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First of all, you should be clear about your life goals and ideals. Young people should still work hard, enterprising, and struggle if they have the opportunity. Young is not Bo, when is Bo.
Of course, the development in China in the past three years will be good in terms of the current situation, better than ordinary people. The salary is not low, and it is a leader, less than the above, better than the bottom, often meet, and give birth to a baby early.
If you develop abroad in these three years, the income of three years abroad will be the income of ten years at home. After returning to China, you can also use this part of the investment to do business, start a business, and be your own boss. Your life will blossom and grow in the next few decades.
There must be a payback in return. Of course you love him and he loves you. Both parties are reluctant to leave, which is the emotion of normal people. But emotions need to be controlled.
I hope the above words will be helpful to you.
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It's good not to go, if you go, the money is earned, the people run away, and you have nothing.
The country will always develop, and everything will be fine.
The Japanese are not friendly to the Chinese and do not go well.
If there is a conflict between the two countries, they will treat the Chinese in Japan badly.
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I don't think I should go.
After all, I have just been married for 2 weeks.
In the next three years of his career, his ability will definitely develop.
I wouldn't call him stupid if he went.
But I think China's economy is so developed, and the standard of living is increasing the wages of all enterprises.
In 3 years, he has the opportunity to earn back 350,000.
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It's hard to say about emotional things;
Chirp me today, and become a stranger tomorrow;
It's all time-tested.
But I think it's better in China;
In Japan, I guess I have a sense of rejection.
Besides, after all, the newlywed only went abroad for 2 weeks, can your husband bear it?
Why do you have to go abroad?
There are too many examples of people who go abroad and don't come back.
However, it also varies from person to person.
It's up to your husband's choice.
If it's me, I give him the choice, but also let him know that it's important for me to know too.
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Think about it and let him know that it's important to you.
At the same time, let him know that you understand him.
The last thing I want to leave him with is that I respect your ideas, but you have to know that I am reluctant to leave you, and I can't live without you.
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Personally, I think the most important thing between husband and wife is --- trust! Of course, it also depends on the person. If you are more relieved, then what is three years?
A short separation is for a longer reunion in the future! And you have to have faith in yourself! Believe in yourself!
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3 years is very fast, my friend is also going abroad for 3 years and now a year has passed, you can ** chat, you can also go to see him once a year, but the days of separation are very sad, but I believe that he loves you, you have to have confidence in yourself, come on!
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I've been facing this problem lately, and it's very frustrating!
One is that he is worried that he will be taken away by other women, even if your man loves you very much now, but what about 3 years from now? Who can vouch for it? The second is that I am worried that the relationship between two people has gone bad!
If you go, why can't you go together?
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Not really. Trust Him.
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No, it's only 350,000... Your wages are too low.
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If you say it, you can't say it, and it depends on your future path.
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Some time ago, my boyfriend was going to Japan, also for three years. But in the end he decided not to go.
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Come with him if you can.
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It's also good to have the opportunity to develop in the country.
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Don't give him a chance to escape!
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It depends on whether money is important or wife.
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The teacher understands your feelings very well, you are troubled, you love the other person very much, and you don't know why the other person wants to leave you.
The teacher will help you analyze.
There are several possibilities.
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Second, it means that she doesn't love you anymore, and you should just lose someone who doesn't love you. Find someone who truly loves you.
The third is that there is a misunderstanding between you that has not been resolved, and she is just angry with you.
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Summary. Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, someone else left you, you left him behind, this is reasonable.
Someone else left me, is it reasonable for me to leave him behind?
Hello, I'm glad to answer for you, someone else left you, you left him behind, this is reasonable.
In fact, in the process of getting along with people, the most comfortable relationship is nothing more than the collapse of empathy and resonance, and now the pressure of work and life is very great.
But if someone needs to leave in this relationship, then as an adult, blessings, letting go, and being with others are all the best options.
So, somebody else left you behind, you left him behind, and that's reasonable.
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In fact, to tell the truth, it is not painful to give up a person who loves you very much, it is painful to give up a person you love very much, it is more painful to love a person who does not love you in the morning, it is destined to be a tragedy, some losses are doomed, some fate will never have results, loving someone does not have to have, but having a person must be cherished. Since you don't love, then let go in a word, there is a kind of love called letting go, only letting go is a kind of relief, but also a new beginning and having, let go of the burden of the mood is much easier, in the moment the tears fall turn around and leave, don't let yourself hurt, why hang on a tree without sweetness, no happiness, no happiness, people don't love you, then, how to tie up people, twisted melons are not sweet, why embarrass yourself? Why let yourself lose your self-esteem and self-love, indulge in pain, let yourself walk physically and mentally exhausted, scarred, why bother?
It's not interesting, love is a hail on both sides, it's not wishful thinking that there will be results, meeting is the destined fate of life, you can't force it, you can only get it if you lose, and people who refuse to lose their luggage will never swim to the other side. Make yourself strong, have confidence and courage, live your own life, look back at the end of the sea of suffering, and find someone who truly loves you and what you love, which will comfort the wounds of your soul, make up for the shortcomings of your soul, and let you have and cherish. In fact, life is like this, when you lose a thing that you love, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will be a better relationship waiting for you.
At the very least, you will not live in sorrow, and you will find your own paradise, your own sweet, happy and happy life. Wish.
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