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I'll give you a very useful suggestion, you give me one.
He has been sending you messages before, he is active, you are passive.
If you keep being passive, he will think that you are cold and not interesting to him, so you should also take the initiative to send him a message. I just met, and there are a lot of topics.
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The blind date is already very unreliable, and the landlord cheers up! Don't do anything stupid!
First of all, no matter what happens, stay calm.
Even if it's something like falling out of love, it's normal!
If the landlord really likes this blind date, don't be too sad, if he doesn't love you, he won't be happy!
Fourth, everyone has a different outlook on life, and only by knowing how to be strong can we live better!
Finally, I hope that the landlord can get out of the haze as soon as possible and find hope! Reinvigorate yourself....Slowly find your true love and the right person for you ...
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Fate is destined by heaven, let it be, no one can take it away from you, and you can't get it if it's not yours.
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You're a woman, he's a man, and he talked about four paragraphs, without concealing it, and he gave it all out. It shows that he is frank and sincere. You're understandably excited, but there's no rule that a person is only allowed to fall in love once?!
He could also see that you cared a lot. So I think that if you are more satisfied with him, the deadlock is because of you, and the deadlock still has to start with you! It's not a question of who takes the initiative.
Ask him to tell him again your reflection on this matter. Please remember: there are many, many people in the world, and there are very few people who are truly destined; There is only one person who can really be like-minded and grow old; If you pass by this person, you will hold a grudge for life!
Please think carefully! Please!
You can continue to ask questions later!
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In fact, since he doesn't take the initiative to contact you, it means that he is not very satisfied with you! Unless one day he figured it out and will come to you! So, don't put too much affection on him, and get to know other people again!
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Hello, I personally think that in fact, many times blind dates are not very successful at one time, and even if they meet twice, they only have a general understanding. If the other party no longer talks to you, maybe they don't like you very much and are not very satisfied with you.
So let's just get along with each other as ordinary friends.
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Then let him go with the flow, you haven't started yet, why do you want to do so much.
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You have to be careful with this, and it may be hanging your appetite. Or if you really like him and think he's good, you reach out to him. After all, women chase men.
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Maybe in the chat, you said something to step on his point. People are like this, when they are not acquainted, when others are a little bit bad, they will infinitely magnify, and then deny your whole person. That's how I was denied.
If you think you like him a lot, then ask him directly, there is nothing to be ashamed of, is it not good to live for yourself? If you ask directly, and he says it's not appropriate, then go next. Although it will be sad for a while, it will pass. Come on!
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He thinks you care about his past and is going to treat you coldly. If you take the initiative to cater at this time, he may consider continuing, if not, he understands your attitude! But I think your feelings may be a blank slate, or you care more about him, girl keep your eyes open, I wish you happiness!
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Then you just ask him, do you think it's inappropriate? Or what? Otherwise, neither of them speaks, and it is very bad to speculate excessively on other people's minds, and it will make people very tired.
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I've been in a relationship four times, and one of them told me about his ex-girlfriend and how he broke it up the first time, which made me feel very embarrassed and angry, and my first impression was very bad. The back is blown.
The subject has not been in contact for five days in a row, and the introducer actually gave a reply, which is more tactful. I think the subject can have more than a few phases, and very few of them are successful, and my husband has been together nine times.
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It's really high, if he doesn't look for you, can't you find one?
Looking for him?
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If the relationship is determined too quickly will reduce the value of one of the parties' feelings, the result of two people not understanding each other well enough may also be prone to conflict.
1. If you don't know enough, you can decide how quickly a relationship will die, and the decisive factor for the final leakage is not the determination of the time, but the degree of understanding of the person in front of you. But often, too quickly identify the complications of the relationship.
That is: you don't have enough time and experience to deeply understand the other party's life, and only after determining the relationship do you find out the true nature of the other party, you suddenly feel that you are lost Li Wang, and you want to break up, and the relationship is so premature. At the same time, the other party may also have the same limited understanding of you, and may be with you on the spur of the moment, or he may wait for him to come back to his senses only to find that you are not what he originally thought.
Therefore, the reason why we don't establish a relationship as soon as possible is not because the decision is too fast and the relationship is not smooth, but because we know each other too little and the relationship is not good. 2. It is easy to get, and it is too fast to determine the relationship if you don't cherish it enough, which can easily lead to a problem, that is, it is too easy to get. First of all, it is too easy to obtain, which leads to the problem of feeling that it is not good enough, which is the nature of human beings; The main thing that determines the length of your relationship is how well you know each other and how well you accept it.
On this basis, it is better to have a relationship that has been brewing for a while.
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Summary. 1. Ask how old the other person is and how old he is.
2. How tall are you?
3. Ask the other party about their academic qualifications, at least they should be on the same level.
4. Understand what the other party does.
5. How much is the monthly salary?
6. Understand what the other parent's do?
7. Are you an only child?
8. Ask the other party if they plan to get married.
9. Ask questions about hobbies and interests to see if two people have the same or similar hobbies.
10. What kind of boy do you mind, and what requirements do you have for the future half.
Blind date questions?
1. Ask the other party how old he is and how old he is. 2. How tall are you? 3. Ask the other party about their academic qualifications, at least they should be on the same level.
4. Understand what kind of work the other party is doing. 5. How much is the monthly salary? 6. Understand what the other parent's do?
7. Are you an only child? 8. Ask the other party if they plan to get married. 9. Ask questions about hobbies and interests to see if two people have the same or similar hobbies.
10. What kind of boy do you mind, and what requirements do you have for the future half.
11. What are your plans for the future? 12. Understand the other party's economic situation and whether they have the strength to develop into marriage with you. 13. What is your impression of me?
14. What do you think about the issue of love and marriage in the state? 15. Do you usually do housework and cleaning? 16. Is there something you really want to do but haven't done?
17. Do you like to travel with tourists? Where would you most like to visit? 18. What do you think is the most important thing in your life?
19. Do you have a house or a car? 20. Do you live with your parents after getting married?
21. What do you like to do? 22. Do you like sports? 23. How many boyfriends and girlfriends have you talked about before?
24. Will you still contact your ex after a breakup? 25. What are your criteria for choosing a mate? Cong Hu 26, what do you think are your shortcomings?
27. Do you think you are more extroverted or introverted? 28. I don't have a high academic background, do you mind? 29. Do you mind my work?
30. Do you think you are a flowery person who stops talking?
Girlfriend who has just broken up for a long time, what topics to talk about.
Do you feel like your ex-girlfriend still has feelings for you?
Just chat, don't talk about feelings.
Since they have been together before, you should know what your ex-Xiaohe girlfriend likes and dislikes, and the usual chat topics are actually not suitable for two people who have already met and understood each other.
I asked you what you were talking about, and now I don't know what to say.
Then you can talk about your daily work and so on.
Or Weibo gossip.
Gotta find something to talk to, don't you?
What to talk about, don't use analogies.
Talk about your work.
Her work. We've talked about this before, and now it's after the breakup, not the understanding stage, so there's something else to say.
Then talk about what happened to you during this time.
Happy and unhappy.
It can all be said.
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Summary. Hello, I am Teacher Yu, a psychological counselor. Focus on marriage and family, marriage and love feelings, parent-child education and other fields. I've received your question, and I'll help you analyze your problem together.
Hello, I'm a psychological counselor and a teacher. Focus on marriage and family, marriage and love feelings, parent-child education and other fields. I have received your question, and I will help you to ** and analyze the blind problems you are experiencing.
Can you elaborate on your question?
There are other problems with the rejection of a blind date with a girl.
Understand, you mean that the girl rejected you after the blind date, so what specific questions do you need to consult?
The blind date with a girl was rejected, and there are other topics.
You mean that after refusal, you still want to find a topic to talk to her, right? Then find out why she rejected you.
I don't know, there's no reason, it's just not suitable to dig up, let's talk about the topic, now I haven't been in touch for 4 days, don't say anything else, but you will talk about the topic, don't make analogies, say other words, don't say it.
Let's talk. After understanding, you can ask her, "Hello, I have been thinking about you since I saw you last time, can I have a chance to meet you again?" I know that there is a shop where the stuff is delicious, and we can go to Buna Sui together to taste it."
Eat the hammer, all break up and eat.
I'm just giving you an example, you can also ask her to watch a movie, go shopping, go to the mall, etc.
If you break up, can you still make an appointment?
Aren't you looking for a topic, you need a topic to find a topic. Or you can talk to him about yourself.
I know you had a mediocre impression of me last time, but I have a good impression of you, can you give me a chance to get to know me better? ”
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Summary. "The blind date object is the object of the problem" is a metaphor, which refers to the fact that in the process of blind date, you are usually faced with a series of questions from others, which may be inquiries about personal career, family, study experience, etc. The objectification of problems in blind date situations means that blind dates are easily swayed by superficial problems and find it difficult to truly understand each other.
Therefore, the blind date should learn as much as possible about themselves and have a clear self-awareness in order to truly find the partner they want and build a healthy, mutually respectful relationship.
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
"The lack of a blind date is a problem object" is a metaphor, which refers to the fact that in the process of blind date, you usually face a series of questions from others, which may be inquiries about your career, family, study experience, etc. The problem in the blind date occasion is objectified, and the close-up means that the blind date sedan chair is easily swayed by superficial problems, and it is difficult to really understand each other. Therefore, the blind date should learn as much as possible about themselves and have a clear self-awareness in order to truly find the partner they want and build a healthy, mutually respectful relationship.
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