I like each other, but I always feel that it is not appropriate, why?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-06
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Honestly. I've been in your situation too, and I feel very strange what brings us together. Sometimes a person calms down and thinks about it.

    We weren't supposed to belong to the same world. It wasn't until later that I realized that this so-called might not be love. It's just a dependency.

    Loneliness, perhaps. Sadness, perhaps. There could be many reasons for this.

    There is also the possibility that she may just be a very secret substitute in your mind. Sometimes we actually deceive ourselves. What is needed to be sought blindly.

    Let's talk about the future. Talk about each other. It would be better to get to know each other again.

    Re-understanding. The past is always the past. It is impossible to come back.

    So there are some things that we must cherish. Seeking the root cause is ultimately what is needed. Another thing to say is don't try to run away.

    I used to be like that. That's how it ended in the end. Familiar strangers.

    So be precious.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No. I think there's always a gap between you.

    You may need a period of adaptation.

    You should discuss some hobbies and so on.

    Let you have a common topic.

    Painted over two people together.

    There is no common language.

    It's not going to last long.

    Last blessings to all of you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Since you don't have anything to say, it's not a fusion of hearts and minds, maybe you love each other too much and don't know where to start! I suggest that you communicate more, although if you say something you like, but she is indifferent, then you are not suitable to be together. Emotional things can't be forced, really, I've come over this way, sometimes it's better to find out early than late.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's a simple question. To love her, of course, you have to adapt to her. I believe that at the same time, she will take a long time to get used to you. When you really come together, you will have a common language. Besides, isn't that what feelings are all about! ~

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There's nothing wrong with liking someone, but if you're really not a good fit, you have to learn to let go. The problem between you is not that you like him and that he doesn't like you. Your problem is that you are not a world.

    The gap between you is too big. If you really love him, you have to learn to let go. Because the twisted melon is not sweet.

    If you guys really don't fit, let it go. Because it is useless to force it. You can find someone who truly loves you.

    If you really love him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Even if I like someone again, if it is not suitable between us, I will definitely choose to give up decisively, without the slightest hesitation. Because in my opinion, the most important thing in life is the suitability and tacit understanding of two people, and the final sublimation of love is family affection, which is long-term companionship, and only a momentary love cannot last.

    The people you like, if you can be friends, it's still good to stay in each other's lives, but you have to keep this degree good, otherwise in the end it will not only hurt the people you love and love you, but also ruin your friendship....It becomes a stranger.

    It's really not a big deal to like, like is out of primitive instinct, love is a high-level feeling....Of course, the person you like turns out to be the person you love in the end, which is also very beautiful.

    There's no way to change, there's no way to run in

    Generally speaking, if you really like each other, you will be willing to change yourself to run in with each other, of course, not to cater to each other without principles, bottom lines and self-esteem. As long as you want to change and want to run in, there will be no "no way"!

    Chinese society pays more attention to marriage in the right family, so that the difference between the two parties in terms of concepts, thoughts, cognition, handling things, habits, etc. will be reduced to the greatest extent, especially the marriage is difficult to be only a matter of two people but between two families, and the right person is more important.

    Therefore, whether it is true or in legendary stories, unforgettable love is often accompanied by the wrong door, but it often requires two people to pay more rather than see what the other party can do for themselves.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's because you still love him and can't help yourself.

    Too many people know that the other party is very scummy, very attentive, has no sincerity, will not be happy together, and is not worthy of their love at all, but they are still unwilling to give up, and they have been falling deeper and deeper.

    Willing to live a miserable life all the time, often insecure.

    There is also no way to stop losses in time.

    When you're always like that, you probably don't like yourself like this and don't know why you're the way you are.

    Love is a kind of mutual attraction.

    The reason why we fall in love with someone comes from a feeling in our hearts.

    This attraction may decrease over time, but there are also psychological studies that have found that in some lovers, this attraction persists.

    For most people, this attraction will sublimate with the progression of the relationship, but it is undeniable that mutual attraction is an essential part of love.

    Whether it is physical attraction or spiritual attraction, we are required to manage and learn from ourselves, so that we can be in a state of growth, both internally and externally.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it should be broken up, because the most important thing in falling in love is to be happy, if the two are not happy together, even if they like it again, there is no point, it is better to break up earlier.

    If two people fall in love and always feel unhappy, it means that you are not suitable for each other, you are not suitable for boyfriend and girlfriend, so there is no need for you to continue dating, it is better to stop losses in time, which is also a good thing for both parties, if you can't find your own happiness in the relationship, then you don't have to continue, because the other party is not suitable for you, so the two of you will always feel unhappy in the process of getting along.

    If you meet a particularly suitable person, the two of you will be very happy when you get along, and you will be very happy every day, if you meet an inappropriate person, then you will be very miserable every day, and you will be unhappy every day, so when looking for the other half, you must ask yourself more, is the other party the person we want? And when getting along with each other, we should also have an in-depth understanding of each other, if the other party's personality is not what we like in Shenhe, we have to consider whether to continue with each other, because character is very important in the process of getting along, if two people have a lot of conflicts because of personality problems, then the two of you will be very unhappy, so when you are looking for the other half, you must know each other well, to understand each other more, so as to know whether the other party is suitable for us.

    The most important thing about feelings is to be happy and happy, if you can't experience these two things, then this relationship for you, there is no meaning of existence, feelings can bring a lot of warmth to the morning sedan chair, but if you are unhappy, it will make us feel disheartened, so we must think clearly, don't think that the two like each other is love, you see sometimes, love does not mean that you like each other, but on behalf of the suitable, only the right will be happy, you will grow, If it doesn't fit, it's very painful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    should not be separated, at this time, the two people to Hui imitate a tired period before the wheel fiber may not be enthusiastic, so they will always feel unhappy, at this time should deepen the relationship to Tonghuai to re-cultivate, so that the two people will go for a long time.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Should. Because the two of you are not happy together, you must not torture each other, you must fulfill each other and let each other go.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I think Sakura Zheng should be separated. Because the two of you are not happy when you are together, Ye Songchai will be very tired for both of you, so there is no need to be together, which means that the two of you are not suitable.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You can not break up first, and the two of you can get to know each other a little more, so that you can see whether the two people are suitable for being together.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    <> "Is it "running-in" or "inappropriate".

    Why "inappropriate" or will you like it?

    1.What is "running-in".

    "Run-in" is that the two of you have a common goal and want to work hard for each other's happiness and undispersed future, so it is both sides.

    2.What is "the cavity is not suitable".

    Not suitable for "only one person working unilaterally, you want him to be what you want, he wants you to be what he wants."

    If you insist on changing each other, then why not find someone who is suitable for you in the first place and can both be happy to be themselves and love each other; Sometimes you have the illusion that not being suitable will be the same as complementarity? But complementarity also needs to run in, and the reason for complementarity is that even if the two of you are different, you can find the rhythm of getting along with each other, and you can make up for each other's shortcomings and move forward in the direction of happiness together; It is not suitable to make up for it at all.

    Because in your heart, you will feel that "I am sacrificing", "I am wronged", "I have to", and you will always be unhappy when you are together, and there is no way to communicate. A good partner will make you better and better, you will be willing to become a better person for him, you will get better and better together, this is a good run-in, the two of you walking together always have advances and retreats; And the person who is not suitable will only force you to no way out, or make you feel very lonely and lonely on the emotional road.

    3.A way to judge whether it is "running-in" or "not suitable".

    The best way to judge whether you are "running-in" or "not suitable" is to see if the problem has been solved after the two of you quarrel. Partners who can run in on the shirt, they will find ways to coordinate with each other, and both of them are willing to work hard for each other's relationship; But if the two of you are not suitable, you will always quarrel about the same problem, and there will be no solution, and you will only quarrel endlessly, consuming emotions and hurting each other.

    Why are so many two people who know that they are not suitable, and they still force each other to run in, in fact, we are unwilling to face the fact that we are not suitable, we are afraid that without TA, we have no choice, we would rather live in inertia, comfort ourselves with habits, and use avoidance to live one day at a time.

    It's not difficult to get, you have to learn to let go first, run in with the right person, life is a very beautiful thing, that will be the incomparable happiness in life, so that you can't help but grin when you sleep at night, and you will be very happy with you.

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That's what you think too much, a person can't be perfect enough to be liked by everyone, but it's also impossible to make everyone hate, don't be so pessimistic, there are always people who like you.