Am I jealous of her??? Why am I jealous?

It's normal to be jealous, but you don't have too much of a burden, it's wrong for you to think she's hanging on both sides, but everyone has the right to pursue happiness and choose happiness. Her actions didn't affect you, so you shouldn't have too much pressure. But you can choose to find an opportunity to talk to her calmly and understand her thoughts.

You must have some little jealousy...... right?My friends are occupied by roommates I think are close to me, and I will definitely feel uncomfortable and understand ......There are some girls who just don't want to have a certain person of the opposite sex who is not very good, and want to be loved by others, which is called vanity. You're jealous that she's better than you, don't feel that way, just be sincere.

In fact, people are independent, what she does has nothing to do with you, it's just that what you don't get, she gets, and you always look at her, so you're asking for trouble, it's better to look away and relax.

If I had a friend like that, I'd hate him too, and I'd lose a friend, so you can try to reach out to a new friend and try to ignore him. I remember that I also had such a period, and then I didn't have any communication after I became estranged from her, so I forgot about her, don't think about her, she doesn't have anything good, she can have it, I can work hard myself, or even better than her, just think like this, study hard, work hard, work hard!

Oh, strengthen yourself, including your own heart, you won't worry about not having friends, friends are easy to find, and true friends are what everyone wants.

It's definitely jealousy!! You're really in trouble!!

En is a woman's jealousy.

Man is a creature that likes to compare, dogs don't get upset about who runs faster, and foxes don't grieve because of who is more cunning. Animals often choose a compensation mechanism, and a dog that is not fast may be better able to seize opportunities, and a less cunning fox may be more ferocious. Man does not seem to be as flexible as an animal, but man has a mind, chooses ideas and thinks.

Being clever is mistaken by being smart, and people know what is good, but they don't know what is good in themselves. Confident people always use their strengths to be shorter than others, and never use their own shortcomings to be longer than others. People with low self-esteem are the opposite.

You want to tell me that your jealousy stems from the comparison you learned from your grandmother in your early years, using your own shortcomings to be longer than your cousin's. So, who is using their own shortness to be longer than the other party's now? Happen to be yourself.

Are you missing your lovely grandma in this way? Otherwise, why are you so much like her? But maybe it's a matter of age, but I like the kind of character you think you are:

Hate competition, fear competition, and avoid competition. I am such a person, a lesson or a sentence, others have spoken, I will never talk about it again, afraid of competing with others, and afraid of being compared by others. However, this has the advantage of forcing my ideas, methods, and techniques to be updated from time to time, which has contributed to my flexible style today.

How we see opportunities and find breakthroughs in adversity is quite a consideration of a person's inner energy. Complaining about others, jealousy, just rationalizes one's own laziness. While calming our anger, it also makes us lose the motivation to create.

I also like your courage to be honest. Many people are jealous, angry, and don't think it's their own problem, and think that others are deliberately getting in their way, and I'm one of those people. Your honesty makes me feel a sense of joy :

The difference between you and others is that what you think in your heart, you say what you say. Although our current social judgment is: you say something you shouldn't say is naïve and immature enough.

In the psychological sense, what is felt does not necessarily exist, but what is said becomes true. In fact, those who live in mental hospitals treat everything they feel as real to a large extent, while for those who live outside mental hospitals, only what reason thinks is true will be regarded as true, and will not be determined by feelings. Hehe, in this way, you still don't take the feeling really good.

Jealousy is mainly due to lack of self-confidence, always thinking about comparison, wanting to show that you are better off through comparison, in order to achieve an inexplicable sense of uniqueness and satisfaction in your heart, and even to gain a sense of security.

In fact, be calm, be confident, read more books, or make yourself better, and reach a state where you can be very full and calm without comparing your heart.

In fact, I am not very good, and I dare not admit it, and I have an inexplicable sense of pride and I don't want to make myself inferior, so I vent this feeling to others and I have jealousy.

But daring to admit that you are jealous is already very powerful, and the most pitiful thing is that you are obviously jealous and pretend that it doesn't matter, which is quite sad.

So turn jealousy into motivation and make yourself great. Don't be afraid to be jealous of others. Everyone we meet actually comes to us with their own mission, those who we feel are better than us and make us jealous, and their mission is to make us better.

Of course, the premise is to deal with the so-called jealousy correctly and let it become a motivation instead of negative emotions, such as resentment, low self-esteem, and so on.

Everyone will be jealous, some people can control it well and will not show it, and some people can't control it and may do things out of line with the object of jealousy.

In fact, "jealousy" is a derivative of "envy," which is the feeling of envy or dissatisfaction that arises when a person sees someone else's mental or material possessions, such as beauty, success, talent, or money.

But if a person's emotions are too much and they have a tendency to attack, they may go further to slander others' reputations or encroach on other people's resources and property, but they cannot realize that they are attacking because of a deep sense of inferiority. Generally speaking, the more deluctant and aggressive we are, the more we feel ashamed of ourselves deep down.

People have envy and jealousy, but some are light and some are heavy. As long as we don't do things that hurt others out of envy and jealousy. Generally, envy and jealousy are for the people around them, maybe the people who had a good relationship with them before, and the people who have a distant relationship with themselves live well, and they will not be jealous if they have no intersection with themselves.

Jealousy is also human nature, probably because your current life is really bad, it is those people around you, they are all happy, which will inevitably make you jealous.

Our jealousy is still due to the pressure from our peers and people. When there is a huge gap between two people with the same conditions, we will feel unfair in our hearts and will feel jealous.

is too heavy on fame and fortune, and can't accept that others are better off than themselves. In the final analysis, this kind of psychology stems from the fact that "greed, hatred, and ignorance" must not be jealous, and the most fundamental thing is to be indifferent to fame and fortune. People don't compare things they don't care about anymore.

Most of the ancient and modern Chinese and foreign admonitions on moral cultivation emphasize that there is a profound truth in "lack of desire".

It's normal for you to be jealous, because you're a normal person, you're going to be jealous of those who are good, you don't think that you have this kind of behavior, you don't feel bad, but you also have to control yourself.

Jealousy is because you want to become better in your heart, so you will have this feeling of remembering, because you need jealousy in your life, so that you will have the motivation to live, and jealousy is indispensable in people's seven emotions and six desires.

There are three reasons for jealousy: vanity is at work, not knowing oneself correctly, and being narrow-minded.

Because you're dissatisfied with life, you're not getting what you need, you're not getting what you need, you're unbalanced.

Jealousy is a negative emotion, and jealousy of others is usually because they believe that the success or merit of others means that they have failed or inadequate. Those who are jealous of you are usually most afraid of their own inadequacies and the gap between themselves and you as they see them.

In addition, jealousy is also a reflection of the jealous person's lack of self-confidence and self-esteem. They may feel that they are not as good or successful as you, which can cause them to feel inferior and powerless. Therefore, the most feared thing for a jealous person may be that their own inadequacies and their emotions will be exposed when they are stimulated.

In addition, jealousy can also lead to strained and broken relationships, and the jealous person may worry that your relationship will become more strained or that you will lose contact. They may be afraid that they will lose your friendship or support.

In conclusion, what people who are jealous of you are most afraid of is their own inadequacy and emotions being aroused, which can lead to strained relationships and low self-esteem.

Because you're excellent. will make people jealous. You are capable and popular.

Generally envy.

Then there is the hatred that oneself is not as good as others.

Some people are jealous and show attitudes such as "nothing is a big deal", "I will do those skills too" and so on.

Some people are jealous, and they will secretly frame the object of their jealousy, which is vicious enough, and this kind of person is often smarter and more scheming.

Some people are jealous, and they will directly verbally or physically attack the person who is jealous (there are many verbal attacks).

Some people are jealous because they are particularly unconfident, so they will deliberately avoid some scenes related to the envied person. The motive is unknown.

Some people are jealous, and they must make a look that is nobler than the envied and stronger than the envied. It's very arrogant.

Speak ill of you behind your back and verbally attack.