I have a very distressing thing, I like someone, but I don t have the courage to contact him.

Updated on psychology 2024-04-17
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You are very similar to my previous situation, I also like a boy very much, I have been afraid to contact, and finally when I go to college, I like someone else, but it is also because the person I liked is really not on the same road as me.

    If the person you like is very likely to get together with you, then pluck up the courage, if you feel that the direct confession is abrupt, you can appear more by his side, so that he can realize that you are special to him, and then you can confess.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hello friends!

    You say you don't have the courage to contact him, so do you want to tell him that you like him, or is it just a normal greeting? If the first is the case, then I suggest that you do not act recklessly, because you are not sure of your place in that person's heart. If it's the second option, I think it will work, because it's just a simple greeting to let him know that you exist, and it's not easy to find out your thoughts.

    Of course, you can interact with him seemingly normally, and when you really determine your place in his heart, then I think the boy will confess to you first.

    The above is just my analysis, if you think it is reasonable, thank you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not a sin to love someone, I think you should look at who he is first, and if he is really someone worthy of love, don't miss it. But don't lose yourself, find a chance to talk to him, and then see how he reacts, remember, don't let people play with your feelings.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Wait for the moment when he appears!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm just like you, but I personally think that you just need to watch him silently from afar, and don't confess like others say, if you don't have friends to do it in the future.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hehe, I still don't like it enough. It can only be said that there is a good feeling.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Pluck up your courage! Persistence is victory.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't even have the courage to chase a girl, then you simply don't fall in love for the rest of your life. People must have faith in themselves. If you love him, chase him. As a man, you don't even have the courage to chase your girlfriend. You'll be laughed at.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's good to look at. Don't muster up the courage to see what lies on TV! 555

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's okay to be bold and face her. It's possible that that person likes you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's very good, very independent, but it's polite to say thank you, and it's a bit raw to say thank you to a friend who knows you well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I also like that she comes to me for everything, big and small, and doesn't say thank you to me.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The question you give is not very clear. Is the person you want to be a man, or a woman? Have you started a family or haven't you started a family?

    In short, you are in trouble and don't want to bother him. If you don't have privacy with him, you can contact him directly. His family, his friends are understandable.

    You don't have to worry!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Pluck up the courage to reach out to him, and if he's impatient, don't bother him, maybe he'd like to talk to you too.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then you don't think enough, and when you can't stand it, you will have more courage.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Do what you want, don't let yourself regret it, and strive for your own happiness.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Why is there no courage, there is no shame in love.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Since the landlord likes a person, he will take the initiative to get close to her, and he may not need to confess first, and the suggestions are as follows:

    1. The best confession is not confession;

    2. Try to be friends first, and then walk into his life, or accompany him in the place where he studies (works);

    3. Observe his habits, preferences, hobbies, and what kind of personality and temperament he likes;

    4, and then help him as much as possible, starting from little by little, to love sincerely, without asking for anything in return;

    5. When he has you in his study (work) life, you wait for the opportunity to solve his emotional problems (joy, anger, sorrow, etc.);

    6. Good love needs to boil frogs in warm water;

    7. When he depends on you for everything, he is not your person;

    8, a casual confession is done, and a confession is only useful if you also know that he likes you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Beethoven was once deaf, the silent world was filled with despair and grief, in the face of the setback of fate, he chose to fight unremittingly with courage, in the fight against doom, the tragic and agitated "Destiny" symphony, played the strongest note of his fate.

    Life takes courage, and with it, you can go above and beyond to succeed. Courage is the light in the face of adversity and the only way to heaven. We need to believe that when one door is closed, another door will be opened for you, and the key to open this door is courage.

    Perhaps, many people will say that you can go on without courage, yes, you can still go on without courage. But when you encounter any difficulties or setbacks you need courage, without him, you may not be able to cross the fence and Tarzan ...... on this road of life

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Love is actually quite simple. It's also very unpretentious! Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true!

    For love, we don't expect it to be perfect, but we can make it true. Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become a fast food. What will happen in the future, who thinks so far?

    Therefore, love becomes a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely; As a result, love has become an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even a slave to money. Love at this time. has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and mundane.

    Is there still true love in this society? Yes But very little. Modern people don't know how to cherish love.

    When he has it, he sucks the essence of love without watering or fertilizing, so the flower of love withers after a long time. When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I had been pursuing was so close to me. It's a pity that there is no regret medicine in this world.

    So, when you have a good love, cherish it!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be brave and love can be spoken out. The love of the new era makes us take the initiative to fight for it, don't wait, think of him, find him if you like him, pursue bravely, I wish you success, I wish you happiness, come on.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    It's not that love is just that I didn't have it before, and now I want to get her body.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you've been paying attention to him, it should be.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Like someone but not having the courage is the psychology of inferiority. Like others but not courage, objectively you can see your own shortcomings, whether it is talent, economic conditions, family or appearance may be inferior to others in some aspects, so there is an inferiority complex. If you really love her, redouble your silent attention to her, look at her mood and diary, through these to know that when she is in a bad mood, you take the initiative to comfort and care for her, she will be surprised why you love her every time she is sad, and give him more love when he is most vulnerable.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Love is like that, meeting the right person at the right time. You have to have courage and you have to have luck. Sometimes, love is as beautiful as the sunset, a little trance, and after it goes down, you will be a little desperate, thinking that it will never rise.

    Since you like someone, take the initiative to get close to her, you don't necessarily need to confess first, try to be friends first, and then walk into his life, or accompany him in the place where he studies (works), observe his habits, preferences, hobbies, and what kind of temperament he likes.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Some people may have their own inferiority complex and lack of self-confidence, like someone but never take the initiative! Such people tend to miss out on some good fate and emotional ......The story tells us that when you meet someone you like, you must take the initiative to confess and don't be full of inferiority complex! Like someone, consider her needs, and care about her feelings, this is all right, but it can't evolve into an obstacle to one's own pursuit of feelings.

    In true love, you will overcome cowardice, be brave, and you will have a chance, be confident!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I'm a girl, and I'm disgusted to see that some boys want to chase the girl they like but don't dare to chase her, and they want others to chase her. From a girl's point of view, I understand the psychology of girls better. Most girls don't take the initiative to pursue the boys they like, except for brave girls who really like it too much or have more personality.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I don't answer your feelings, I just want to say, why do you think like this, why don't you have the courage, how do you know if you can't succeed if you don't try, I don't know how I feel, but I have never regretted it, don't think about it if you like it, wait a while to see if you still remember, etc.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Like someone, and want to associate with him, then boldly confess, whether it fails or not, at least there will be no regrets when recalling this past, maybe he also likes you, don't miss it easily.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Narrow-mindedness fades away; Let the free mind fly, and let the open-mindedness and tolerance return. In this way, a world that suddenly opens up in front of your eyes layer by layer: blue sky, white clouds, small bridges, flowing water, ......Chic and fast.

    Alive, all the way by, the fragrance of flowers.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    That's a crush, you should miss, be excited, longing, worry, and so on.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her disgust, if you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and it will slowly fade away. If you start to be rejected by her, that's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what's going on in the other person's mind?

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I want to get closer, but I don't dare to get closer.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It's like there's a delicious thing on the table, but you don't dare to take it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Don't be cowardly, if you don't be brave, it may be someone else's, don't make excuses for yourself, confess boldly, you will have to experience it sooner or later in the future.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Remember that happiness needs to be earned, and don't wait until the famous flower has a master to regret it. Be brave and chase it.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Well? Probably standing on the edge of the cliff and there is still a place for you to take two steps, if not, I am sure you will not lack courage.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    If you love him (her), you have to say it out loud, and if you feel uncomfortable in your heart, you will miss the opportunity.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you like someone, you should confess it, and don't leave regrets.

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