Parents have made some mistakes, should children fight for reason?

Updated on workplace 2024-04-04
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think it's necessary to argue with reason, when this matter is raised, parents must know that they are wrong, there is no need to let them admit their mistakes, think more about their parents, and maintain their self-esteem.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think children should fight on the basis of reason, but as long as the reason is clear, it is fine, and you must not be anxious with them, so that parents can understand some truths without destroying the relationship.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think we should argue with our parents, after all, we are the children of our parents, we must know how to respect our parents, we can try to communicate with our parents, but we can't be rude.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think that children should not fight on the basis of reason, because filial piety comes first, we must think from the perspective of parents, and we must respect our parents.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I think if parents do something wrong, we as children should argue with it and tell them that it is wrong, but don't blame them too much.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't think you should argue with your parents, after all, everyone has something wrong sometimes, and then you can patiently and carefully talk to your parents, mention it, and then tell him that it is wrong.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it should. Just because we are our parents doesn't mean we don't tell what is wrong. We should explain it with reason, explain it clearly, and let our parents know what is wrong.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    According to reason, there should still be a minimum of politeness, and you can point out that what you are doing is not right, and then discuss countermeasures with a calm mind.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Trivial, who hasn't been discredited by their parents when they were young? It's also in the news, it's a family scandal!

    Both have problems, but the girl herself has the biggest problems, so big that they mask her mother's problems.

    1.The girl's mother broke her trust and regretted it. As a parent, you should walk the talk, and her mother didn't do it.

    Children work hard to save some money, in order to realize a wish, as a parent, in the eyes, should help. But the premise is, of course, to help the child when he is in a good mind. I worked hard to save a sum of money, and my family also said that they could support me in business, so I planned to ask my family for a little more and then open a black Internet café at the entrance of the primary school.

    I didn't think I was wrong.

    2.The girl is still young, the family is not rich and asks for valuables, as a person who has come over is very clear that this girl is basically vain outside, very concerned about the eyes of others, and even selfish, this is already a bad thought, if this kind of thinking is not changed, whether or not to read good books, the future will be a harmful existence to the society.

    3.The girl started beating her mother, just one point was enough to sentence her to the lowest point of morality. As a child, you can scold and blame your parents, but you must not do it, this is definitely an act that you will regret for a lifetime.

    Young people may not understand it very well, and they may feel that their parents will beat them casually, and when they are in their thirties and forties, they will naturally know.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Most people don't care about their own interests, they will always be with the mud, and the mud doesn't need to use their brains, just follow the past routines, so no one cares about the truth behind this girl beating her mother, only her fault.

    The girl in your case is condemned to her mother, or to her co-workers and strangers in society. People who don't know the truth and don't want to know the truth and just want to talk about it will only see the surface and sympathize with the weak who are visible to the naked eye. This is also an experience of people in dealing with people, no matter how angry you are, remember to show weakness, so that you can win the next level first.

    Otherwise, it will become unreasonable.

    No matter how unreasonable the phenomenon is, in fact, it should be said that all causes must have results. There is no hitting or being beaten for no reason.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Parents and children have disputes, most of them think that their children have problems, this is a kind of prejudice, in fact, often parents are also problematic, because parents have been separated from social thinking, can no longer keep up with the development of society, but they think they are right, in fact, nieces also have the right time.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Parents and children have disputes, in fact, the question is not who has any problems, the most important thing is the parents, they want to save face, they need their children to make some concessions, so that they feel that they are justified, but the children do not do that, they are justified, and the parents are just dissatisfied with the attitude of their children.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The first thing children need to do is to set their own boundaries and isolate the contradictions in the relationship between their parents from their own boundaries, which can effectively reduce the psychological damage suffered by children.

    Children should try to understand their parents. It's not easy to be more considerate of them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    As a child, you should persuade you to quarrel and tell your parents that they often quarrel, bad will hurt the feelings of two people, and it will also affect the mental health of children, and I hope parents will pay attention to it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    As children, we should discourage them, and if both parties are not discouraged, they should take their parents on a trip together, which can ease the relationship.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not that whoever is the elder is not qualified to say the elders, nor does it say that the younger generations can only listen to the lessons, as long as people will make mistakes, but if they don't find their own mistakes in time, when they can make others put it forward, don't be happy to accept it, don't feel that it is your son or daughter who will feel faceless, in fact, it is difficult to educate the next generation, so you have to lead by example to better educate the next generation.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If this matter can be ignored, then there is no need to point it out, it is better to turn a blind eye for the sake of the parents' face. But if it is a big event, as children, we must point it out and make our parents realize our mistakes, which is also for their good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it should be brought up, because children are also members of the family and have the right to bring up the mistakes of their parents.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it should be brought up, but it should be done in a tactful way, so that it can help them correct their mistakes, but it will not make them feel that they are old, and these mistakes will be made.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think children should bring it up, because after all, it is a family, and telling parents that it is wrong can also make parents develop better.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It should be brought forward, and only if you bring it up, will your parents realize their mistakes and correct them.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Of course, it should be repaid, because the mistakes committed by the parents must be held accountable, so the children should bear the corresponding responsibility for their parents.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, because these are two separate individuals, and there are no such responsibilities and obligations, and there is no need for children to bear the debts of their parents.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I think as a child should be repaid. After all, when we do something wrong, our parents will help us bear it. So we should also bear their faults.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    For many people, I believe they have encountered such a situation all the timeBut after all, they are our parents and our worthy of respect, so we must deal with our parents' vexatious troubles sensibly.

    1. Find a suitable opportunity to communicate with your parents.

    For our parents, they are not unreasonable, and they don't know how to communicate with us, so we can choose a suitable opportunity to communicate with our parents, and understand the most real thoughts of our parents, so that we can solve the problems between us and our parents. At the same time, we should also pay attention to our own language in the process of communicating with our parents, and remember not to carry any personal attacks.

    2. Show your attitude.

    For many parents, they always think that they can deal with a lot of things through vexatious ways, but in fact, this is also the most disgusting thing for many children, so when we deal with such a thing, we must show our attitude in front of our parents, and let parents feel that this is a fact that cannot be changed, so that their parents are no longer vexatious. I also had such an experience a long time ago, when I chose my major, but my parents especially wanted me to study medicine, so they made trouble in front of me, but in the end they couldn't change their minds.

    When we are faced with our parents' vexatious troubles, we can also treat our parents in the same way, so that our parents will understand our hearts and their attitude towards them will improve. Although it is disrespectful to our parents to do so, if we apologize to our parents when both parties reconcile, I believe that our parents will also forgive us, so we must adopt the right way to deal with the problem.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Seriously, if your parents are making trouble, you can't do anything about it as a child. The most correct way is to listen to the side, see where your parents' vexatious problems are, and you can selectively talk to them based on the actual situation, but the effect is not great, only when they calm down, your parents will naturally know what is going on, see through it or not, and give them a little face, so the effect will be better.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I will take a tough attitude, and I will not let them rely on the old and sell the old, and being a person is all about being reasonable, and it is not unreasonable to achieve the goal, even if it is my own parents.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the parents are unreasonable, as children, we must first reason with our parents, if the reason does not make sense, the best way to deal with it is to deal with it coldly, I feel that time can resolve any contradictions.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If the parents are unreasonable, as a child will be very tired, at this time must communicate with the parents calmly.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think children should be patient with their parents about this and tell them that this is not right.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I think it should be. Even if parents make mistakes, then as children, we must communicate with our parents and let them know that what they are doing is not appropriate, and this must be said. Otherwise, it is likely that they will make similar mistakes in the future, which is really bad.

    Of course, when children talk to their parents, they must pay attention to their attitude, so that there is no problem.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Parents have made mistakes, as children, we should point out their mistakes, don't feel hurt to them, just because we are their children, we have the responsibility and obligation to point out their mistakes, we can't let them continue to be wrong, of course, we must take a reasonable way to point them out, we can't yell at them, we must respect them, we can't hurt them.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Parents have made mistakes, as children, they should be said, but we must pay attention to our own ways and tones, because when people reach old age, they will not avoid being deceived by some people, since you should remind the elderly what kind of things can not be bought at all, it is a lie.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    I feel that if parents make mistakes, children should not talk about them, but they should also actively report to their parents and correct their mistakes.

    It's better to report that the daughter in 15 years reported that her father was playing with her mobile phone while driving, whether it was right or wrong, because it was very wrong for the father to hit ** while driving, and the daughter didn't listen to the discipline, so she could only call the police, I feel that the daughter just didn't use the right way to tell her father, so it will cause such a farce, you must find the right way, not necessarily a reprimand, it can also be a lesson by word and deed, and parents will also listen to the opinions of the children.

    So, when parents make mistakes, be sure to use the right methods to get parents to correct their mistakes.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I think parents have made mistakes, and as children and daughters should go and talk about them. Well, because no one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes. Nowadays, there are many scammers who will choose some elderly people to deceive them.

    Targeted scams according to some of their psychology. So at such times, as a child, you should talk about your parents. Prevent them from being fooled again.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Be sure to look at what it is.

    My grandfather was deceived recently, went out for a walk, someone asked him to install a water purifier, how good it is, five hundred yuan, my heart moved, I took people home, put it on, everyone blamed him, said it was **, how did I get it home, and I have something to discuss with you in the future.

    I think this matter must be said to them, they can buy things outside, they can't bring strangers home, what if it's a bad guy and they are in danger?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think that parents must talk about them when they make mistakes, as children, that is, they must pay attention to the way they speak and the tone of their voices, and not yell at them, so that they are too disrespectful to their parents, and parents are not unreasonable people, and if they make the stakes clear, they will naturally understand.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    I think even if the parents make mistakes, we as children have to point out their mistakes, just like my parents, I don't know when I was keen on health care products, I spent 8,000 to buy a few boxes of health care products and gave them an electrified foot soaking bucket, I don't know how those salesmen captured their hearts, so that my parents were convinced, how I said it to no avail, and then not long after, the health care product sales store suddenly disappeared, at this time my parents realized that they were fooled, let me give them a good meal, I didn't listen to my own daughter's words, I believed them, and this time I got 10,000 yuan! Haven't bought supplements since I told them! Therefore, when parents make such mistakes, they must point out their mistakes, otherwise they will really fall deeper and deeper!

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