Do you think your ex boyfriend is worth it for you to do stupid things for him?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-26
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It should have been loved.

    If he is still thinking about you, he may contact you when he receives a gift, and if he is not thinking about you, there may be hours that will touch the memories of his time with you. If he has a girlfriend, then his girlfriend is likely to be sad and quarrel with him.

    If you are sure that he has found his home, then you have to stop doing so. Even if happiness.

    If you really can't be together, don't deceive yourself into doing anything for him, thinking that he can, buried deep in your heart. If you want a result, ask about his current situation through others, and if you are single, you can go to him and give him everything you do. If he has a girlfriend, don't bother him, don't make other women sad.

    Why did you break up, I think you should know. You also have to have your own home in the future, maybe there is a man who has loved you silently for many years, you can put your love and thoughts for him on yourself, at least when you meet one day, he sees you, he will say, you are still so good.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Give up, dare to love and hate love, have to have a good thing, give up, I know you'll be unhappy, he still does those!! No, I don't have to think about him, and I don't have to do anything for her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Needless to say. He is not your true love. You leave as soon as possible.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    As soon as people do something wrong, they push their ideas to others, and they never think about their own problems, how tiring they are.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't understand what you're talking about at all.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's worth it, at least at the time we were all sincere. I had a senior boyfriend in high school, I was a freshman in high school, he was a freshman, and I liked him from junior high school, and then he said that he liked me too, so we got together, and I knew that he really liked me at that time.

    Even if he only has one day off in high school, he will take a car from the city for more than 3 hours to see me, we see him once a month, and I am very happy to see him every time, and then he saved his own money to buy me a mobile phone, and said that he could call me when he missed me, I thought we would always be like this. After I finished high school, his college was in the field, and we saw him less, but I was still obsessed with him, I thought he was the same, and we would often play **, and the busy study in high school made me ignore his information less and less.

    Until one day, he said he didn't want to fall in love anymore, wanted to be single, I thought it was our long-distance relationship that made him feel tired, so he said okay, I wanted to wait for him to calm down for a while and then chase him back, a month later, I went on the offensive to pursue him, during which he has always been a non-refusal attitude towards me, I always thought that he had me in his heart, so it doesn't matter if I am brave, I started to have acne in high school, very serious kind, and I went to the hospital alone for minor surgery to remove acne on National Day.

    He knew which hospital I was in, but he didn't say he was coming to see me, I thought he didn't come back, but on the way home after the operation, I saw him shopping with another man and two women, well, I asked him, he said it was just friends, but gradually I learned that he had a girlfriend, and he was with her shortly after I broke up, and I chased him stupidly for nearly a year, and then decided to say goodbye peacefully.

    So I made an appointment with him one last time, at a light rail station, gave him a bottle of stars, hugged him one last time, and whispered goodbye. He seems to be living well with her, it's been 6 years, maybe they're married, I don't hear from him anymore.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's not worth it. Since it's an ex-boyfriend, he must have done something to hurt you. It is not worth it to do stupid things for such a person if he would rather hurt you to achieve his ends.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't think your ex-boyfriend deserves you to do stupid things for him, never do anything to hurt yourself, and it's not worth it at all to do it for a man who doesn't love you anymore.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it's worth it. Because the person who can be my ex-boyfriend, this person's character is very suspicious, so it is impossible for me to do something stupid for him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think my ex-boyfriend deserves me to do stupid things for him. Because he is not a good person, it is only because of my bad vision at the time that I fell in love with him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think my ex-boyfriend deserves me to do stupid things for him, he fights with me for another girl, he doesn't care about my feelings at all, if I still do stupid things for such a person, then I must be crazy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not worth it. The ex-boyfriend has to look like an ex-boyfriend, since he is an ex-boyfriend, it has nothing to do with me, and it's not worth doing anything stupid for him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not worth it. A scumbag who cheats and accuses me of having a bad temper is not worth anything for him at all, and it is even less worth it to do stupid things for him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's not worth it, because he betrayed our love and caused me a lot of damage, and I only have resentment towards him, no nostalgia, so it's impossible to do stupid things for him.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's not worth it. I think he's selfish, he never thinks about my feelings, and in his eyes the game is always more important than me, why would I do stupid things for this kind of person.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not worth it, what stupid things are you doing when you break up? Are you really stupid, sister, give up quickly, don't be nostalgic, you deserve better.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It depends on whether you are often invited or just once, if you do it once, you may be short of people one day, and if you often want to chase you back.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I guess I want to get your attention and get closer to you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I want to get closer to you. And then good compounding.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I used to love my ex-boyfriend a lot, but we broke up because of something. At one point, I tried to get him back, but I did a lot of stupid things to alienate him even more. I realized my mistake, but I felt helpless and didn't know what to do to gain his trust and love again.

    I began to try to find a way to get him back. I tried my best to do everything, including sending a lot of text messages, constantly calling, emailing, etc. But these efforts only made him more bored and made me feel more hopeless.

    I began to wonder if I had lost his love and wanted to give up, but the love deep in my heart made me unwilling to give up easily.

    Eventually, I decided to change myself and improve my qualities and abilities. I started to focus on my life, learn new knowledge and skills, participate in various activities, and expand my social circle. These efforts eventually made me more confident and independent, and also attracted the attention of my ex-boyfriend, allowing me to regain his attention and love.

    Now that we're back together, I'm deeply grateful for the stupid things I've done to make me know how to really win back my lover's first hat.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I did a lot of stupid things, and these stupid things cost me the man I love the most. During the time we were together, I always acted selfish and didn't care about his feelings. I always thought about my own needs and never thought about his feelings.

    This behavior eventually led to our breakup and caused a very strained relationship between us.

    I've also tried to get him back by throwing tantrums, slapping **, texting, etc. But none of this had any effect, and it made him avoid me. I suddenly understood that redeeming a person is not by nagging and losing his temper, but by using actions to prove his worth.

    I started to try to change myself, to become more attentive to him, to listen to his needs, to share my mood and life with him.

    After a period of change, trust and affection have gradually regained between us. He began to open up to me and share more things with me. Our relationship has become more stable and sweeter.

    I'm glad I learned a lot from silly things so that our relationships can be healthier and better. Everything I gave was finally exchanged for the opportunity for us to be together again.

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