There is a kind of enemy in the world called other people s children

Someone else's child - Wu Jialing.

Words: Wu Jialin.

Music: Wu Jialin.

When I was a child.

Just understand one thing.

Other people's children are illiterate.

It's more sensible than me.

He doesn't have to sleep or eat.

I make rolls day and night.

He has been popular since he was a child.

Every parent knows it.

You look at other people's children.

That little brain is full of knowledge.

You know how to eat.

After eating so much, I don't have a brain.

Hey, I'm talking about mom and dad.

I'm not an ambitious baby.

Other people's children are a flower.

Own child tofu dregs.

You look at other people's children.

Married a scarab.

There are cars, houses and tickets.

You're still watching TV here.

The girl doesn't look like a girl, either.

Hey, I'm talking about mom and dad.

Seven flowers on one vine.

I am not afraid of wind and rain.

La-la-la-la-la.

Baba.

He grew up with me.

He's still a top student, and he's got a home.

He also became a mother.

Baba.

Actually, I'm no worse than him.

But I remember urging me to grow up.

There is a child from someone else's family.

He grew up with me.

He's still a top student, and he's got a home.

He also became a mother.

Actually, I'm no worse than him.

But I remember urging me to grow up.

There is a child from someone else's family.

But I remember urging me to grow up.

There is a child from someone else's family.

Lazy Cats and Crocodiles Once upon a time, there was a lazy cat who, since he was weaned, no longer studied rat trapping skills, and could not catch even a fat mouse, but his owner was a hard-working farmer

That's right, it's too hurtful to strongly discourage parents from making comparisons. Even between husband and wife, I don't think it's any good, let alone the weak heart of a child.

Parents often compare their children with other people's children, saying: "You see how serious so-and-so is in his studies and his grades are so good, and then look at you, you don't study hard all day long, and your homework is a mess, so you learn hard from others." "Parents believe that comparison can motivate their children, so that they can learn from better children, work hard, and make more progress.

So in the life experience of many children, there is an enemy since childhood, he is called someone else's child.

But is that really the case? Parents of children who often compare will find that doing this will not make the child improve, but will make the child worse and worse, why is this? Because the child's self-esteem has been hurt, self-esteem is a backbone of a person's inner spiritual world, once broken, the person will lie on the ground, it is impossible to become a real person, his learning motivation, life motivation, and even life power will be affected, once the self-esteem is lost, the child will enter two worlds, one is no skin and no face, the other is broken jar and broken, and the appearance is:

You say I don't care about anything, I'm like this, what can you do to me? His self-worth, his enterprising spirit, and his sense of responsibility are gone. A child who is not recognized will be full of anger and depression in his heart, and some choices will explode, so he will quarrel with his parents and have conflicts, or even run away from home; Some choices are depressed, so they have no motivation to study, procrastinate in doing things, and use a way that does not resist or cooperate to fight against the burstool early parents.

And the best thing to hurt children's self-esteem is to compare their own children with other people's children, so, dear parents and parents, from now on, don't compare your own children with other people's children, okay?

If we really want to compare, we can try to compare ourselves like this: compare ourselves with ourselves; Today compared to yesterday; This time it's the same as last time. Through this guidance, let the child find that he has made even a little progress, he will be positive and full of self-confidence, because he has no enemies, he is his friend, insist on being a bird, he will fall in love with himself who is constantly growing and improving, and when there is acceptance and recognition of himself, there will be a successful beginning.