Is it a kind of human destiny to be unsatisfactory in life?

My fate is up to me, not to heaven, and my fate is in my own hands.

This poem is from the poet He Wei. In life, success is only temporary, but failure is the main theme, I think, the real maturity, should not be the pursuit of perfection, but face their own shortcomings. This is the essence of life.

Poetry:

Poetry refers to the traditional poetry of the Han nationality in China, represented by ancient style poems, near-style poems and grammatical poems. It is also one of the characteristics of the Chinese character cultural circle. It is generally believed that poetry is more suitable for "words", while words are more suitable for "lyricism".

Poetry is a literary art that expounds the soul, and poets and lyricists need to master mature artistic skills, and in accordance with strict rhythmic requirements, use concise language, dense rules, abundant emotions and rich imagery to express social life and the human spiritual world in a highly concentrated manner.

In life, we will always encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks in life, which is also a part of life, which makes our life more colorful and makes our life more fulfilling and exciting. When encountering setbacks and difficulties, many people will be very disappointed and sad, which is also a "low period" in life, self-pity has no role and, we need to muster up the courage to stand up and face him bravely.

First of all, you need to adjust your mentality. A good attitude is half the success, a good attitude can not only make us indifferent when we are not satisfied, but also give us the courage and strength to stand up; Second, believe in yourself. No matter what kind of difficulties and setbacks you encounter in life, you must believe in yourself, only by believing in yourself can you get up from the trough, bravely face and spend this unsatisfactory time, and only by believing in yourself can you have the strength and faith to continue to move forward；Finally, keep improving yourself.

If your own strength is not worthy of your ambition, then you need to calm down and study, which not only does not improve our knowledge and vision too much, but also makes us stronger. <>

First, we must adjust our mentality. Many people are very prone to disappointment and pessimism when they encounter difficulties and setbacks, which will make us feel lost and overwhelmed, so if we want to come out, we first need to adjust our own psychological state, so that we have the confidence and courage to stand up again. <>

2. Believe in yourself. Believe in yourself at all times and don't give up on yourself. In this way, we can have the courage and strength to start over in the face of any difficulties.

Only by believing in yourself can you get up from the trough and regain your confidence to overcome and overcome all hardships and hardships. <>

Third, we must improve ourselves. The prerequisite for overcoming all difficulties is that you become stronger and stronger, not only physically and willingly, but more importantly, your own ability and realm, so that you are truly strong, and you are the strength to overcome all difficulties and face life again.

How do you adjust yourself when you are at a low point in your life?

When something happens, I usually complain first. I don't think I can handle it, it's a very difficult thing to do, and it affects my judgment a lot.

When something goes wrong, I will find a way to solve him. If I can't solve it, I don't think about him, let myself relax, go on a trip or watch a movie.

When I encounter unsatisfactory things, I am able to accept them optimistically, and then constantly push myself to become better.

In fact, I am very calm to deal with things, and if I really can't do it, I will ask others for help.

When I encounter something, I will calm down, and then slowly sort out the matter and find a solution to the problem.

First of all, calmly distinguish the pros and cons of this matter, and actively seek help from others when you are unable to do it independently.

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. Life is very tiring and hard Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless Sad and sad to cry, find something to do, it is not boring Because life is like this No one's life is smooth sailing As long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart. Just remember: don't give up this second, there will be a miracle in the next second Life is inevitable to fall and wait Be brave to look up The sunshine is always after the wind and rain!

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax. 5.

Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects.

For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it. 7.

Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.

Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Go for it! Finally, I wish you a happy life! Oh.

People and everything in the world are the same, birth, old age, sickness and death are all natural norms.

Assuming that a person's life is all going well, then on some levels, he is not a person, because he is like an experiment in nutritional water, he has not experienced the true meaning of life all his life, and can only experience wind and rain and rainbows, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, can be regarded as a complete life.

Unsatisfactory, to put it simply, is another spice of life.

Connoisseurs say: life is fate, luck is luck. "Fate" and "fortune" are two different things, which together constitute "fate". There are those who believe that one's life is controlled by "fate". Some people have bad luck, some people have bad luck, and some have good and bad lives.

In short, fate is something that accompanies a person throughout his life (if you believe it).

It doesn't really matter if there is fate or not.

The key to life is that everyone has only one life, and you can't do it all over again, and when faced with a choice, you can never know which choice is better, because life can't be repeated, and you can't choose to come back and make another choice later, to see which choice is better, because this can't, so no one will ever know the answer.

I believe that there is fate, because of the irreproducible nature of life, the trajectory of life can only be forward, there is only one life, only one fact. Therefore, your life can only be an actual occurrence of the bright chain plum, then your life is doomed.

Whether the said fate can be changed is another question, in fact, there is no such thing as change, because there is only one life. No other life is happening.

Huang Yi said that fate, one is there and the other is nothing, and there is no such thing as a change of fate.

Because, if one person's fate will change, then the change of one person's fate will lead to the change of everyone's fate, because people are related to human activities. Therefore, there can be no change of fate.

Unsatisfactory things will always pass, as long as you persist.