Friends, why am I such a failure?

Freezing three feet, not a day's cold".Have you ever thought that your colleague didn't invite you to dinner because of the problem in the way you usually get along with people? In fact, the relationship between people is the mystery, only when you want others to open their hearts and start to accept and tolerate others, others will only treat you the same.

Whether a person is willing to be friends with a person is not whether you do something that others hate, but whether you can take the initiative to interact with him, at least you have to let him see your sincerity, if you don't even want to talk to others, how can you let others become friends with you, and how can others accept you? This is how to communicate with colleagues, and maybe you will find that it is not difficult to communicate with people. This world is very realistic, and if you want to learn to sell yourself, you must always put yourself in the initiative in interpersonal relationships, so that everyone can see your existence.

I'm sorry if I hurt you today, but I really hope that you can be affirmed and recognized by others, and you can get friendship. To be honest, many years ago I had the same personality as you, but now I am much better, people always have to face the reality, people are social animals, it is impossible to leave this society, which means that you have to face complex interpersonal relationships, so sell yourself.

There is only one reason, a very realistic and cruel reason, that is, you have no use value for him!

You don't have the slightest use value for him, although others are useless, but at least you can help him run errands and buy packs of cigarettes, at least this kind of errand value, and you, in his heart, don't even have this value!

Of course, what is the reason for this? Because you have no power, you can't speak in your unit, what does he do with you? Can you help him at work?

No, so he doesn't need to pay attention to you, and he is not afraid that you will give him small shoes to wear in the future, because you don't even have a future in his eyes!

If you really have no background and no future in this unit, you should leave your post and change to another unit, because it is impossible for you to mix well in this unit!

What rubbish for the three people upstairs! Just want to vomit! Your situation is so cruel and realistic, they are still saying "people are terrible", "don't close yourself too closely", "Freezing three feet, not a day's cold".Are you all numb?

You don't close yourself off too much, you have to take the initiative to blend in with the people around you, and even the society.

Seriously, didn't you mess with any of your colleagues? You must know that people's words are terrible, and a little slander can make everyone snub you! But if your former friends and classmates have ignored you a little now, then you have to reflect on yourself, have you lost your temper recently, put on a casual face to show others, or what happened to you?

Sometimes you have to make some effort yourself, and this misunderstanding will not disappear with the passage of time, but only get worse! Hope you can find your own reasons!

Summary. But first of all, it is necessary to be polite and polite, and it is still necessary to be polite in the mouth. Those who open their mouths will only be able to make friends with ulterior motives.

What kind of person you are will attract people who are on the same level as yourself. Therefore, to make friends, quality is very important. Remember to joke The definition of joking is actually to make everyone feel relaxed and happy.

For example, since the ** big coffee Mimeng, she often blackens herself, laughs at herself for being fat, ugly, and short, and everyone feels very warm after seeing her article, very relaxed and happy, and smiles. On the other hand, if she jokes with other people as examples, everyone will think that her quality is not good and her character is poor, and tens of millions of people will not pay attention to her. Yang Mi is also because of this self-blackening, so many people like her, after all, she is straightforward, not pretentious, and dares to easily say her shortcomings and ridicule her, this courage is worthy of admiration.

It's a failure to be a human being, why don't you have a friend.

Hello, this situation is actually quite normal.

You may not have met those like-minded people yet.

But first of all, it is necessary to be polite and polite, and it is still necessary to be polite in the mouth. Those who open their mouths will only be able to make friends with ulterior motives. What kind of person you are will attract people who are at the same level as yourself.

Therefore, to make friends, quality is very important. Remember to joke The definition of joking is actually to make everyone feel relaxed and happy. For example, since the ** big coffee Mimeng, she often blackens herself, laughs at herself for being fat, ugly, and short, and everyone feels very warm after seeing her article, very relaxed and happy, and smiles.

On the other hand, if she jokes with other people as examples, everyone will think that her quality is not good and her character is poor, and there will be no thousands of people who pay attention to her. Yang Mi is also because of this self-blackening, so many people like her, after all, she is pure and straightforward, not pretentious, and dares to easily say her shortcomings and ridicule her, this courage is worthy of admiration.

Affirm each other's advantages and recognize each other's strengths and weaknesses Everyone will have their strengths and weaknesses, everyone wants to be affirmed and hear praise, so if you want to make true friends in your interactions, you must recognize each other more, and at the same time strive to get the recognition of the other party. Of course, friends need to support each other, and friends who appreciate each other can be blind friends for a long time.

It may be easier to make friends this way.

I'm glad to answer your questions and wish you a happy life<>

Not having friends doesn't mean you're a failure. Whether a person has friends or not is actually a very personal question, and it is not an absolute measure of a person's worth. This may be illustrated by the following aspects.

1.Personal traits: Some people are introverted by nature, used to being alone, prefer to think and enjoy life alone, or the nature of work allows them to be alone, in which case even if they do not have too many friends, it will not affect their achievement and happiness.

2.Social experience: Sometimes, it may be difficult for a person to integrate into the surrounding environment because of the fact that he or she comes from a different background or because of the living environment, and lacks the opportunity to communicate and social experience.

3.Relationships: Some people may have a lot of love and family support and companionship in their lives, and they will not feel lonely or lost because of the lack of friends.

Therefore, not having friends does not mean that a person has failed, and it is necessary to evaluate a number of factors such as a person's personal traits, social experiences, emotional relationships, and achievements to accurately judge this situation, and at the same time, a person can also try to find new friends and learn how to build and maintain social relationships. <>

Not having friends doesn't mean you're a failure. Relationship building is a form of social interaction, but everyone's experience and personality are different, and some people may be shy, less socially competent, or have difficulty forming intimate relationships for a variety of reasons. However, this does not mean that one person is a failure, everyone has different lifestyles and choices.

For some people who don't have many friends, you can try to find new social circles, participate in interest groups and social activities with the same hobbies, and meet like-minded people; You can also read books, listen to podcasts and documentaries, etc., to achieve the output of some life experience and broaden your social insights, which will help a person to enrich his solitary life. At the same time, it is also important to cherish the friends and family around you, and maintain a sincere and friendly attitude, which will make it easier to establish good interpersonal relationships and have deep friendships.

In conclusion, having friends is a wonderful experience that can bring you joy and support, but not having friends does not mean that you are a failure. It is important to know your own worth and self-confidence, and to look for other ways to make your construction more complete and fulfilling.

Not having friends is not a stain on life, nor does it mean that you are a failure, on the contrary, it shows that you are very thoughtful and assertive, and rolling skin also shows that you are very strong in your heart and live a very self-conscious life.

There is no standard template for life, and no one can define success as a big difference. Tease.

I hope that each of us can live according to our own ideas. As long as you like it, then you are successful, and it doesn't matter what others think. <>