to it and take it to heart.

However, this kind of person has no scheming, straightforwardness, and boasting about the sea (meaning: talking a lot, smiling) Although it is sometimes annoying to make friends with her, she will not think about calculating anyone. If you really can't stand being with her, find an excuse to move.

There are many such people, and the landlord doesn't have to worry too much.

Things gather like things, people divide by groups, and friendship should not be deliberately maintained, nor can it be deliberately maintained. Friendships between people are inherently difficult to maintain, from birth to death. Different stages of life require different friends.

What's more, there are also different educational backgrounds, family environments, and personality traits, and everyone will face further education, employment, marriage, childbirth, and survival. There are indeed many and complex factors in this. Friendship is good as it comes naturally, the three views are in line with the like-minded and can talk about the shirt chain, you can start friendship, you can maintain friendship with peace of mind, mutual tolerance, and willingness to help each other to maintain friendship, old friends who have not seen each other for many years are still intimate and not alienated is the state we hope for the most.

But even if you find that the other party is different from before, don't complain, people are malleable and fickle, and you won't be tired of looking at friendship calmly, even if you are no longer friends, you should leave some morality, and don't force yourself to get together if you are not a type of person. Many people only have a common language for a short period of time, or have similar values, so it is rare for them to be relatively close, to be able to maintain a certain sense of convergence day after day, year after year, or even for a few years or even a long time, and to chat and interact with each other freely. Personally, I am particularly concerned about my friends, and in recent years, I have had little contact, and I happened to bump into each other on social software, and found that we still miss each other.

And at present, one of the criteria for judging social ability or ant sun power in society is about the more friends you make, the better, and many people's so-called friends are not weighty and quality, and the starting point is not to find someone to talk to, but how many people use all kinds of friends to make signboards, to create their own image of being a social expert. This kind of business is understandable, there are many people who are willing to accompany the performance, just agree with each other about this value, the most speechless thing is that people who have nothing to do with this kind of friend show will be pulled behind the back of people who love to pretend to be familiar with them as props, relying on this person and other people in their circle are not familiar, even if they are not familiar with each other, no one will feel wrong if they talk nonsense. Feelings are not given, they are generated, it is not the water in the water dispenser, it is gone, so every drop is precious, but a mountain spring, as long as there is power in the ground, it will flow out.

What is really precious is that motivation, that is, the basis of affection, two people happily experience intimate conversations together, have empathy, have feelings, continue to accompany them, and then at some point in time find that they are no longer harmonious, so they bless each other and go away. Then when I meet the next person, I have joy and feelings. If a person regrets the cost of money and time, I think it is reasonable but selfish, and if it is a pity that he has feelings for a person, it is terrible.

From beginning to end, what keeps two people together is not feelings, but the comfortable experience of getting along. As for the longing for the other party and the dislike of dedication, that is the result, not the real cause of giving.

1. There are mutual debts. If you owe each other, you will get closer to each other, from the beginning of the good feeling to maintain, to the later debt to maintain, this is how friends are maintained.

2. Give positive feedback to friends. I did a particularly bad job of receiving gifts from friends and never telling them, but I received them and I loved them. Every time, the other party couldn't wait and asked me, "Did you receive it?"

I'm so embarrassed. Friends have given us gifts and helped us, so be sure to tell them directly, I like it, I'm touched – that's positive feedback.

In fact, many relationships are maintained and deepened by many, many positive feedbacks. Many people think that the reason why friends are friends is that no matter what you do, friends can understand. In fact, if you don't say it, she will never understand.

3. Show up at important moments for friends. The hardest thing we have in life is that you are not there when I need it. If you think about it, it's quite important to show up at an important moment for your friends.

When a friend falls out of love, quits a job, gets married, or gets cleaved, we all have to show up at these points in time, because these are the times when friends need us the most. At this point, I am very good at work, and I usually have no time to chat with friends. But if a friend encounters something difficult, I will be the first to step up and help.

I think friendship is a kind of fate.

As the saying goes, there is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, but there is no chance to meet on the other side. Friendship is the same, even if you don't contact each other and get together far away, as long as the fate is still there, you can meet the opportunity and feel the same as back then. And the fate of the starer is gone, even if you meet, you will feel uncomfortable.

So I don't think there's a need to deliberately maintain friendship, everything is fate.

Friendship needs to be based on sincerity, honesty, understanding and trust, and these require constant mutual respect, mutual trust, mutual understanding and support on both sides of the friendship. Friendship should be based on shared values and beliefs, it must be polite, and both parties should have an open and honest conversation, which can generate mutual understanding and respect, and the most important thing is to create a harmonious atmosphere.

Rely on the sincerity of both sides, only if both sides pay their feelings and go both ways, it makes sense to shout Tong Zhi. My friendship is like this, when I am free, I will see and meet when I am free, I will be busy with myself, and when I am free, I will share and share my life or what has happened, and I will see funny things.

I think friendship is maintained by character. I think that the friendship of answering you should be that you understand me, I understand you, I have nothing to say, I don't have to meet often, but when I have difficulties, I will help you in time, thank you for the two of you.

Friendship needs to be based on sincerity, understanding and trust, and these require constant mutual respect, trust, understanding and support on both sides of the friendship. Friendship should be based on shared values and beliefs, it must be polite, and both parties should have a frank and honest chat, which can generate mutual understanding and respect, and make the friendship more long-lasting.

I think friendships need to be genuine and shared. Fate can only be said to be the beginning of friendship, but to maintain this friendship, we need to constantly polish this relationship. You haven't been in his world for a long time, what can you do to maintain this boring relationship?

Right. It is necessary to communicate more with each other and share more, so that the relationship can be maintained as soon as possible.

Rely on honoring parents and supporting the elderly. Because, if you don't maintain the people who love you the most, to what extent will the friendship be maintained? Filial piety comes first.

I think the best friendship is to play together, not tired, not intrigued, in a bad mood, comfort each other, and share together.

There won't be a lot of real friendship, the important thing is that you feel comfortable getting along, no matter the distance, time, it's natural to get along again, you will greet each other when you have something, maybe you won't chat every day, but you will definitely be born with a lack of people who are slippery.

When you are young, friendship is sincere for sincere.

As we grow older, we grow up and grow up, and true friendship also needs material, wealth, and identity to match each other.

Ordinary friendship is similar to work, and it's okay when you're grinding together, but after being separated for a while, you slowly forget it. It's just a passer-by who accompanies each other for a while.

Friendship doesn't need to be maintained, it's just called out to play when you're happy, and called out to accompany you when you're unhappy, and friendship is to accompany yourself to be happy and sad.

The first class relies on personal charm, the second class relies on their own strength, the third class relies on patting horses, and the fourth class wants to drill camps.

Friendship is one in which everyone respects, understands and tolerates each other.

Friendship - it is the music that embellishes the youthful and holy life, and it is the hymn of the incomparably beautiful youth. In their own lives, people have to take on all kinds of opportunities and make many friends. However, in any case, a person's thoughts of his friends who share weal and woe when he is fighting hard are probably the most precious in his life!

Friendship should be pure and light.

Throughout the ages, the friendship of people with lofty ideals is great and untarnished, which is different from the "friendship of villains", it is not a friendship of wine and meat, let alone a friendship of money, it is a symbol of noble quality. Lu Xun and the "Five Heroes of the Left Alliance" are a good example. In fact, Lu Xun and several members of the "Five Heroes of the Left Alliance" had only met once or twice, and in the eyes of ordinary people, there was no friendship between them.

In fact, on the contrary, although Lu Xun did not have frequent contact with these heroes, the friendship between them was strong and thick, and until the "Five Heroes" bravely took up righteousness, Lu Xun still respected and admired them. Water is the purest thing in the world, the source of all things, it is free of impurities, it is free of dirt, it is a symbol of nobility. Pure friendship is like water, transparent, undisguised, unpretentious, and never hypocritical.

I also have many friends, even if we don't get together very often, but when it counts, they come back to help and laugh with me when they are happy. On weekdays, chatting together, learning together with them in the ocean of knowledge, these will gather into a clear, forever untainted stream, flowing in my heart, like a spring into water, is the element of my life. My friendship with my friends is always as clear as water.

Friendship is two figures under an umbrella, two pairs of bright eyes on a desk. Friendship, it is two small flowers in the ideal soil, it is two notes on a magnificent movement.

Let's cheer "Long live friendship"!

Write down your friendship in the truest way!!

Invisible friends.

People in the West often say: God will bless you. People in the East believe that bodhisattvas will manifest spirits. People believe that fate can dominate everything, and no one can escape the control of fate. But I think that man will conquer the sky, and the person who is a friend of fate is the person of himself.

This kind of person takes care of fate, but does not feast on it; Accept fate, but not cowardly. When lucky, he will tease his good fortune; When he is unlucky, he will ridicule his bad luck. He does not underestimate the power of fate, nor does he overestimate the value of fate.

The ancients used to say:"Mentors and friends"。A good friend can not only share your joys and pains, but also correct your mistakes in time so that you don't continue to make mistakes.

Fate also has this power, when you make a mistake, it will make you suffer a little, punish you a little, but if you are obsessed, you don't listen to him"Friends"and he will depart from you.

Be a friend of fate, and you will get a lot of inspiration and insight. Lu Youqing, who died of cancer last year, once said: Don't be sad for me, fate just played a little joke on me.

Don't shy away from my condition, I hope my friends will come and trouble me often. He is the one who is a friend of fate. What fate taught him was:

Life and death are both natural phenomena, flowers must bloom and flowers will fall, and sunrise must have sunset. Life is in a hurry, cherish the people and things around you, and live every day to the fullest.

In Chinese history, there is a poet I admire very much, and he is also a friend of fate - Su Shi. At the beginning, he was demoted to Huangzhou, and he said in a letter to Li Chang:"Although we are old and poor, we have the truth in our hearts and hearts, and we must talk and laugh in the moment of death and life.

With such sincere bravery and such free and easy feelings, it is completely believable under the pen of Su Dongpo, who has been in the sky for most of his life.

This friend of fate made him realize that his biggest problem in the past was the exposure of talent. Su Dongpo's introspection is the arrangement of fate, and it is an extremely sincere self-analysis.

He gradually returned to innocence and etherealism. Fate gave him a hard material life, and he had to cultivate the land himself, and appreciate the primitive meaning of nature and life.

There are many arrogant people who claim to be the masters of fate, and the humble people are willing to be slaves of fate, how can they be friends with fate?

Fate is invisible and intangible, you don't have to look up, you don't have to bend down to look for it, it's there for you, in your body, in your heart. Be optimistic about him, so that the heart is baptized again and again, and you are a friend of fate.