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I said a little too much, I hope you can finish reading him, because this is the root of my question for you, friend, our life is not salty or light, and our love seems to be there or not. Love in the material age has long been corroded and soured. Can you leave a space to make your mind simple, so simple that only each other's shadows are left in each other's eyes?
Shuttling through the city of high-rise buildings, asking the lights and wine, when drunk and dreaming of death, hugging and hugging, can there be a true love that belongs to us? And when we walk hand in hand under the high-rise buildings in the bustling city, smelling the smell of dust flying in the sky, that feeling doesn't feel so sweet! When love is so simple that there is only one hug left, are you still building a mirage for yourself?
No matter how strong a person is, there are times when he is vulnerable. How many of those who are strong on the outside can read the loneliness in our hearts? Who can really give us the Garden of Eden that has eliminated the stench of copper?
The world is busy, and the pursuit never stops, nothing more than fame, profit, and power. I am not a love saint, and I can't be stupid enough to pursue that peerless and beautiful true love only in the country of my dreams. Love is sometimes very realistic, and in the absence of bread, it is such a luxury to talk about love!
Without fancy clothes, we can still coarse linen, without cars and bungalows, we still have a piece of land where we can stay. At that time, I would always proudly say: even if we have nothing, we still have love!
And love is like a food, after all, it also has an expiration date. How surprised will you be when one day you suddenly find that the love you once was proud of is only an empty gorgeous appearance? The love that has been painstakingly managed will also quietly leave you.
Is there an eternity in this world? Even the stars will fall and the universe will be destroyed. After the vicissitudes of life, who remembers that once unforgettable hug?
How long can a love last? Perhaps the essence of human beings is to love the new and hate the old, and fairy tales can only come to an abrupt end when the prince and princess live happily ever after. Because in trivial everyday life, all the details are similar.
How many moving movements can pots and pans play in the collision? I finally understood that the union of happiness is not perfect, and the reason why love is beautiful is precisely because of its shortcomings. Can people who come together after several ups and downs be able to love each other for the rest of their lives?
Respecting each other is just a kind of family affection in the final analysis. In the days of escaping, how many thrilling memories are left of the love after soaking in oil, salt, sauce and vinegar? Love, only in the ordinary, can last for a long time.
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Is it true that married couples only have family affection and no love? The longer the marriage, the greater the confusion, is it natural for men to be flattering.
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After marriage, the relationship between husband and wife will slowly transform into family affection, rather than the sweet love when they first met.
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Communicate more, many things stem from poor communication.
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None of the best gets are the best. The best is not obtained. That's how people nowadays think wrongly.
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Love must be there, but it is not as vigorous as before marriage, and the love after marriage is more reflected in the details of life and is more real.
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Even if you have been married for many years, there will still be love, because some love will become family affection, but love can better maintain the relationship between two people.
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There is still love, but it is not as strong as it was at the beginning, and after many years of marriage, the affection between husband and wife will be greater than love, and they are used to each other in life.
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There will definitely be love, but this kind of love is very different from the love at the beginning, and the current love is more pragmatic.
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Of course, there is no love, there is just family affection, after all, the two have been with each other for many years.
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Of course, there is love, but this kind of love will gradually transform into family affection, and the favorite thing between two people is to accompany each other.
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There should still be love, of course, family affection is the majority, because after a long time, there is only the feeling of companionship.
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It should be more family affection than love, of course, love still exists, but it has been transformed into a form.
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After the husband and wife have been married for a long time, there will still be feelings between the two people, because the feelings of the two people will make each other more firmly together. The relationship between husband and wife should be aware that any kind of relationship should put the relationship between husband and wife in the first place. Because having a good relationship between husband and wife can make the family more harmonious, there are some wives who put their children first and their husbands last after they get married.
This sort of sequencing does not realize that the relationship between two people is the most important thing.
In life, most couples face a long period of marriage, and after a long period of marriage, two people think that there is no love at all, but the love is transformed into family affection. When treating each other, they are just a relative that they often see, and they do not regard each other as their lovers, but because of this relationship transformation, each other's identities will be more profound. Husband and wife get along for a long time, regardless of whether there is love or not, everyone will have the idea of divorce.
There will be 1,000 thoughts of wanting to strangle each other, but couples will still consider being together.
The relationship between husband and wife.
After the husband and wife have been together for a long time, the feelings between each other will be transformed from love to family affection, and this transformation is not something that they can control. Mainly because of getting along for a long time, most people will show the worst side in front of the people they love the most. Completely put the temper in the eyes of the other party, even if the other party finds it difficult to accept the husband's temper, he will continue to run in because of the child's choice.
The relationship between husband and wife needs to run in with each other.
The relationship between husband and wife needs to run in with each other, and whether there is love between each other or not, Lao Zheng Liang will put this feeling in his heart. Wives should be aware of how busy they are at work, and they should inform each other and understand how hard they are at work. When the other party comes back from work, you should say to the other party that you have worked hard or I love you, and through this expression of love, you can enhance the relationship between husband and wife more amicably.
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Whether there is love between husband and wife for a long time, this has to divide people, most people are grateful and have feelings, or there are false feelings that are different from others, that should be love, even if there is no love, there will be deep family affection; But some people are cold-blooded animals, ungrateful and twilight, this kind of person has no conscience, extreme selfishness, maybe he doesn't even love himself, let alone love.
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Husbands and wives go early to sing their limbs together, because they love each other to become husband and wife, how can they get married if they don't love each other! It is impossible for two people not to quarrel after being together for a long time, there will definitely be differences and quarrels with different opinions, which requires tolerance and understanding, and humility to each other, otherwise there will be quarrels. Love is run by two people, Yingxiang will get better and better, instead of not thinking about it after quarreling, wanting to divorce, Lu Shi will affect the relationship between husband and wife if it goes on like this, and in the end, love will become family affection, closer than love, and when you grow old, you can accompany each other until you are old, which is true love.
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Yes, how can it go to the end without feelings, although the feelings may not be as strong as at the beginning, but, there is always a grandson, not love, the hail will also be family affection, friendship, after all, they have been together for such a stupid chain for a long time!
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In the case of husband and wife, love will eventually become family affection, or an emotion that overrides family affection, friendship and love, the kind that is difficult to give up!
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In the end, the husband and wife love less and less, but there must be discordant notes, and each is busy with the family.
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One of the three major events in our lives is to get married and form a family to live, so that life will be happy and have no regrets. Two from acquaintance and love to get married, there is a belief that they are holding hands together, hoping that love will be together in the next life is a standard, the map is instructed, and the hail will be better, our dozens of silver weddings, golden weddings, enviable, hand in hand for a lifetime, never give up, we infect each other I believe that there is true love.
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The relationship between husband and wife may not simply be between two people, but between two families. So I think if there is no big contradiction, it is better for two people to live together, after the two of you are separated, maybe the two of you will become very uncomfortable because of leaving each other, and I think the two of you should think more about the actual situation of the two of you. You may have your own parents, or you may have children between the two of you, and if the two of you divorce, it may cause irreparable pain to both families, and it will also make your children's personalities particularly sensitive, and they may be the shadow of their parents' divorce in their childhood.
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Why is it necessary for couples to have love in order to live a lifetime, maybe when we are not married, we feel that there is no love, how can we live a lifetime, how can we live a life with a person without love, but even if you find a person you love very much, after getting married, in fact, you are tortured by reality, and you don't have the mood to fall in love, and sometimes you even feel that love is really ridiculous, especially naïve.
I used to love my husband very much, at that time we also had a deep relationship, just because we loved each other very much, and because they were very compatible, plus it was also a good match, so we chose to get married, and our parents agreed that we would be together, I thought we would be so happy in love for a lifetime, but after a long time, I found that when you reach a certain age, you go to talk about love or not, there seems to be some funny feeling, I think it is a game for young people, we who have been married for a long time, It's really funny to talk about it again.
After getting married, I thought that there was a happy life, but after a long time, the feelings will fade, plus it is in marriage, how to say that the parents are short, and then a bunch of trivial things, a bunch of trivialities, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, you say that we are in the mood to think about what to love or not, and there is no mood to think about whether there is affection between the two.
Now we have been married for eight years, we rarely quarrel, and we rarely get angry, but the relationship between us has changed, it has become a feeling of family affection, no longer the feeling of seeing each other's heartbeat, and there is no such feeling of blushing and heartbeat, this is love, and the love of the year has become what it is now.
You said that the two people who loved each other very much back then didn't they end up like us, and they became two people who were going to live together, so why can't you live a lifetime without love, and if you have love, you will definitely be able to live a lifetime.
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Someone once made a parable like this: If.
Du put the marriage zhi
It is seen as 100%, RMB DAO accounts for 20%, feelings account for 20%, and sexual harmony accounts for 60%. Regardless of whether this analogy is biased or not, the importance of sex in marriage is self-evident, especially for a man, a sexless marriage may still exist, but it basically means that there is no emotion
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In fact, it is difficult to live together, because even if you live together, there will be constant friction, and it is easy to break up.
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If there is no love between husband and wife, they can continue to live together, because many people will transform love into family affection after marriage, especially after having children, it is more of a sense of responsibility to the family.
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There is no love between husband and wife, but there is still family affection, with children and the elderly on both sides, when the two have no new love, they can still continue to live together.
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Personally, I don't think there is any need to continue to live together, and two people without feelings will not be happy when they live together.
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Of course, you can continue to live together, and two people can choose to live together, and it's the same with whoever they are.
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I don't think we can be together, if two people don't have feelings together, it will be very boring and painful.
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I think they can continue to live together, even if they don't have love, they have feelings for so many years together, and they will choose to continue to live together for the sake of their children.
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Not at all! Marriage is a very important decision in life and involves the happiness and future of the individual and the family. If you are facing similar confusion or concern, I can provide you with some advice and guidance to help you better handle the situation.
First, we need to realize that everyone has different life experiences and personal values. Some people may have different expectations and needs for marriage, and these expectations and needs may change over time and experience. Therefore, we need to think hard about our own needs and expectations and make a gap with our partner to ensure that we get what we need in our marriage.
Secondly, there is a process of running-in and adaptation in marriage. Every couple will encounter some problems and challenges, but how to deal with them depends on the communication and cooperation of both parties. Therefore, we need to establish a good communication and cooperative relationship with our partner, respect each other's needs and opinions, and work together to solve problems and overcome difficulties.
After most things, if you think you have made the wrong decision, you should think carefully and evaluate your situation, figure out possible solutions, and think about the way forward. Sometimes, a marriage may require certain actions, such as a couple's relationship** or separation, in order to resolve the issue and protect the interests of the individual.
To sum up, marriage is an important decision in life that needs to be seriously thought out and considered. If you're going through a similar situation, try communicating and cooperating with your partner, or seek professional help and advice to help you make the best decisions.
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