What are some of the values of the older generation that you can t identify with?

You should do whatever you do at any age, and when you are old, you should get married and have children as soon as possible. This is especially true for women, who are not married by the age of 30, and they will talk behind their backs and speculate about whether she has physical or psychological problems. In their opinion, a woman should marry herself while she is young, and when she is old, she will lose the price.

When you get married, you will also urge you to have children, as if marriage is to pass on the lineage. We girls are not vassals of marriage and men!

Stability trumps everything. Civil servants, public institutions, state-owned enterprises, and banks are the "iron rice bowls" in their eyes, which are better than all work. In fact, today's market economy is so active that young people can make a difference when they enter private enterprises or start their own businesses, and they don't have to be in a safe corner.

If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you. For this sentence, as a young person, we still have to look at it dialectically. It is not denied that older people do have more life experiences and experiences than us young people, and there is much to be respected and learned from us, but this does not mean that their words are all right.

Looking at the post-50s, post-60s, and post-70s around you, it is not difficult to find that many of them are actually living a life of inactivity, and some even achieve nothing. A large number of old uncles who are still hooligans, and square dance aunts who wantonly disturb the people abound. But often the worse the people are, the more enthusiastic they are about educating us, and every time they meet young people like me, they talk about their so-called life experiences and instill values that they are proud of.

You don't have to read too high, otherwise the child will be raised in vain. I often hear people of the older generation talk about whose children stay in distant cities to work after graduating from college, saying that such children are no different from white raising. So you shouldn't go to any university, and your child should stay around.

What is love, marriage has to be steady. A woman is a cook, and I don't move pots and pans. The older generation thinks that marriage is a matter of partnering, because their marriages are basically flash marriages.

The introducer takes the lead in meeting, and it almost becomes more than half. It is precisely this value that the divorce rate is the lowest. At that time, when a woman married into a family, she did laundry and cooking.

The bungalow where my family lived back then was a neat row of houses, and the units were built uniformly. Men are smoking and playing chess outside, and women are hardly seen out of the house, anyway, I haven't seen any men do laundry and cooking.

The most deep-rooted and far-reaching influence should be "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great; If you have a child, you must bring it", this concept is still influencing a group of people. Not much to explain, well understood.