Can the inappropriate in love run in with each other? What do you think?

I have always felt that there is no way to run in, only willingness to tolerate and change, that is to say, there is nothing that is not suitable.

Sometimes it's not hard to be inclusive and it's not hard to force others, but only if both parties are willing to accommodate.

If you directly say that you don't want to change yourself, there will be no run-in between the two of you. <>

I don't think some of the agrees will be able to run in. Someone who didn't like it in the first place will never like it. At first, I thought there would be problems, but there have always been. Sooner or later, these problems will be exposed. Not fitting is sometimes really not suitable. <>

I think it can still be run-in, after all, two people have different living habits together, they like different hobbies, they need to understand, and then the two people can run in with each other, and finally get the love they want.

Sometimes it's not suitable is inappropriate, if you run in with each other, the process will be more uncomfortable, and the time will be longer, but it will hurt the feelings of two people, it is better to separate, and sometimes it is really inappropriate to run in.

I don't think there are two people in the world who are completely suitable, everyone is a different individual, everyone has an independent way of thinking, there is no incompatibility in love, only whether you are willing or not, as long as two people truly love each other, there is nothing that cannot be served.

Of course you can!

Love originally needs to be run-in, even when it comes to the marriage stage, it is still constantly running-in. However, there is a problem with the run-in, if the needle tip is always on the wheat mang, the probability of successful run-in will be very, very small. But remember that it all stems from liking and loving.

In my opinion, the inappropriateness is just a manifest reason, as for why it is inappropriate, that is, the official statement of each is the main opinion, in fact, the three words really contain everything, but I don't know how to tell you, but I still hope that every couple who breaks up will tell each other the reason for the breakup openly, but also for each other to better improve themselves in the next relationship, which is also the meaning of love.

Sometimes, the inappropriateness in love cannot be run in with each other, some people are not suitable, it may be really inappropriate, some temper and personality conflicts, contradictions are difficult to run-in, and if you can't run in, let it go.

I think how to say it, it's not suitable in love, whether you can run in with each other, I think if you feel that you are some small habits that are incompatible, I think it's okay, but if you have different views, it's really difficult to walk together, and it's really difficult to run in, which is really a particularly tiring thing.

I think that the inappropriate in love is to torture each other, because in fact, you also know what I did for her, what she did for me, how much we can't let go of each other, but because you are not suitable, so you torture each other and suffer each other, waste again and again, this time I think it is not appropriate in love, it is really torture for each other.

<> "Why do two people still like it even if they are not suitable together?"

01 What is "running-in" "Run-in" is that the two of you have a common goal and want to work hard for each other's happiness and future, so it is both sides.

02 What is "unsuitable" and "unsuitable" is that there is only one person working unilaterally, you want him to become what you want, he wants you to become what he wants, he wants you to become what he wants.

If you insist on changing the other person, then why not find someone who suits you in the first place, and loves each other without changing? Sometimes you have the illusion that not being suitable will be the same as complementarity? But complementarity also has to run in, and the reason for complementarity is that even if the two of you are different, you can find a quick grip on each other, and each other can make up for each other's shortcomings and move forward in the direction of happiness together, and it is not suitable to make up for it at all.

Because in your heart, you will feel that "I am sacrificing", "I am wronged", "I have to", you will always be unhappy together, and there is no way to communicate. A good partner will make you better and better, you will be willing to become a better person for him, and you will become better and better together. The two of you always have to move forward and backward when you walk together; And the person who is not suitable will only force you to no way out, or make you feel very lonely and lonely on the emotional road.

The best way to judge whether you are "running-in" or "not suitable" is to see if the problem has been solved after the two of you quarrel. Partners who can run in, they will find ways to reconcile with each other, and both of them are willing to work hard for each other's relationship; But if the two of you are not suitable, you will always quarrel about the same problem, and there will be no solution, and you will only quarrel endlessly, consuming emotions and hurting each other.

Why do so many two people who know that they are not suitable still force each other to run in?

In fact, we are unwilling to face the fact that we are not suitable, we are afraid that without him, we have no choice, we would rather live in inertia, comfort ourselves with habits, and live one day at a time with avoidance. It's not difficult to get, you have to learn to let go first, and run in with the right person, life is a very beautiful thing, it will be extremely happy in life, so that you can't help but grin when you sleep at night.

For"As long as you love each other, you can run in if you are not suitable, if you can't, then one party is not loving enough"may vary depending on the individual's views and experiences. Here's one possibility:

Love is important, but you can't rely on love alone to solve all problems. While loving each other is the foundation of a healthy relationship, there are many more factors that need to be stable and long-lasting in a relationship. Sometimes, just because one partner doesn't love each other enough doesn't mean they don't work hard enough, but because they don't share each other's needs, values, or lifestyles.

For a healthy relationship, both parties need to work together, tolerate and understand each other. When encountering an inappropriate problem, both parties should work together to communicate and solve it, rather than relying on love alone. Sometimes, even though two people love each other, they may face problems that they can't reconcile, such as long-term conflicts of values, hurting each other, or not being able to meet each other's needs.

In this case, it is not that one partner is not loving enough, but that it is necessary to face the reality and consider whether it is possible to build a healthy, stable and mutually satisfying relationship.

The most important thing is to communicate openly and understand the needs and feelings of the other party, and constantly strive to improve and run in. But also to be clear, sometimes love is not enough to solve all problems, and if two people face insurmountable obstacles, they also need to consider whether to make better choices to protect their happiness and mental health.

Some gaps are not the depth of feelings or the lack of money that can be solved by eliminating socks. It is the wisdom of the ancestors to be the right person, and when you fall in love in the early stage, you can ignore your family background, reputation, appearance, education, and even economic conditions. But once it comes to marriage, it is the union of two families.

At this time, the class concept, the origin of family learning, and the three views of the two will be different. If you don't love each other, you will either make changes, or you will only torture each other and wear out the only love you have. There is no relationship that can be cultivated, but love is crushed by firewood, rice, oil, salt, potatoes, rent, water and electricity, mortgages, car loans, but it is not a problem of having money and drinking water.

Do you have the feeling that I've been with him for quite a long time, but when I'm with himIt feels so far away

In a good relationship, if two people are together, it is for each otherNourishment for each other

If two people don't have a good relationship together,That's all a disservice to each other

Because each has an impact on you, because these effects are not positive.

Rather, the negative impact will make us continue to be in a state and mood, and it will have a bad result.

If that's the case for youAdjust the relationship now

You may wonder if we are a little inappropriate, but sometimes it is not and it is not appropriateIt's that your relationship isn't in place

And then you did something that made him feel like our relationship hadn't reached that point, and you actually did something like that, which made me a little bit unreliant on you.

A really good relationship will give you a new heart, and you feel that this person is very warm and warm, and you do itEverything makes you feel like it's what you want

This may be a good relationship as we imagine it, but a lot of people mistakenly think that this is the kind of relationship they are very suitable for.

Not reallyThere will be a period of inappropriateness at first, but they will constantly adjust in only the unsuitable, keep running-in, and then reach oneSteady state

And then go further, and then gradually build that relationship, and most importantlyBuild relationshipsIt's not that we should reflect on whether it's appropriate or not.

Some people meet the right person in their life, but he will say that I met the love of my life, but I will tell you.

There are almost more than 7 billion people in the world, the probability of two suitable encounters in the worldIt's almost impossible, but it's really possible to meet the right person. It was suggested that we mistakenly thought that the two of us were really suitable, but in fact it was just the two of usRelationships in place

I always reflect on whether we are a good fit or not, but we don't really get to the bottom of it, and some people are inherently inappropriate.

But they find the same as everyone else in a relationshipHobby points, they cut into each other through this hobby, and then find oneBalance the relationship, through this relationship constantlyMake connections

And then produceResonance, constantly becoming oneSimilar peopleThey feel that this is a good relationship, and we also need to reach this state and not just reflect on whether we are suitable or not, in fact, this view is problematic.

A good relationship makes you feel like spring is coming and everything is coming back.

And then everything went smoothly. You can feel the world from the bottom of your heart, and then you are surrounded by the world.

That's a good relationship, and the world is just as nourishingYou give to the world, embrace the world, embrace the two mutually

You can rationally distinguish between the run-in and the inappropriate, it depends on the comfort level of you and the other party.

I have always felt that a good love can allow two people to show their true selves and allow both parties to work hard to grow because of each other, such a relationship is correct and sunny, we will all have that age when sadomasochism is true love, the more cruel the abuse, the deeper the love, many people's view of love is like this, hoping to let themselves or the other party suffer to meet their own lack of security and importance.

I used to be a person who couldn't express, to be precise, a person who didn't want to express, always when two people were awkward, with mean words to hurt each other, watching each other cry because of their sadness, and even their own hearts felt a sense of accomplishment and victory, I admit that I am not a mature and rational person, the soul flickered brightly and darkly, but I always have a heart that always wants to go on well with each other, the original intention must be to be with each other, but the wrong form of expression always backfires me.

Later, because of emotional injury, more for my own reasons, I read a lot of books and ** about gender relations and getting along with people, and slowly in the process of getting along with friends and new partners, to practice these learned theories, and gradually get along with them became very easy, and I was not as complete as before, and I began to face the dark side of my heart correctly.

What I learned is how to correctly determine whether two people are the right person. The definition of the right person is very broad, family conditions, appearance, personal personality and other factors, so that the combination of each person is strange, but the most important thing is that the fundamental values of two people, the values must be the same.

This kind of value is not to make you exactly the same, like the same things, hate the same things and hate the same things, this fundamental value of the same refers to those very important factors that affect the comfort of two people, such as the requirements of two people for love and intimacy, whether they are willing to communicate with their partners, whether to marry and whether to have children. A person who wants the other party to be intimate but a person who wants to have their own space is difficult to run in together, and after the communication is fruitless, then your insistence is not a run-in but inappropriate.

Let yourself feel that the love of the people must not be good love, and it is unfair for you to be willing to change if you put too much thought and attention on how to run in with the other party.

Look at the way you and your partner get along correctly and rationally, be diligent in communication, introverts also hope that the other party can listen and understand their thoughts and thoughts, don't use introversion as an excuse, find that important neutralization point, your efforts are the run-in, and the neutralization point that you can't find is not suitable for the shed.