I can t let go of the taste of unrequited love, it s painful

Updated on psychology 2024-04-10
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Alas, you are so painful and so entangled, it means that you still like her very much, so why think too much? You just need to know that you really like her, and try to find opportunities to create opportunities to hint at her or just say it! Don't hesitate so much, it doesn't matter what happened before, don't miss it and regret that it was really late then, maybe she was waiting for you to speak!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe.. It's just your thoughts...

    Since you think it's a hint, then you can make it clear to her, show your good impression of her, if she is interested in you, she is also reluctant to miss you, and will show you a little bit, then you can go with the flow.

    Feelings are something that two people are willing to love.,You're in love alone.,It's not interesting for the other party to be cold.。。。 The key is to have emotional communication ...

    Hehe.. It's better to dare to act than to speculate on your groundless ...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    After reading what you said, I thought she was very weird, maybe she had a boyfriend, right? It's just that I don't tell you or my family, if you hate someone, unless you have loved him, or you are a harasser.

    Until one time. She ignored me. And on the signature it reads:

    Suddenly I have an epiphany, and my disgust for you rises like a function exponential"..And this paragraph, I really can't understand it, or is she referring to you not you but someone else? Hate this ambiguous relationship!

    If you like it, you have to say it, if you don't say it, you will never have hope, no results, and no woman will be moved by you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    She should have a boyfriend, so why don't you ask, and see how she reacts, and you can also hint to her that you are interesting to her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Brother, are you still there? I'm in love with a married woman right now, and it's miserable anyway.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Gains and losses are ordinary things, right and wrong are left to the be, grievances and grievances are not ashamed, I know that I am warm and cold, the bumpy road of life, the twists and turns of the career ladder, you don't have to care too much about everything, I wish you good luck in your life!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The one who loves has another beloved, of course, will suffer. It's just that this becomes your own feelings, and it is destined to be fruitless, the painful mood will definitely last for a while, and how long it lasts depends on whether you are willing to accept the reality, the more you indulge yourself in emotions such as "why" and "uncontrollable", the longer your pain will be alone. Personally, I suggest that at this stage when you can't give up this unrequited and fruitless relationship, find more things to divert your attention, and don't leave free time to think about or pay too much attention to her, and the pain will always be ** after a long time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't look, don't listen, don't know, don't force yourself to forget, miss if you miss, cry if you want to cry, laugh if you want to laugh, nothing. In short, it is necessary to refrain from acting, but not from restraining one's feelings. Time may not wash everything away, but it can be diluted in this way.

    You may not be able to forget or let go, but you can at least find other joys that can make yourself well, even if you feel that you are not capable of loving others, even if you still cry, you can at least live better than before. It's a process, and the first thing you have to do is refrain from watching and listening to the other person's behavior.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hide him in a little corner of his heart, bored Take it out and think about it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Every time I think of him, I will unconsciously cry.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you can't put it down, you have to put it down, what else can you do, the other party doesn't like you and doesn't care about you, just remember this sentence and remind yourself when you think about it, I guess it won't be so sad.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Distraction, time will dilute everything.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Girl, as a man with a bit of the same personality as your crush (I'm not afraid to say who I am), I advise you: give up. A man with this kind of personality sometimes inadvertently says that what he sometimes says is actually his inner world, really, I am like this, just like he said that he wants to find a post-90s girl to marry, I bet he is not joking, as long as there is a chance he will!

    He really doesn't care about you, he doesn't even care that losing you will lose his economy**. That's all I have to say, I didn't mean to beat the mandarin ducks, I just gave you my own opinion. It's all from the heart!

    Do it at your own discretion. I hope you can have a better home than him!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you haven't hurt anyone else with a butcher's knife raised like he did before. Give him up, such a person is not worth it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's really painful to fall in love with someone you don't like, but it sometimes takes a lot of courage to give up!

    It seems that the chance of you being with him is very slim, try to give up, I think you should leave for a while, ask for leave to go to the field to relax, or apply for a business trip or something, in short, it's best not to meet first, calm down and then talk about it.

    If it's too hard to give up on someone, then transfer the relationship and put your concern on your good friend, so maybe you will feel better!

    Bless you!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I can't stand it anymore, why do you like him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Men who don't respect women, give him up quickly.

    The real male protagonist is just tsundere, and he doesn't know how much he loves the heroine.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hey,,, the biggest pain in life is this,,In the person he loves,,He doesn't care about himself,,You are too good to him,,Third, this is what a man wants to do to a woman,,You have done so much to him,,I also feel the same way,,Make it clear to him,This is the best way,,For him, even you yourself are difficult to protect、,He doesn't know how to cherish it.,You just make it clear to him.,So you and him are nothing,,He can't care about what he has to complain about,,, but you are colleagues,hey,, It's hard, so let it be

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Change your personality and pursue bravely, otherwise you will regret it in this life, and you will always be disappointed and fail.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Alas! Give it up! Sibling relationships don't usually end well! If you can, leave the company.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Actually, I'm pretty much like you. I don't want to say anything.,I hope my QQ information can help you., Gradually understood、

    What is stubborn, what should be abandoned?

    Stay and stay, and use you to deliberately retain

    Stay and hold on, desperately force it, and the same will go

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Pain is certain, this is love, he is not completely good?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's better not to see it, in case you can't control your emotions well, and the old feelings are rekindled, after all, you are now a married person, and the good times of the past still let it stay in your mind, as the most precious memory of your life.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You're not very satisfied with your current life, so you always miss the good old days, telling you that it's just a dream of your youth, wake up, cherish the present, cherish what you have.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can recall that there is no need to meet you It should be because you will lose your current family and all kinds of losses And you can't go back to the past I'm also my ex-girlfriend who loves me very much I've been breaking up for two years I've been thinking about her but I can't go to him I don't know how he's doing now Maybe he's married or single I broke up with her because I'm not productive Now it's still unproductive He's not that kind of woman because I've done something wrong So loving someone doesn't have to be together, she's happy and happy As you should put all your mind on your husband and children now, after all, they are where your happiness lies.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Fill your life to the fullest, you're too idle.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    What do you want when you're married, and it's still a crush. Cherish what you have now, and don't know how to cherish it until you lose it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Personally, I think that since you really can't let go, you just don't need to let go. Hide it first, take this feeling as your own motivation, work hard to learn to change yourself, work hard for your career, when you encounter adversity, you tell yourself, if I change, maybe that girl will look at me differently, you can see that you are a very analytical person, I believe that as long as you are willing to work hard, perseverance, there will always be a successful day, at that time you have everything you should have, you think about it again, whether this relationship is still there, if it is, then go to that girl, No matter the result, if you put an end to your feelings and persistence, if you are not there, then you have also created a new starting point and beginning for your future, and such a result may be the best for you or for her.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think you're pretty good right now, very sensible, and aware of your shortcomings. There are always gains and losses in life, there are many things that you just want to get very much, but fate is to let you fail again and again. But in fact, many times it is a lot of hard work to get it, only to find out that it was just a mistake.

    So, without knowing how old you are, it is still recommended that you follow your own line of thought, in fact, you already have a line of thought, you say that you don't have a career, then go to find a career, if you don't have status, then go to get status, if you don't have material, then go and create material. When you have these things that you don't have, I think that if fate comes, your love will no longer be what you are confused about. Hehe, in short, let's do business, that's the premise of everything.

    By the way, there is also family and health, which should be cherished.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    All kinds of love, can be left to future generations is only singing and crying, but if it really happens to yourself, there is no way to let others give you advice, although you can be a guide, but the result is not what you want? What advice can you give you to let go of unrequited love, the best advice is to follow your own feelings, you can also blank your brain, and go to bed after doing what you should do every day without thinking, care, or asking! After a long time, everything is over.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    is the same as the end of the world, looking at other people's feelings is always quick-witted, but in exchange for themselves, it is also sinking into the quagmire, I don't ask for anything, I like it and confess, I just hope that she can live a happy life, enough, life still has to go on, isn't it? Love is to follow fate, who doesn't cross the river by feeling the stones.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't torture yourself like this! Understand! God heals you!

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Let's do something else, time will really make you understand that the more you can't let go, the more you can't let go, and if he's mentally upset for you, look at someone else.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    This is the reality, people like to be good, buddy, I'm the same as you now, the difference is that I'm only a freshman in high school, I don't give up, you don't give up, as long as you have a good character and pursue nobility, then she doesn't accept it is her loss.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    You can try to find your next relationship.

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