What divine logic of the older generation have you experienced?

I can't look down on my love, let me break up, and after I finish parting, I go on a blind date, and I watch it all together on a blind date, and I come back and get married with all kinds of dissatisfaction, and then say why don't you look at it more!

Good father Huang Lei once shared his parenting experience in the show "Longing for Life": "I have never regarded her as a child. She is a thinking person, she has her secrets, her thoughts, her life.

She doesn't belong to me, we are independent individuals, I don't impose my will on her, we get along like friends. "For children, the love of parents is the best education for children, this love is not narrow protection, but more to encourage children to become independent, independent people. ‍‍

It's not my fault. Some parents have a strong logic that they can blame the outside world for all their children's growth problems, and never look for the cause in themselves. For example:

If the child's test score is not satisfactory, their first reaction is that the child does not study hard, and in the same way, if their child is not as good as other children's children, it is because the child himself does not work hard enough, or the teacher is not good at teaching, or the school teachers are not good. This kind of parents always believe that I have fulfilled my parental responsibilities, and that my children can't blame me for not learning well, and they are used to pushing things on others, and they never know how to reflect on themselves. It's like every time you get sick, your mother thinks it's caused by your poor dressing, and it makes no sense. ‍‍

Never reason with your parents, once your parents find out that they can't talk to you, they will use morality to suppress you. It's like when you were a child, your mother peeked at her diary, and you were extremely angry and asked her, "Why did you invade my privacy?"

Mom was unashamed: "You are still my birth, look at your diary!" "It can leave me speechless.

Tell us about yourself. My dad was a bit extreme, and when he was a child, what he heard the most was: "Why can't you do what others can do?"

You're just stupid, you're not as good as others." I'm no one else, and it's really hurtful. This is quite reasonable, and the notes I wrote and the pictures I painted, I didn't let my father see it, he said that I was disobedient and unfilial, and he wanted to beat me and was super fierce!

And when his money is less, he suspects that I stole it. I'm very innocent, and now there are shadows that don't dare to get close to my father, but fortunately, I live with my mother, and my personality is slowly getting better. ‍‍

1) Throw the missing tooth on the roof or under the bed.

When we were children, we must have experienced a period of tooth replacement, where teeth fell out automatically in order to grow new teeth. The elders in the family will ask if it is the upper or lower teeth. If it is in the upper row, the child will be taken to the side of the bed and thrown under the bed; If it's in the lower row, you'll throw the lost teeth on the roof!

It is said that if you do this, your teeth will grow out neatly. The elders will say this, in fact, the intention of comfort is greater, and I hope that the child will not be sad because of this. In fact, after the tooth is lost, remember to check for other unusual conditions first

For example, bleeding does not stop, there is a foreign body in the tooth, and so on. The second is to brush your teeth in the morning and evening to make sure that there is no food residue between your teeth. In this way, the teeth will definitely remain in a "beautiful" state!

2) Nibble on the fish bones and draw a fish pattern in the cup.

When I was a child, I would be extra careful if I ate fish. If a fish bone is accidentally bitten, the elder will pick up the cup and fill it with water, then hold the bottom of the cup with three fingers, draw a fish pattern in the filled cup with chopsticks, and then slowly let the child drink the whole cup of water. Strangely, if the situation is not very serious, you will gradually stop feeling the presence of fish bones in your mouth.

When I grew up, I found that these are actually psychological effects. It is recommended that if you bite the fish bones, do not blindly believe in the soil method, if the situation is too serious or has not improved for a long time, do not hesitate to consult a professional doctor immediately!

3) Do not eat eggs before the test.

I believe most people have heard it when they were young: "Before the exam, you can't eat eggs, otherwise you will get zero eggs in the exam!" The elders would say this because both eggs and zero eggs have a relationship with the word "egg".

In fact, they also wish the children a smooth exam! Eggs can not only provide the protein that the body needs, but also refresh the mind and enhance memory. The most important thing is not to eat greasy food before the exam, and try to eat as light as possible to avoid stomach pain affecting the exam.

When you take the exam, relax and prepare for your homework, so you won't be afraid of doing too badly!

4) After eating, do not leave the rice grains on the plate.

When many people are young, if the elders of the family see that the child has finished eating, but there are some uneaten grains left on the plate, they will start to say: "When you grow up, your wife and husband will have such a grain on their faces!" It means that when the child grows up, the other half of the child will have something similar to pimples on his face.

In fact, the elders will say this, and the biggest intention is to hope that the children will not waste food. As the saying goes: "Who knows that Chinese food on the plate, every grain is fortunate."

From an early age, we must know how to cherish food and cultivate the virtue of not wasting food.

Location: Ward, Content: Preoperative interview with the patient.

D: Are you saying that the operation can be successful or it may fail?

Me: Well, surgery is risky, that's why I'm talking to you.

D: And even if the surgery is successful, I may not be able to get better?

Me: Yes. Your disease is not possible at this current level of medicine, and you will need chemotherapy after surgery, etc.

D: That's equivalent to saying that you dragged me into the operating room and had a surgery, and I spent my money and suffered my sin, and I still had to die, right?

Me: I've just told you about this, surgery can improve the prognosis of your disease, prevent complications, and prolong survival.

d (interrupted): What survival is extended? It's good to make more money on me, torture me more, and let me die, right? Me: ...If you refuse surgery, please sign here. <>

Decades ago, when I was in junior high school, children were more conservative than adults, and that was strictly observed, and skin-to-skin contact was absolutely not allowed, although adults didn't care about it anymore. In this case, I invented a method of "shaking hands" between men and women: rolling up a textbook or test paper into a cylinder, and then two people grabbed each end and shook it up and down, which was considered a handshake.

This method quickly became popular. Curiously, there are no taboos for shaking hands between people of the same sex, but it is rare to see people shaking hands. The "handshake" between the opposite sex is enjoyed by everyone.

One day, a girl, who I had forgotten why, reached out and grabbed a pencil case, reached out to me, and asked for a handshake. I blushed and argued, "How can you do this, this pencil case is obviously iron, this is a conductor, it can't be used for isolation and insulation!" ”<

When I was in high school, I heard of such a thing, it happened in the junior high school where I went to school, even though Xiao Jia, a classmate in the first class of junior high school, was eight feet long, five big and three thick, but he was honest and kind, and he had nothing to say if he had a good temper, so he was often bullied and teased by his classmates and didn't say anything, Xiao Jia has always believed that people should be treated with sincerity, no matter how bad a person is, he also has a limit, it is not advisable to fight violence with violence, and he must move his classmates with kindness and sincerity, so later, Xiao Jia's treatment changed from disguised insults and insults to blatant on his neck, and sometimes he was punched and kicked by three or five classmates. So the teacher said, "Xiaojia, you are so strong, how can you bully a classmate who is thinner than you?"

I'm so disappointed in you! Xiao Jia was naturally not convinced, and explained the cause and effect of the incident to the teacher in detail, but the teacher made him speechless. "Even then, you can't hit someone, anyway, whatever the reason, it's just not right to hit someone.

The teacher occupies the supreme moral high ground, Xiao Jia really can't swallow this breath, so he found his parents, Xiao Jia's father is a Sven man, he came to the school with a smile to find the teacher's theory, but he touched a gray nose. "Your parents don't care if your children beat people at school, but say that there is a problem with the school's handling, then let me ask you, why do so many children beat your children if they don't beat others? Xiao Jia exclaimed next to him

You should ask them, right, why do you ask us? "Take 10,000 steps back and say, so many children beat your children, there must be something wrong with your children, don't complain about this and that, you must find the reason from yourself first." The teacher seemed to be reasonable, Xiao Jia couldn't insert a word, and Xiao Jia's father couldn't listen to it, so he left without waiting for the teacher to finish.

If the story is over like this, it is impossible for it to reach my ears, Xiao Jia's father is not as Sven as he looks, he found a group of people that night to catch the teacher off work and beat him violently, and then said to the teacher after the beating: "So many people beat you, it must be your problem, don't complain about this, complain about that, you have to find the reason from yourself first, do you know how my son felt at that time?" <>

Crossing the street with my sister, I held her elbow and played with my phone as I walked. Suddenly, I felt my arm loosen, and when I looked up, my sister had left me and walked briskly on her own, beside me a speeding car. In a flash of lightning, instinctively, I slammed forward, almost passing the car.

My sister was also stupid, standing there staring at me blankly. I slowed down, poked her head and asked angrily, "Why didn't you remind me?!" She said with a confused face, "I saw that you were playing with your phone, so I couldn't bear to disturb you."

Last year, a woman added me QQ, and the first sentence asked me if I was married? I think, just an ordinary netizen, why don't you care if I get married? So I asked, doesn't my marriage have anything to do with you?

Then the other party came and said, please respect yourself. I'm a little confused, what did I say? Let me please respect myself?

Married men, she said, are not worthy to talk to girls. Did I say I spoke to you? You came to add me, and now you still make me self-respecting, as if I were a prodigal son.

However, the message couldn't be sent, and the other party had blocked and deleted me. It's hard to understand her logic.

My boyfriend is a person who doesn't eat fat, and we once went to McDonald's before a classmate dinner and asked for some fries and chicken nuggets. I said, I've eaten a lot of junk food today, and I'll get fat if I eat it again. He said that garbage is useless things, junk food is also useless things, eating is equal to not eating, come, keep eating.

I almost believed in his wickedness. ‍‍

Go to the hospital today....A guy cut in line, and I asked him, "Why don't you line up?" He said:

Because I don't have the quality! For a while, I was speechless, so I simply slapped him, and he jumped up and asked me: You...Why did you hit me?

I told him, "Because I'm sick?" Why don't you come to the hospital...These days, who is afraid of whom, the more afraid the weaker, since I have a neuropathy, hey, the whole person is more energetic.

The logic of leadership is never understood. I used to work in an advertising company, and I stayed in the company after work to work overtime, and he said that you have low work efficiency and don't understand life, and he said that he deliberately cheated overtime pay (and then he really canceled overtime pay.) When he got off work, he said that your workload is not saturated, and your mind is not on work.

I said I'm done. The leader said: Why are you so unenterprising?

After you are done, you can stay in the company and learn the case! ‍‍

I usually rush the manuscript and am very busy. It's rare to have a free day, so I take a bath, get a haircut, buy a shirt, buy a pair of shoes, ......Anyway, I decorated myself from top to bottom. Then when I got home at noon, my wife had already arrived home, and I didn't see my wife's impressed eyes at me, on the contrary, she looked preoccupied.

And then you don't bother with me for a day. I wanted it at night, and she wouldn't let me touch it. I'm a little angry.

Then she was aggrieved, crying and saying: "You usually look sloppy, it's normal, you dress like this, there must be someone outside." ”

I once took a taxi, and as soon as I got in the car, I habitually fastened my seat belt. As a result, the driver saw it and said with an unhappy face: "What are you doing?"

I was shocked, "I didn't do anything!" Driver: "What are you wearing seat belts for?"

Me: "Isn't it all about wearing a seatbelt when you get in the car?" Driver:

You don't believe in my skills! Me: "No, it's not ......."Driver:

You just don't believe in my skills! Watch me drift to you! "Boom....Whoosh ....It scared the hell out of me....

When I first joined the work, I would run an online network with my roommates who wanted to be new, 600 a year, and 200 per person. They didn't do it, I came back alone, asked me for the wifi password, I ignored it, and said everywhere that I was selfish, on the grounds that they and I staggered their working hours, which had no effect on me, and it was stingy and selfish not to use it. I have a saying that I don't know when to say:

Your wife is also idle, and I stagger your working hours. ‍‍