Have you ever forgotten for a moment what you said in your hometown?

I've always been with my parents, so I've been speaking my hometown, but for a while I lived in the factory, I forgot to speak my hometown, not that I can't speak, and the inadvertent time will become Mandarin, because the people around me are outsiders, all the time I speak Mandarin, and I don't have an old family when I go back to the dormitory at night, and after a long time, it becomes a habit, and this habit lasts a long time, and it is difficult to hold it back, I have a cousin who has been speaking his hometown dialect before, and went to school in other places around the age of 10. Until now, he has been outside, going to school, going out of society, and has been outside, he can understand the dialect of his hometown, but he can't speak.

The young and the eldest are still away from home, and the country accent has not changed and the sideburns are mourning". I've been out for more than 10 years since I was admitted to university to work, and I'm a little homesick when I talk about my hometown! It's all Mandarin communication outside, and when you go home, you use dialects!

It's very strange that sometimes I call ** to my hometown outside, and I inadvertently communicate in Mandarin, and I will resume immediately when I am reminded by others. Staying in my hometown for two days, the dialect used when communicating with colleagues or friends outside, I said it for a long time to see that others didn't react, and then I reacted, oh, you don't understand hahaha.

It's not that I can't speak my hometown, but I can't switch it at any time, and the switching period is relatively long, such as going home during the summer vacation, speaking Mandarin in the first month (of course, it's not standard), and basically switching to my hometown dialect in the next month, and basically my hometown dialect one month before returning to school. I guess it may be that my language nerves are relatively weak, after all, I didn't learn to speak until I was more than three years old.

When I was 17 years old, I left home for the first time to go to school in other places, there were all over the country, I couldn't understand my hometown, and I slowly formed the habit of speaking Mandarin

The night is coming".

When I first came to Shanghai, my boss said that my hometown dialect was too strong, and the boss lady happened to be at the desk opposite me, and as soon as I spoke my hometown, she directly corrected me, and slowly my Mandarin became better and better. Since the beginning of the year, it has been like this, and my colleagues around me also speak Mandarin. When I came home for the Chinese New Year, I suddenly found that my hometown dialect was very awkward, and it became Mandarin as I spoke.

Because of the long-term absence from the language environment and forgetting skills, especially many hometown dialects have various problems such as flat tongue pronunciation and other problems, speaking Mandarin will naturally be awkward.

I was washing clothes at home, I wanted to buy a piece of laundry soap, let my sister buy it, my sister was relatively small at the time, I didn't know what it was, I thought for a long time I didn't know what it was called in my hometown, and then I described it, saying that it was used to wash clothes, solid, not laundry detergent, and what else, my sister said it was called pancreas, haha, I was really going to die of laughter at that time.

I think a lot of people are in situations like this now, and they suddenly forget what they want to say. Regulate your emotions and remember it later.

Yes, because after I went to university, I would go to other cities, and I would use Mandarin when communicating with my classmates, because they couldn't understand my hometown's dialect, and over time, sometimes I would suddenly forget how to say my hometown's dialect, and I didn't remember it at the time, and then I really didn't remember it.

Nowadays, many people will have situations like this, and suddenly they forget what they want to say. Regulate your emotions and remember it later. Just think about when you forgot, combine the environment at the time with your thinking or the nature of what you think, look for opportunities, maybe you can think of it, don't be discouraged if you can't think of it, think about it can't make you remember, then you will remember it when you can know.

I think there are a lot of moments in fact, because I went to school far away from home, and after graduation, I went to work in other places, so I kept speaking Mandarin and forgot my hometown.

I lived on campus for several years, and when I came home in my junior year, I found that I couldn't speak my hometown dialect anymore, and I couldn't remember it no matter how I thought about it, so I was really anxious.

I'm used to speaking Mandarin all the time in big cities, so sometimes I can get stuck communicating with my family in my hometown. It's that moment, I suddenly don't know how to express it, in fact, many people who go out to work hard will have this situation.

In the days of school, everyone speaks Mandarin, and sometimes they really forget how to say their hometown, and after getting used to speaking Mandarin, they will rarely speak their hometown dialect again, because most of the people around me are speaking Mandarin.

For a moment, I had been speaking Mandarin at the time, and I suddenly wanted to go back to speak my hometown dialect to them, but I didn't know how to say it, I couldn't remember it for a while, and I was embarrassed to ask others.

This often happens, because after going to university, people from all over the world communicate in Mandarin, and often after getting used to Mandarin, they forget how to speak their hometown.

I felt this way when I first started college, because I used Mandarin all the time on campus, and then I saw a fellow who wanted to speak his native dialect to him, but he didn't know how to express it.

That's pure nonsense, the hometown accent doesn't change the sideburns, you forget, it means that you don't have the concept of hometown, feel that the hometown is ashamed, even the ancients understand this truth, don't you understand, who doesn't say that our hometown is not, hometown is the most beautiful in my heart. I have also met people in three thousandths who have forgotten their hometown, if they speak the same language as their hometown, especially in a town, and they speak their hometown dialect, and you are still speaking Mandarin, then others will despise you very much.

Normal, I'm in the same situation. It may be that the language skills are a little poor.

It's been a long time since it's been useful, just find the old people at home to learn more and practice.

I don't know what to do when I'm alone at home, I have nothing to rely on, living in this hometown in this world, I can't find the meaning of my existence, I will have an unspeakable despair of my hometown, and I feel that life is endless and hopeless.

How do you say this? I think as I get older in the past few years, every time I contact my family and go home every year for the Chinese New Year, I often face the urging of my parents to get married, which will make me feel very helpless, I feel that my parents have never thought about it at all, they only know to let me get married earlier, so as to meet their wishes and have more face in front of my neighbors and relatives, whenever I encounter this moment, I will feel that I really can't communicate with them, and even really desperate.

I still remember one time when I went back to my hometown, it rained heavily in the days when I lived at home, because the roads in my hometown were generally yellow mud, and it was raining heavily at home in those days, so when I went out, I saw that there were puddles in front of us, and it was all mud.

For you, there was a moment of unspeakable despair about my hometown, and for myself, it was when I was young, because my hometown was relatively poor, so it was all houses built of earth. When it rains, the roof leaks so much that it doesn't work. At this point, I feel too desperate.

"I was born in a small mountain village where my parents and fellow villagers lived", this song is very kind to our wanderers who are far from home. But in fact, there is often a big difference from imagination, you are close to your hometown, and your hometown people are not necessarily close to you.

My mother died in 2007. When I held the funeral, I thought that 10,000 yuan was more than enough, because I inquired, and other people's families spent 5,000 yuan at most, but I didn't expect that the last 20,000 yuan was not enough.

Afterwards, the eldest brother in the village told me that all the people who came to help wanted to take advantage of the opportunity, either stealing or buying things for kickbacks, and the stir-fry chef also spoiled things. It is unthinkable that a person in the village has stolen ten cigarettes one after another.

When my mother died, everyone came to help, I was very grateful, but I didn't expect that my hometown had bad intentions, is this my father and fellow villagers?

I don't live in my hometown now, because my job is not in my hometown, and when my grandfather passed away last year, I went home to give my grandfather a funeral, and I felt that at that moment, my hometown was very desperate for me, because my grandfather was very good to me since I was a child, and its trend hit me too hard, and I couldn't face it, so I don't want to go back to my hometown now, because I am desperate for my hometown.

I didn't listen to my parents' advice, and I resolutely chose to marry far away, thinking that I was married to love, but God made a big joke on me.

After I got married, my hometown, 1,500 kilometers away, became my unattainable concern.

After getting married, my husband seems to have changed as a person, as long as he is wronged outside, he will pour his anger on me when he comes home, I have become his punching bag, and sometimes he will point to my nose and say: Go back to your mother's house.

Every now and then, I feel a wordless despair about my hometown, not knowing where my home is.

Some time ago, when I went back to my hometown, I saw that there was a banquet in the village, so I followed to see the excitement, and saw that everyone was eating the banquet, and as soon as the dishes were served, some people began to pack, and many people were crazy to rob. There are also people who don't start to move their chopsticks, and there are no dishes on the table, I really can't understand it, I don't know what is going on with the fellows now? In the past, everyone didn't rob in the poor era, but now when the conditions are good, they pack and grab vegetables, at least they have to wait for others to eat before grabbing it, it's really desperate to see these fellows!

It is said that once you step into the land of your hometown, it is easy to find a sense of belonging. But I think there are many times when I go back that I feel so disappointed that I don't want to go back to this land again.

There are too many people in the family who are sophisticated, and the more they understand, the more complicated they become, anyway, everyone is not willing to speak with sincerity, and they blindly try to please others, but they will make others feel that they have a plan.

A few years ago, I went to my grandmother's house to visit relatives. It's a bit far away, plus the reason for going to school, it's going to the New Year, but they can't help but lose their temper during the New Year, the family is noisy, and the smashed things are smashed. At that moment, he was so desperate that he didn't want to go to his house again, even his mother's father and mother didn't feel any family affection.

There is no nostalgia for that hometown, too.

I don't know why, I thought of the idiom Handan toddler.

In other places, I tried my best to integrate and speak standard Mandarin.

In his hometown, he followed the customs of the villagers and spoke his hometown.

Don't put the situation into a mistake, if you also speak Mandarin in your hometown, it's easy to make yourself dizzy.

: It's forgetfulness. Modern people are almost a common problem, mental pressure, ask the elderly, there is no such problem when you are young

Yes, and it comes up often.

Then just say what you know, because you still have to speak anyway, or if you have the time to practice Mandarin a little, it's okay to have an accent.

According to you, you can't speak? If that's the case, then it's sick, and you must go to the hospital for a check-up. Generally speaking, the native dialect is the mother tongue, and the native language is unlikely to be forgotten.

People are selfish and eager to get more benefits. When there is a conflict of interest, especially when the interest is compromised. A person's reaction is the most recognizable to us. I found that there were some people who no one noticed when I had no money, and now that they have money, they are rushing to come to me.

Suddenly seeing a person's character clearly, it is surprise, more disappointment, it will linger in your mind, impressed, so see through it, don't make this friend. No one is perfect, in the case of the same three views, we must tolerate the shortcomings of others more, so that we will have more friends, after all, we are not perfect, encourage each other, and tolerate.

When I was in my twenties, I was working outside and lived together in a shed, and the two of us made dumplings together. There were about 120 of them, and there was enough for the two of us to eat. After cooking, I took out the dumplings and hung them on a curtain, and we both took the bowl to pick up and eat at the same time.

I took a smaller bowl, and at most seventeen or eighteen dumplings, and sat down to eat. My buddy found a big bowl, and he put the hundred and ten dumplings on top of each other like a wall, and there was not a single one left in that big bowl! I'm going to sit here and watch how he eats these 100 or so dumplings!

He sat there at half-past eleven and ate slowly, and I said, "If you can't eat it anymore, forget it, don't break it!" He squeezed out three words from his eyes:

I can't hold it. "At last there were a dozen or so of them, and he walked around the room every time he stuffed them, and that's when I really got to know him.

I am a self-aware person, and I know how many pounds and taels I have, and what kind of life I am suitable for. But it's really hard to really get to know someone, and it often takes a long time to see a person's heart. The instant realization, the love at first sight, has scarred me, and I have not been happy from the pain to this day.

All feelings are always sweet and happy at the beginning, slowly there are changes, there are quarrels, there are pains, and then the bridge returns to the bridge, the road returns, no one wants to turn back, and there is no way back, you go east, she goes west, the farther and farther, and there is no going back. People can never recognize a person in an instant, otherwise, hard days will still be long!