Why do you like someone who is more than a decade older than you, but you don t dare to talk to him?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Problems of social perceptions. I always feel that after talking, I will be gossiped and so on, and I am worried about this, so I dare not say it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello, will liking someone who is a decade older than you ever get results? People often mention that marriage is arranged by God, this sentence has been passed down for thousands of years, as the fate of two people is not determined by the age difference, but whether the two people are in character, language, hobbies, personality and discord, so that they can not get together, which has nothing to do with the age difference. Whether you can get to the end depends on how you face emotions and what you do and what you do together.

    And when the society is different about love marriage, but with money and wealth to help the love marriage, not to mention the difference of more than ten years, that is, the same age to fall in love, but also did not go to the result, when you are rich, both sides love vigorously, in you towards the vulgarity of life is, but also the birds in the forest fly separately. Therefore, people should cherish fate. Life is precious, love is more valuable, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown.

    I hope to treat love in life as the most precious thing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It doesn't matter that you fall in love with someone who is ten years older than you, there is no age gap in love, but it is important that you are sure that you both have a real foundation of love. As the saying goes, love is regardless of height and age, like is a feeling, like is like, there is no shame in Shibi's, love is love, don't feel pressure because you fall in love with someone older than yourself, just let it be.

    A woman older than you cares most about not that you are younger than her, but mentally, whether you are really mature. Your current hesitation is the biggest damage to her psyche. It will affect her final decision: whether she can be with you or not.

    If you are truly in love with each other, you must be brave enough to take on the responsibilities of a man. Give each other a promise of home. Reassure the other person. If you are just impulsive, I advise you to let go as soon as possible, and not to hurt in the name of love.

    Now in society, the tolerance for love is already very high, and falling in love with a woman ten years older than yourself is not a shocking thing, just like the article and Ma Yili, no matter what they have experienced, they will tolerate each other in the end, this is love, not age.

    If it is true love and decide to walk the second half of your life hand in hand, then I think you should listen to the opinions of your family, your family is against it, there must be their reason, your parents, will never harm you, so listen to your parents' opinions, don't worry, after all, it is your own happiness, and you should be cautious.

    Also, are you sure that you have love, not a crush on this girl, don't make decisions blindly, do you know her? If you say it yourself, I am love, I know her, and I am sure that I love her, then good, I can only say, congratulations on finding your true love, even if tens of millions of people oppose it, I think it doesn't matter if you are happy yourself.

    But when someone doubts or even opposes you, you still hesitate, indicating that the love is not deep enough, so your parents love you the most, listen to their opinions, don't do things that you regret, and wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It doesn't matter if you like it, the key is that he doesn't have a family.

    It's normal to like someone who is 10 years older than you, but I'm afraid that I haven't thought about the consequences, and in the end, I may get a scar if I don't see results. You can think about it rationally, if it is still feasible between you, you can try to develop, it is very simple to like someone, it takes courage to fall in love with someone, but it will be difficult to get along, and being able to get along is the most important thing in order to achieve positive results.

    Isn't there a song that sings: It's always easy to fall in love, it's too difficult to get along, don't force it if it's not yours.

    Look at what kind of person he is, think about what kind of result you want, if you just want feelings, you can just talk about feelings. Hope you can handle it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Twenty-year-old girl, you must take care of yourself, I don't want you to regret it. Because I was also 20 years old a few years ago, I felt that my fatherhood complex was also very heavy, and later I realized that it was an illusion. Because I want someone to be petted, someone to help me at work, and in the end, that man will not give up his family for you.

    All he can give you is temporary happiness, but long-term pain.

    Escape while you're not stuck in the mud, keep your distance, be a good girl, and find your true Prince Charming!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at whether he is good or not, whether he looks good or not.

    Questions. I'm eighteen years old, and the other person is sixteen years older than me.

    It's not good-looking, and it's not very good.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What it's like to like someone who is more than ten years older than you may only know best, after all, everyone's feelings are different, feelings are very complicated, and each experience is different.

    Generally, a man who is more than ten years older than you may be mature and steady, and he knows how to take care of you, and when you live with him, there is always a feeling of being taken care of, and maybe you will feel very secure! I think he is a good man worth entrusting for life.

    It's just that after you go out, if he looks older than you, you may have an uncomfortable feeling, if you care too much about other people's evaluations, you will be even more uncomfortable, if you don't care about other people's evaluations, as long as you feel comfortable and happy, mature and stable men are actually very good, as long as you like it.

    The key is that the other party is not married, if the other party is already married, it is useless for you to like him, it is difficult to achieve happiness if you destroy someone else's marriage, so it is very complicated to say that you like a person who is more than ten years older than yourself, everyone's feelings are different, and the situation is not the same, and the specific situation has to be analyzed in detail.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I like a person who is more than ten years older than me, and I feel very entangled at this time, because I like him very much, and he can also give himself the sense of security he wants, but because of the age gap, both parties also have a lot of problems to solve, and at this time the heart is more entangled.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you really fall in love, don't give up. Age is not a gap. It is not easy to meet someone you love, we should not give up easily, it is a very happy thing to be with someone you love, and you will become more mature.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It feels very good to like someone who is more than 10 years older than me, because he knows a lot, can teach you a lot, and feels very safe around him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you like someone who is ten years older than you, you will feel very secure, and the other party will be very mature in doing things, and you will be more harmonious when you get along.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's a very happy feeling to like someone who is more than ten years older than me, because I already have an uncle who is with such a person, which makes people feel that their lives are very stable.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I feel like I'm going to have a lot of difficulty if I want to be with him, but I don't mind his age, I just want to try to be with him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If the person we like is ten years older than ourselves, we should think about whether our love for him is enough to sustain us on with him. The biggest problem in the relationship between young and old is the age difference, sometimes the two will disagree because of the age gap, which will make us feel very uncomfortable in the process of getting along with each other. In addition, when people get old, they will gradually expose a lot of inconveniences in life.

    Whether we are willing to take care of each other wholeheartedly when they are old is also a point that we need to think about seriously.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Age should not be a barrier to love. If you love him, then don't give up and keep getting along with him. If you don't love it, then break up, but don't use age as an excuse.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If the other party has a certain economic foundation and loves you enough, ten years older, in fact, the problem is not big, the key is whether he has the qualifications and economic foundation, which can allow you to live the life you want to live, if there is that, others will not say anything.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Since it is a relationship, it should not be defeated by age, and ten years older is not very big now, often the other half is a little older and more secure.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you like each other, the 10-year gap is not a problem, and in today's materialistic society, as long as you like each other, the age gap is not a problem.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Should. If he cares for you and can give you enough security and a sense of belonging, age will not be a restriction between you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    should continue with him, there is no age limit in love, and if the relationship between two people is particularly good, this relationship should continue to develop.

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