How to tactfully decline a request from someone you don t want to know to add friends

You can log in to WeChat and find the "Me" interface - after entering the interface, find and click "Settings" - click "Privacy", click "Add My Way" - and finally turn off the way you can add.

Hello, since you are more disgusted with this person you don't want to know, then just refuse, for this kind of dead-faced person, there is no need to be particularly polite, but give him a look that you are very good to talk to.

If the two of you are on an occasion at the same time, and he wants to add your friends face-to-face, you can say that I don't use WeChat, give me your mobile phone number, and when I use WeChat in the future, I can take the time to add your friends.

If it's on the Internet, just say I'm sorry, I rarely use WeChat, just call me directly if you have something, and then give him a harassment number. Or give me your ***, and I will add you as a friend when I use WeChat in the future.

If it is a friend, colleague, classmate, etc. that you need to contact in your work, life, or study, then it is still necessary to add it.

If it is a person who is irrelevant and has nothing to do with work, life, or study, then there are several ways.

It's just for study and work, and I don't chat after study and work, and apologize to the other party for being friendly.

Second, tell each other that their WeChat is all relatives and friends, basically do not add strangers, if we are more familiar with each other, after becoming friends, then add WeChat friends.

You don't have to refuse in person, how embarrassing it is! Anyway, it's his business to apply.,But it's your business to add or not.,You don't know each other.,I don't know when the next time we meet.,Anyway, don't add it if you can.,Just delete his request.。

Since you don't know someone, why should you take care of the other person's face.

Therefore, I don't think there's any need to be "tactful", just ignore the other party.

If you really can't do it, you can say: "I'm sorry, I don't want to know you!" "Just a single sentence, just choke back everything the other party wants to say, and that's OK.

The key is who the person you are rejecting, and the identity is different. In general, if you want to decide, you can say no.,If you want to be tactful, you can add sorry.,If you want to make an excuse, you can say that the work number is full and then apply for a new number.,Or what's more convenient to leave a ** contact and so on.。。。 One, it can be said that my girlfriend's boyfriend won't let me add WeChat casually, and he will check.

Three, my phone is out of battery, sorry.

In short, it is often difficult to reject someone, but if you must be determined to refuse, then you follow your inner feelings.

Many people know that WeChat plus friends, in fact, an account can only add 5000 friends, if you don't want to be added by others, just tell him that my number of friends is full, sorry, most people will know, in fact, there is nothing possible, but since you said so, it means that you don't want to add him, this is a more euphemistic way.

Now with the development of society and the progress of science and technology, a mobile phone can do a lot of things, and it is more convenient to contact each other, but what should I do when I encounter someone I don't want to add?

1. Tell the other party that you didn't bring your mobile phone out, leave a ** number for you, and then ask him to apply, it's your business to add it or not;

3. I'm sorry, my friend slot is full, and I can't add any more people;

I think if the other party has a little emotional intelligence, he can know that this is a euphemism, expressing that he doesn't want to add himself as a friend, and the homeopathy will avoid embarrassment!

I didn't tell the other party before I added that I rarely played with my mobile phone. After the other party adds it, just don't pass it. That's what I do, because a lot of people who are not familiar or don't want to know will waste time chatting once they add it, and it's rude not to chat, it's better to strangle it in the bud so as not to be more embarrassing in the future.

I usually tell them directly, I don't play WeChat or play, and I usually don't have any family members for these things that buckle me, because some of my friends designed them for me, and they are all playing, and at this time they should know my attitude of refusal, and they won't let me add friends anymore.

I have also encountered such a thing, I remember once a friend wanted to know me, so he added me WeChat, at that time I didn't know who this person was, Shen ** good friendship several times, I didn't pass, and then actually called me ** to say that he wanted to know me, let me add him WeChat, I said that the phone was broken and couldn't be added at all, and I would have time to talk about it later, so I politely rejected the other party.

I'm a straight-up person. He is 1.7 meters tall and weighs 110. It's a standard big tall girl.

My girlfriend and I once went to coffee when a stranger wanted to strike up a conversation with us and asked us to be friends.

I glanced at him and told him straight that I had a boyfriend and that he should not bother me.

1. Joke about the rejection method.

Reject others in a joking tone. For example: "Mom and Dad won't let me add other people's WeChat casually." Although this statement seems a little naïve, it clearly rejects others and avoids the awkward atmosphere after rejecting others.

2. Delay refusal law.

You can use the excuse to say that your mobile phone is in arrears or out of battery, and you can't add friends to each other for the time being, and you will have the opportunity to add WeChat in the future. Although this reason is a bit far-fetched, the other party will understand what he means at this time. This will also prevent the scene from becoming very embarrassing.

3. Euphemistic refusal law.

Be polite and show that you don't use WeChat much, or don't use WeChat to chat much, and apologize in time. In this way, the other party will immediately understand what he means, and it will also show his own politeness.

1. Set a limit on adding friends.

If you want others to add us, the best way is to set privacy, and use privacy directly - the way to add me - turn off the mobile phone number, ***, QQ number, etc., so that it is impossible for others to add to their WeChat.

2. Apply for a new number.

This number is only known to yourself, and you don't add others, so you only have your own WeChat. I have a trumpet, and basically no one will add it, mainly for some work needs. This way can also solve the problem of others adding to yourself.

1. An excuse for being busy at work.

I'm busy now, and I'll add it later when I have time. When someone asks you to scan the code and add WeChat, if you don't want to add it, you can use the excuse that there are more things to do now, you are busy with work, and you have the opportunity or time to add it in the future. 

Second, it is inconvenient to excuse it.

3. No excuses are allowed.

The nature of the work is special, and it is not allowed to add WeChat as a reason to refuse politely. The nature of the work is special, which is a good reason. Because there is a lot of work now, it is not allowed to add WeChat casually for reasons of confidentiality or destruction of the calendar. This reason is both reasonable and reasonable.

Fourth, I don't like excuses.

I don't like to add others to WeChat as a reason to politely refuse. There are also many people in life, who may be due to their personal hobbies or personality, in addition to family and necessary work contacts, are reluctant to chat with others on WeChat. It's personal freedom, and everyone understands it.

5. Excuses for mobile phone repair.

My phone is broken and is now being repaired. When someone asks you to add WeChat, you don't want to add it. You can excuse yourself by saying that your phone has always had a problem recently, and now it is being repaired, and you will add it after the phone is repaired.

Sixth, leave the ** number first.

Let the other party leave the ** number first, and add it when you have time. In the face of others graciously inviting you to add WeChat, when you don't want to add, you can ask the other party to leave the ** number first, saying that you will add WeChat when you have time. This method of euphemistic refusal is relatively appropriate and reasonable, and can be accepted by the other party.

There are many ways to refuse euphemistically if you don't want to add someone else's WeChat, which varies from person to person. No matter what kind of euphemistic method is used to refuse others to add WeChat, it will be very comfortable for others to be unhappy in their hearts, and some may even be resentful. The best way to do this is to respect each other, understand each other, and not force others to make things difficult.

The main purpose of adding WeChat is to facilitate contact and close feelings. The effect of two people meeting directly and communicating is no worse than WeChat contact. The loss of hurting feelings because of adding WeChat outweighs the loss.

If you don't want to add someone else's WeChat, you can tell others directly, it's inconvenient for you to add WeChat now. And you can also tell others that you are private, and you will not add others casually. You can even just find another topic to cross.

Let me give you a few specific suggestions.

1.First of all, if you don't want to add someone else's WeChat, you must be tactful when refusing, otherwise others will feel that you are a very difficult person to socialize. It can even offend people because of it.

Then when we refuse, we must also master the method. So you can directly tell the other party that it is inconvenient for you to add WeChat now. Because each of us actually has that kind of time when we have something at hand.

When you have something at hand yourself, that's when it's inconvenient for you to add WeChat. So when you tell others at this time that you have something at hand and it is inconvenient to add WeChat, others will feel very normal and have no objection to you as a person.

Because many people who work outside actually have two WeChats. One is a private WeChat, while the other is a work WeChat. Work WeChat is added to others casually, and private WeChat is used by one's own family and friends.

3.Then the best way is to just find a topic without talking about these things. Because when we're chatting, we talk about a lot of other topics.

When the other party adds you to WeChat, and you don't want to add him WeChat, then it is best for you to start a new topic directly, so that you can completely fork the matter and let the other party forget about it. When the other person suddenly brings it up again, you can continue to go back and forth. In this way, such embarrassment can be completely resolved.

1. Learn to reject others in a funny way to reject others in a joking way, which will not lead to too embarrassing atmosphere, if someone wants your WeChat, you can smile and say "My WeChat ran away from home, and I don't know where to go", although this way seems very clumsy, but the other party can basically understand your wishes, and the atmosphere is not too embarrassing.

2. Refuse to use white lies to generally ask others for your WeChat, most of them want to have emotional development with you. If you don't want to clear the chain, but you don't have any reason to say no, you can use a white lie, saying that you are no longer single, and you already have a boyfriend or girlfriend, the original intention of this practice is also to not hurt the self-esteem of others, which is more tactful than direct rejection.

3. Refuse others with procrastination to tell the other party that their mobile phones are out of battery or about to run out of power, and it is inconvenient to give the other party their own WeChat, although this way can be seen at a glance is lying, but the other party can understand your thoughts, and also understand that you are doing this to ease the atmosphere, and generally will not entangle you again.

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Here's how I think I think you can deliberately be cold when you meet, for example, when she greets you, you can just nod or smile; If you used to eat together, now you can make all kinds of excuses to refuse to eat with him.

After such a period of time, I am sure that those you don't want to be friends with will understand what you mean and stay away from you.

If they come to harass you again, you can just tell them: I have been in a bad mood recently, please let me be quiet for a while, please don't bother again.

If it's the other party to send a mobile phone message, it's even better, now there is a do not disturb function in the function settings, when the other party sends you a message a few times, you don't respond immediately or wait for a long time to respond or simply don't respond, over time, the other party will notice your attitude towards him, and will slowly alienate you.

In fact, sometimes as long as you are happy, you don't have to worry too much about other people's feelings, and it is not wrong to be selfish.

You have to know how to say no to the people around you, you can't satisfy your friends in everything, anyone has something he can't do, if you can say no when you need to, many people will think that you are good at solving things.

You can tell them that I've been in a bad mood lately and tell them not to bother for a while. Or find yourself something to do, such as exercising, and then ask them to come to you at the time you want to be more flexible.

But I suggest not to break off friendship with them, one more friend and one more way, maybe one day in the future, I will still need them, after all, it is easy to destroy friendship and difficult to make friends.

If it can help you, or like, thank you.