How important is it for parents to know how to sense of proportion in their children s marriage?

Parents know how to sense of proportion, which is very important for the marriage of their children, and in real life, one of the factors in most divorce cases is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

It is very important, because such parents are actually very open-minded and able to let their children have their own private lives.

is very important. Only with such parents will the children's marriage be easier and more happy, and they can also go further.

Parents who know how to sense of proportion will make their children's marriage feel very comfortable and comfortable, and they will also enjoy this state very much.

The mother is strong and irritable, and the father is weak and incompetent.

1.My sister's junior high school grades are okay, but she was stuffed into an unreliable high school, she didn't get a bachelor's degree in the college entrance examination, she didn't let her sister go to a junior college, and she was stuffed by her mother to an even more unreliable uncle's company, which is called "learning technology" and "finding a good job", in fact, the truth is to let my sister clean up there, who cares about her after graduating from high school? She told her mother that she didn't believe it.

My sister worked part-time for a year or two, forced her to get married on a blind date, and when she met someone who seemed to be okay, she immediately talked about marriage. The wedding banquet was not placed, and the mother bluntly said, "I am sensible and will not waste the man's money", and the mother said that the bride price was too much. As a result, after marriage, my sister became pregnant, and the man's shop was closed, and the family moved to another place to rent a house and work as a casual worker.

One thousand a month! Buy food for the whole family! The nutritional products that the baby eats when she is pregnant are also bought by her sister!

The man's family still has no house! The man's father is still addicted to gambling! Mother now expresses regret!

Regret! The father was silent and indifferent as usual.

2.My mother gave me the exam in my third year of high school, and she quarreled with me many times, can you believe it? As soon as I said the wrong thing, she lost her temper with a black face.

As for what I said wrong? She delivered the food too late and I couldn't stay in time for the morning curfew, I expressed my dissatisfaction, and I wanted her to come early, and she immediately lost her temper with me, blackfaced, and scolded me in the cafeteria. In the end, I had a bad attitude in the college entrance examination and got the worst grades in high school, and I wanted to repeat it, but my mother forced me to repeat it, and I felt shameless.

In the end, a few people in the class who didn't do well in the exam with similar grades to me went to repeat, and they all got good grades in the second year, and my mother regretted it after she found out. A sister in the neighborhood also did better than me in the second year of study, and my mother regretted it even more. As usual, the father was silent and indifferent.

3.Yes, whether it is me or my sister, our own reasons for the current situation cannot be ignored. My sister really didn't work hard in high school, and I really didn't have a good mentality, and we were all too weak when it came to making decisions, and what others said was what they said.

But can the parental factor be ignored? Don't ask for full support, just ask that when making decisions, it's good that she doesn't block you. The mother in the family has all the right to speak, and everyone has to act according to her face, but has she made any right decisions?!

My father has always been a shopkeeper who doesn't care about anything, and my mother sometimes complains about my father's inaction, and even scolded my grandparents when my father was unemployed and at home during the epidemic. What kind of "brainy" approach is this?! And even at such times, the father was blindly silent and indifferent!

It's stupid and pathetic! The best lesson my parents have taught me so far is to make your own decisions and not listen to them!

The marriage of parents has a great impact on the children's values, world view, and marriage view, and many children's marriages have followed the same old path as their parents' marriages. Some people think that if the parents' marriage fails, then after the divorce of two people, either party can give the child enough love, then this will not have any psychological impact on the child, I think it is extremely wrong. If parents have a failed marriage, this will affect their children in a great sense, and will have a great impact on their children's future views on mate selection and marriage and love.

If the parents are happily married, then the children will grow up in a loving environment and have a better life in the future. Such children are usually more confident, optimistic and generous, and will not quarrel with their lovers over trivial matters, because their living environment is very secure, they are not afraid to choose a spouse, and they are not afraid of marriage. Therefore, they will be happier, they will be more rational when choosing a mate, and they will not be like moths to a fire just because the other party quickly asks them to be slightly better.

If the parents are unhappy in their marriage, then the child will grow up in an environment full of quarrels and lack of love, and such a child will become very psychologically defensive about the lover. Most of these children have a defensive mentality, and they are very defensive when interacting with others, which is one of the ways they provide themselves with a sense of security and filial piety. Such children will be more sensitive when they are in love, and they will think that the other party does not love them because of some small things, which is one of the characteristics of their insecurity.

I believe that whether parents are happy in marriage or not will have a direct impact on their children's view of marriage and love. In all broken marriages, no matter which one is wrong, both people have to pay a certain responsibility. Some people's marriages are already in jeopardy, but they are forced to show affection because of their children, which can also have a great negative impact on children.

Therefore, we should be very cautious when choosing a mate, and we should not let our mistakes affect our children.

I think the marriage of the parents has a great impact on the marriage of the son, if the parents are happy, the children's yearning and pursuit of marriage may be stronger, but the feelings of the stupid parents are not good, it will also affect a person's view of marriage, and there may be more resistance.

Parents are very important to their children's feelings, if it is not important, we don't want children, parents' feelings for their children is the sustenance of the soul, their own hope, blood is thicker than water, parents' love is very great, no one can replace it, but children's love for their parents is far from enough, parents will give their lives to their children, and when children are parents, they will not give their lives. This is the feelings of parents for their children, and in turn, the feelings of children for their parents are far from enough, that is, as the old saying goes, it hurts to me, and it doesn't hurt at night.

Parents are very important to their children's feelings, parents can actively pay attention to their children's living conditions, pay attention to her heart, will make children have more sense of security, but the way to be correct, there is a distance and temperature, not too much interference, you can help him when you need you is the best.

The feelings of parents for their children are very important, and there are parents who do not love their children, unless they have a sick brain, like parents who have lost their children, as long as their children cannot be found, they will not stop for a day, even ask for food, and sleep on the streets until they find their children.

Of course, it is very important that children can feel the love of their parents.

Because in the hearts of parents, the happiness of their children is their greatest hope. Therefore, many parents attach great importance to their children's marriage, hoping that their marriage can be happy and that the two of them can grow old, so that they can also have a good old age.

Because in the eyes of parents, having a good marriage for their children means that their parenting responsibilities are successfully completed, and they can let go of their children to enter the next journey of life.

Because they are raised by their parents, they must hope that their children can live happily, so parents will regard their children's marriage as very important.

Because parents are used to giving, and they are now old, they only want to hold their grandchildren early, so they are very concerned about their children's marriage.

Children's marital happiness is the greatest wish of parents now, and if everything goes well in marriage, it is actually very helpful for children's careers.

It's normal, because parents want their children to live happily, so they attach great importance to their children's marriage.

Because they feel that getting married and having children is a necessary step in life, and the whole life is incomplete without it, and the concept of raising children to prevent old age has taken root in their hearts.

Because parents have experienced this, they don't want their children to repeat the mistakes of the past, suffer what they have suffered, and they don't want their children to be wronged.

Essentially, it's good for them that you get married:

1. Children don't get married, and outsiders gossip.

2. People live in the world and want to leave some traces that will not be forgotten.

3. When you get married, you can solve anything by yourself, and it rarely bothers them 4. People always have to give themselves a goal, otherwise it will be boring.

Because parents live for their children all their lives, they will only be happy when their children are happy.

Because they love their children very much, they want their children to be happy, and they don't want him to have an unhappy marriage.

If you grew up with your parents from childhood to adulthood, then I think his influence on your view of marriage is very great, because you get along every day, they will subtly change you according to their own ideas, just imagine, more than ten years, twenty years or even 30 years are like this, then you will subconsciously form a: "they are right" idea, and then when choosing a mate, you will naturally go to your parents to think about this aspect, Even measure your boyfriend and girlfriend by the standards your parents gave you.

Actually, I don't think it's very difficult to get out of this situation, as long as you often calm down and think about what kind of friends of the opposite sex are you suitable for? Who will you be happy with?

The influence of parents on their children's view of marriage is really very great, if the parents of some families are suitable for learning to love, then the children will not be afraid of marriage, or even look forward to marriage, and if the parents' marriage is a failure, or the parents are divorced, then the children must be afraid of the other half in the future, and dare not approach marriage. When I was young, my parents had to quarrel almost every day, and even fight when they were emotional, and I was really scared at that time, so I had an inexplicable fear of marriage, because I was also afraid that I would encounter this situation like my mother.

Parents really have a big influence on their children's view of marriage.

One of my brothers is now married. His family was very happy, his parents were very good together at that time, although they sometimes quarreled, but in the end they persevered. He also told me that he also wanted to have the love of his parents, and finally he found it, and he said that this was the love he wanted.

A parent's view of marriage represents the son's view of marriage in the future, and it can be seen from this incident that parents have a particularly strong influence on their son's marriage.

I think what a person is like, his parents basically decide half of him. If a pair of parents are very kind and usually educate their children with their own virtues and qualities, then the child will definitely be a talent. Children are more willing to experience the world according to their parents' lives, and it can be said that the living conditions of their parents greatly affect their children.

And the concept of marriage is even more so. A harmonious family will make children yearn for marriage, and if they just quarrel and fight every day, then gradually children will get used to this kind of life.

The influence of parents on their children is huge, and the influence can be divided into two types, one is the marital status of the parents of the original family, and it is the guidance of parents on the direction of their children's marriage. If the former parents have a bad relationship, it is easy to make the child have a fear of marriage, and the latter parents are easy to put the other party's family background first, which is especially obvious in the girl's body, making them more willing and eager to marry into a rich family.

I feel that the impact is quite great, children have grown up with their parents since childhood, and their parents' words and deeds have a deep impact on children.

If the parents are very affectionate, and the two people care about each other and love each other, then the child may also want to find someone who is good to him, and the two of them can live a life of affection like their parents.

For the marriage of parents, in fact, the impact on their children is quite large. Especially for those families who are having conflicts, it will cause children to have a certain fear in their own hearts, so that when they make friends, they will also have a kind of vigilance, and even unwilling to trust others, so that they will always drink alone.

I think it's quite big, parents are the closest people to children, children have been influenced by their parents since they were young, and the relationship between parents and husband and wife is even more directly related to children.

If parents respect each other, understand each other, and have a harmonious family atmosphere, then the child will also have a correct view of love and marriage in the future.

If there are frequent quarrels, fights, and family disharmony between parents, children may not yearn for marriage in the future.

It's quite big, indeed.

Take my mom and dad for example, they like gentle girls, often introduce me to this and that, as if they wish I would marry her home tomorrow, regardless of my feelings, and I, an outgoing big boy, like unrestrained, smooth-mouthed girls, I am very happy with them.