Why is it so hard to find a man you really like

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because I have always had an invisible standard in my mind, and if I use this idealized standard to measure reality, I will feel that there is a big gap

    But I also agree with you waiting, because after a long wait, you can understand that what you are really looking for is a person to be a companion in reality, not a nihilistic ideal; Or only the manager waits to know what is best for him.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Rather lack than abuse, you must be able to keep the loneliness, and the boy who appreciates you must have a unique vision! Wishing you happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can't forget the people you used to be

    In that case, you will not be able to tolerate others in your eyes.

    Be positive, sometimes you don't know the outcome if you don't socialize.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're the same as me, I don't know why you just don't like it. I don't feel it.

    Maybe the real one hasn't appeared yet.

    I'm sure someone will be waiting for me at the next stop.

    You too, hopefully you'll meet your true destiny soon.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Life is like this sometimes, the more you think about it, the more it doesn't, when you put yourself into life and don't think about those things, maybe your true love will come, and it will come slowly.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hehe, the words on the first floor are very right!

    There are many good things, maybe you can look at it with your heart, maybe there are good men around you!

    In addition, if you meet someone you like, you must take the initiative and don't let the opportunity slip away!

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Men need to learn to wait, and women need it even more. Bless you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Agree with the opinion of the first floor, if you don't find true love, keep the loneliness.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Only by forgetting the past can we see the future!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Agree with the words upstairs.

    Good luck will await you.

    Happiness is in your own hands.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Good things are hard to come by, of course.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Didn't look at what you wrote!

    You're asking too much, so you can't find it!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The boys you like don't like you, it may be a coincidence, it may be that the type you like is the type that doesn't like you, sometimes emotions are attracted to each other, someone, like it must be a lucky thing.

    In fact, you can change yourself appropriately, or you are deeply in love with yourself, and I believe that one day you may meet someone who likes you and you like.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Second, get rid of your weaknesses and play to your strengths. Such as getting rid of your bad temper, habits, and so on.

    Then, adopt the same hobby as he did. That way you have something to talk about.

    Finally, I wish you all happiness.

    Happy events.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You can find the reason from yourself first, if it is right, it is that fate has not yet arrived, believe it, one day you will find love for you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    That's because you haven't met the right person yet, and when you meet the right person, you will like and appreciate each other. Give yourself more time to meet the right person!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This belongs to fate has not arrived! Keep up the good work! Expand your social circle and meet more friends, and the probability will be greater.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, you lack self-confidence, it's normal for the man you like to dislike you, as long as you don't get along, the fate will appear when the person who likes you appears.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    This is fate, there may be a period of time for your love, as long as you relax yourself during this time and work hard to find, you will always find what you like.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's rare to like each other together in the world, so you don't have to force it, go with the flow, everything will be fine, maybe one day some men will like you first, and then you will slowly like him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Let's be honest. Find a man I like. It's better to find a man who likes me.

    Because of the man I like, I will cling to her for everything. I'm afraid of him. Angry.

    Everything goes along with him. But if I find a man who likes me. He'll cling to me for everything.

    So. You should try to find a man who likes you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It's okay, this kind of emotional thing, just let it be, they don't like you, it's their loss, you have to remember that you are very good, and there will be better men like you in the future!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Take your time and don't rush. Believe that the best is on the way. Fate hasn't come yet.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Life is like this, I really like it. It's not happiness.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Why is it so hard to find a boyfriend you like? Fate is destined, you haven't met that person yet, if you find one, it will only hurt yourself, so don't worry about love, I wish you to meet that person as soon as possible! Is it difficult?

    As the saying goes, a good man chases a woman's compartment mountain, and a woman chases a man's compartment yarn. There is a truth to this statement. So you think about yourself, did you take the initiative to hold it?

    Have you the courage to talk to the guy you like? Can you put down your face?。。 A celebrity once said, "The wise man has every possible way, and the mediocre man only sighs a thousand difficulties" The marriage has not arrived Why is it so difficult to find a boyfriend you like It is impossible to meet the perfect one in your eyes in the spring skin, since it is two people, there will definitely be inconsistencies Don't pursue perfection too much, it is impossible at all Because there is no boy to spoil you.

    What you like may not be your boyfriend What type of do you like Why is it so difficult to find a boyfriend who loves you after graduation Hello, because after graduation into the society, the people you come into contact with are more realistic, the fast food mode is on, and you don't want to spend time pursuing, so while actively looking for it, you should be able to go with the flow of your mentality This problem should actually be understood by yourself, you don't need to ask others, the root of this problem is actually like looking for a couple to love yourself or love yourself too demanding, How can there be Namodo is both satisfying and wishful, and I still want to love you, and you will know in the end, let go of your body and lower your requirements. Because this world is not perfect, so people have the pursuit and desire for happiness, if it can be found so easily, then who will cherish whom After work, relatives and friends introduced, contact yourself to understand You are **, I am also looking for a girlfriend I am in a bad mood, why is it so difficult to find a boyfriend I like, I find myself quite cheap, I like me, I don't like me, I don't like meBut I like, am I going to be single all my life? Or am I not charismatic enough or am I too naïve?

    Sometimes the charm is still reflected in self-confidence, don't always think about whether anyone likes yourself, you have to change from yourself first, if you are in full bloom, butterflies come from you, self-confidence! Girls are inherently emotional creatures. If there is a person who likes you, he will move you, there is no one who likes it at the beginning, time will be screened, now there are more men and fewer women, don't be afraid.

    Live a good life with people Everyone is the same, every girl will have such an idea, we can't directly change the status quo now, we can only continue to change ourselves. Because the harder you work, the luckier you get. How do you find a boyfriend when you sing in a duel like this?

    You have to change your mindset or you don't strive for it. Amount.

    Think about me.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Fate is not waiting.

    Fate is something that people strive for and create.

    In the vast sea of people, two people have met, met, known, or loved each other, this is fate, and fate does not need to wait.

    Fate is fought for by people, created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate are the most rational, but how many people can catch it when fate comes? What about cherishing it?

    Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine.

    Love knows no distance or region, and in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, dear friend.

    Cherish your fate and be kind to your love. Don't wait for the loss of empty resentment.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Are there any of those difficulties?

    It's not that it's difficult, it's that most of your time is focused on the thoughts you want to find, so why not calm down? Those who should come will come, and those who should not come will not come when the earth is desolate.

    So wait a minute, your love hasn't appeared yet

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Let it be, it's too deliberate, it will cause others to be disgusted, look at what you like with your heart, don't compare the person you like with others, that will make you confused.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Look for a needle in a haystack, look for it carefully, and take care of you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Why is it so hard for people to like someone nowadays?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Long-lasting love is in your heart, just as many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love.

    We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

    Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

    If my answer can help you, please give a 5 star, thank you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's not difficult, as long as you look for it with your heart, maybe the moment you turn around, the person you meet is your favorite Believe in fate I wish you a happy new year and find your happiness as soon as possible.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's not difficult to find someone you really like, but it's the hardest thing to find someone who really loves each other.

    In fact, as long as you pay attention to your surroundings, it is not difficult to find someone you like.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Why do people get married? It's for love. We live to make ourselves happy and to make those around us happy.

    We got married to make this love complete and full. Legend has it that women are the lost ribs of men, men and women fight from birth, only half of life, we have been looking for our lover, looking for our own other half. In the vast sea of people, only when we find our other half can we have a complete life, and we can make life abundant and happy.

    So we keep searching, bravely fall in love, wrong, hurt, and then despair, lost, because we have not found our true love, because true love is hard to find. In this life, you may meet several lovers, or you may have only one. You may be with your lover forever until the day you die of old age; It may also be that happiness is like a flash in the pan, happiness or sorrow, both love and marriage.

    In fact, many people misunderstand the true meaning of marriage, especially some young ignorant teenagers Marriage should be the ultimate witness of true love, it is sacred and solemn, some people may mistakenly think that marriage is a shackle that can tie two people together, or some people think that there is a home Although marriage is essentially just a formality, it must have a very profound meaning No matter what, it should come naturally, regardless of the reason. Let everything that should happen happen, and follow the trend, without force or deliberateness. I like this sentence very much:

    Let's get married, it's idle anyway, it's really boring to fight, so as not to be lonely.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Who wouldn't want to find someone they like to marry? Not only men and women are the same, but marrying someone you like is also a bit of a guarantee for marriage. If you find someone you don't like to marry, you will get divorced in three days, and whoever gets married will want to get divorced.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    In fact, men and women are the same, they have to find their own love, feel it, and talk about being their lover. What's the point of having a happy life in front of someone you don't like every day. Right, no.

  37. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's the same with women, this is human nature, but sometimes it's impossible to have both fish and bears.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Well, it's hard in general. But it's still possible to find it. But when you meet someone you love, cherish it. Wouldn't it be nice to let him fall in love with you too?

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    People who are really in love with each other rarely get married before they know that the taste of the pot and pan symphony is really sweet and sour.

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