Love a girl who is 4 years older than herself! What to do with 23VS27!!

Updated on society 2024-02-08
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Feelings cannot be controlled.

    True love knows no age, geography and space.

    The current social wind. Sister and brother love is also a big trend.

    So don't hesitate to worry about it.

    Maybe there is a problem that needs to be solved.

    It is the elders of both sides.

    Love, marriage. It is best to get the support and affirmation of the elders.

    What's more, it's not good to say, it's not very lucky.

    Men have a shorter lifespan than women.

    Male and female matching. It is not an undesirable phenomenon that men and women are large.

    I hope you will get rid of your troubles as soon as possible, and I wish you happiness! ]

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Age is not an obstacle to marriage, as long as you dare to face it.

    Love can break through all barriers.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's just that it's not a big deal to be four years older, girls who are older than themselves will care about people, and they won't be coquettish unscrupulously, in short, it's better for girls to be mature.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Love each other without thinking so much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As a contemporary post-80s generation, there is no need to pay attention to the traditional rules of love, this is an era that pays attention to personality.

    From a psychological point of view, the boys are two years older than the girls, and the two people are the closest in terms of thinking. That is, maturity. Of course, this is also a general situation, if your communication can be very tacit, and getting along is very harmonious and happy, then this is not a problem at all, don't pay attention to it.

    From a physiological point of view, women age faster than men, for example, men who reach 35 are attractive, and women at 35 may enter the menopause that everyone is worried about. So in marriage, you need to take care of your wife more. Let the wife take good care of it, if a woman ages much faster than her husband's age, God knows what amazing ideas will come up to her.

    Of course, love is not marriage, you can give it a try. The issue of age is no longer much affected in modern times.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's nothing, a friend of mine is 24 years old this year, and my wife will be 30 next year. When the two were in love, their relatives and friends objected, but the two just didn't separate. And my friend is also quite handsome and very considerate of women.

    The two of them just got married last month, and they are very happy together.

    Even the QQ name has been changed to the god of happiness, and the space has also been renamed as Happy Island.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It doesn't matter, as long as you both love each other deeply and believe that everything is okay.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When do you do something, you are 15 years old, you are only in junior high school, you like her Yes, the question is that you have to be with her all the time, are you going to get married? You have to live a life when you get married, do you have a financial **?

    Completely unrealistic thing.

    If you become emperor, there is no problem.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    At 15 years old, I read that right.

    No matter how old she is older than you, quickly take that mind and concentrate on studying.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Cold... When I was in junior high school, I also liked a girl who was in high school. . .

    I'm also annoyed, and I can't forget her now.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think I should call you brother, you are 15 years old, you should still be a high school student, I advise you to give up. You are a student, and now you should focus on studying, not suitable for falling in love. I know that children nowadays are very open, and junior high school students are in love.

    If you like girls your age, then I will support you to persevere, because you still have a long run-in period and there are many roads to go through together. But you're in a different situation now, you like an older sister who is four years older than you, and if you have a stable job in your 20s now, then your age is not an issue. But now you're a minor.

    You tell me what can you give the girl you love who is four years older than you, give him a stable life, and give him a steady heart? You can't give her anything, so if you love him, you should study hard now, strive for a good development direction, and when you become an adult, or after college, you have the capital to pursue the girl you like. That's when it was possible.

    Otherwise, at your age, she would not have agreed to you. Tell you, she is now 19 years old, and she likes a more mature man who is a year or two older than her and can give him a sense of security. I think I made it quite clear, I don't know if you can understand it.

    I hope you have your bearings right.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Persistence is victory, age is not a problem'Height is not distance! You have to know that the golden city is open, you have to believe in yourself! You know? Speak to her with confidence? Sister: I want to soak you!~

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I advise you to give up.

    Generally speaking, women of the same age are slightly more psychologically mature than men, so many girls will find a man who is older than themselves as a companion. Not to mention that you're four years younger than her.

    Since he said that he has always regarded you as a younger brother, it means that she must not have a feeling between men and women when she is with you, so I don't think it is very likely that you will be together.

    It's better to be her younger brother steadfastly, otherwise she won't even be able to be a friend.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Have faith in the freedom of love.

    It's not about age.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Maturity is not a problem, age is not distance!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's right. You're about the same as me, and I'm in love with a girl who is 3 years older than me. She and I both think that age is not a problem, as long as you really like each other, you shouldn't give up, you have to keep working hard, don't think too much!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You're just in love....In the future, you will meet the one you like...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Come on, brother, think about the concept of Yang Guo and Xiaolongnu, Xiaolongnu doesn't know how much older than Yang.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    The age gap is not a problem, and liking is also a matter of wishful thinking; But the most important thing is that there is still a lot to do in such a wonderful time at the age of 18.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Time is the test of all truths.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's just your whim, think about it. Which do you like more about your studies and your feelings? It's better to go with the flow. But young who has not been impulsive, you think about it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Give me that woman's QQ, and I'll help you get it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let it be, it doesn't seem to be disgusted, and the plan depends on your performance later. If you like it, just keep going, feel it slowly, and stay connected. However, there must be differences between the girls in the game and the real ones, so you have to be mentally prepared.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think that face-to-face interaction, it is easier to determine whether the two of you have the possibility of development, don't just communicate on the Internet or WeChat and other ways to meet people, sometimes when you meet, it is easier to understand each other, whether it is ** or fate, you will naturally know when you meet.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This question is like on the battlefield, drawing the bow and asking whether to shoot or not. If you are afraid, retreat as soon as possible, and if you are not afraid, be resolute. Not manly at all.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You're too unreserved.,Just these days.,People promise unless... **。

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Let's give it a try, although age is not a problem, but girls will look very old when they are older.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's good to go with the flow, if it's really fate, we will definitely be together.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Like a person's age should not be a gap, what is there when you are a senior year. As long as two people get along. Four years older than you know it hurts you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Seriously, you're mostly just impulsive right now.

    First of all, feelings are not so easy.

    It's not like each other to make things happen.

    Even if both parents agree to be together.

    And what about after being together?

    How many problems will arise?

    The reality is very guessing the reality before the potato.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You should be considerate of her.

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