What to doI can t care less about my boyfriend s past

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is selfish, because I love too much, so I care a lot, and I'm afraid of losing, and it's normal to care a lot about your boyfriend's past, because you love him too much, but you have to think about it on the other hand, it's all in the past, don't think about it, the past won't come back, the important thing is now, no matter who he loved before, but now the person who is with him is you, so have confidence in yourself and believe in your boyfriend. Don't think too much, try to remove the net you have set up, relax yourself, boyfriend and girlfriend have to trust each other. Cherish the present.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's useless to be jealous. If you don't care about his past, that's not normal.

    Everyone will have a little secret. As long as he's genuinely good to you, you don't have to think about nerve-wracking things. And you've only been better for 2 months, maybe he hasn't come out of the shadow of the past, and I miss my former girlfriend too, and I was in a relationship with her for 3 years.

    Now I can only think about her silently. She's never going to come back, so I'm pretty good at my current girlfriend now.

    I believe that time will dilute the misunderstanding between you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I thought, yes, if it were me, I'd be very sad.

    But you can prove by your actions that your love is no less than anyone else's.

    When he really falls in love with you.

    He'll replace it with your ** or your song.

    Don't bring it up to your face.

    Let everything go as it should, at least don't mention it now, or he'll be disgusted.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It can be seen that you have no confidence in him, if you feel that he can't forget his former girlfriend and you care a lot, you talk to him about it, because many situations are not what you think, many times it is a small thing, and often a person thinks badly when he thinks wildly. He is good to you and cares about you, which proves that he has you in his heart, if you talk to him and care more about him, he will definitely be very touched.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    For everybody, there's always someone of the opposite sex that's memorable, whether it's a man or a woman.

    Maybe in the end, the person who walks on the red carpet is not the person you love the most, and it is not your favorite, but it is often the best, the most suitable for yourself, everyone has a past, let it pass when it is over, don't care too much, young people should look at the future.

    That's life, it's not perfect, there's a lot of contradictions and choices, and it's up to you to grasp and choose.

    Final blessings to you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Either you don't care about it, or you break up with him, your jealousy is so strong, it's yourself who is tired like this.

    Maybe it's not you who he loves the most, but it's him who you love the most?

    If it's him, he'll tolerate it.

    Love is unfair, whoever falls in love first loses.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He knows how to cherish the present, and you should give him emptiness.

    Just like you want to give yourself space, you can't guarantee that you won't go out of the wall.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    He wanted to pedal two boats.

    If he really loved you, he wouldn't do that.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone has their own past, and when you ask this question in your heart, you might as well think about it first: should you mind your past if you love Yuanfangfang?

    Furthermore, I think that the past has passed, and what you love is him as a person, and it is him who is with you now, so what does it matter if you are with those things in the past?

    Everyone we meet must have experienced something before we met.

    Of course, when choosing a partner, you still have to keep your eyes open, if the person you love has been irresponsible, liar, or has many bad habits, misconduct and other problems, it is better to think carefully.

    If you really love someone, you won't mind his or her past, in fact, all we should care about is whether his or her past affects the present and future of the two.

    No matter what a person has been through in the past, as long as you think that you want to be with him or with him, you should accept it calmly. When you're already together, you should forget about the past and let things go with the flow.

    In fact, if you love each other, you are reluctant to have a relationship with the present, and you are always entangled in the past, hesitate, turn over old accounts, and other irrational behaviors, which will only increase your troubles, and such feelings will not go long-term, because you have lost your happiness.

    Be open-minded, be brave, the past will be in the past, you can't erase history, but your present and future can be in your own hands. Everyone has their own past, and there are too many taboos about love, maybe you are right, but the reality is not as perfect as we think. No matter how generous a man is, you have instilled you in his past that belongs to a taboo, and it is impossible not to care.

    In fact, if you really love one, you will be good in the future, better than anything else, the past is yours, you can stay by yourself, not everyone will understand that time. Because that's something you've only experienced. It's not that not telling him about your past is distrust.

    He loves you and will not force you to talk about your past in the future.

    Treat the past, or rot in your heart.

    If you really want to go with him for the rest of your life, then you have to learn to accept it, so that you will live a happy life, you have been holding on to the past, and it is impossible to go far.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It depends on what that period of the past means to you, and what this person means to you, if you feel that the past is greater than the person himself, it is good to break up, this is a manifestation of insecurity, often communicate with the other party the true thoughts in the heart, and take the initiative to eliminate the unstable factors in the hearts of two people.

    If a trace of Rankai tells you quietly, it proves that he likes you very much, is unwilling to deceive you, and wants to be with you forever! Since you mind, don't be together, otherwise there will always be a pimple in your heart, and there will be a rift between the two, since you can't trust each other, let each other be free.

    In fact, everyone has a past, no matter what it was before, it can't be changed, and now mind his past, or because his performance doesn't make you completely reassured, but it also shows that there is his weight in your heart, but as for the status quo that you can't accept, you have to think about it yourself, what kind of leather mask you want more.

    Since you have decided to be with him, you have to accept his past, the past things that none of us can change, only the future and tomorrow can be changed. As long as he is good to you now, everything can start again, at the beginning of people, sex is not good. You treat each other with sincerity and believe that he is the same.

    If you care about each other's past very much, you shouldn't walk together, living together is also very painful, you have to treat it with a good attitude, everyone will have a past, that is, you can't think about it, if you can't let go, I think you will have a very hard time in the future.

    What is the point of people looking forward and always looking backwards? Who hasn't been in the past?

    If two people decide to go back together, the other person's past is not important, the important thing is that the person he loves now is you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, it doesn't matter if you have a past or not. The point is that there is no forgiveness if you don't forget the past. Everyone has a past and there is no way to change it.

    The ex, after all, is in the past, there is no need to care. Would you mind your boyfriend's ex because he was obsessed with his ex? If yes, it is recommended that you change your boyfriend.

    You can't get into his heart. The second thing, because you love him too much and are emotionally clean, you don't have an ex. For you, your current boyfriend is your first love.

    So, you have to think about it, or do it for a while, and see if you can come out of it. If you can, that's the best. Together, two people will build a happy love house.

    The third thing, I don't think there's any need to mind. The most important thing is to figure out if you mind if it's because your boyfriend is still connected and close to her, or if you just mind if the person exists. If your boyfriend is still in touch with her and has a close relationship, you can break up directly.

    If you care about the existence of this person, you have to reflect on it yourself. Fourth, if you love your boyfriend and don't want other women around him, then accept his past and accept his ex. But make him understand that accepting the past does not mean accepting that they were once involved.

    Be clear about your lower limit. If you care more about his ex than you love him, separate from him. Fifth, it is recommended to communicate with the other party once, firstly, to understand the other party's attitude, and secondly, to ease your emotions and express your true thoughts.

    If you are too sensitive just because you care too much about the other person, then you have to overcome it slowly, otherwise it will affect the relationship. If the other party still breaks off contact or has not let go of an old love, it is recommended to treat it coldly before considering. Letting go clearly is the better choice.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because everyone has a history, every year has a past, and if you are not perfect, how can you ask each other to be white. There will always be this and that mistake on the road of growth, there will always be this or that dirt, it is impossible to say that he will not make mistakes all the way to growth, and it is impossible for him to keep himself from making mistakes.

    A person's past will be closely related to his age, style of doing things, wisdom is not closely related, when the mind is immature, when the style of doing things is not formed, it is often easy to do some wrong things, but not because he has made mistakes, to care about his past, can not pass this hurdle.

    While caring about the past of others, I will also reflect on myself, after all, I am not a perfect person. Different people go through different things and different periods in order to make themselves more stable and more mature. As long as it is not a big mistake, as long as it is not a crime or a crime, then there is no need to worry about these pasts.

    Caring about other people's past is actually that you can't get along with yourself, because there is no way to change the past. In fact, there is a very good saying, people live in the breath, do not care about yesterday, do not look forward to tomorrow, but live today.

    Because there is no point in caring about yesterday, we have no way to change, we can't go through, and we can either accept or leave the irreversible and unchangeable things. If you can't make up your mind to leave, then why embarrass yourself and make yourself feel uncomfortable.

    Two people need to look to the future together, two people need to think about the future, and they also need to do a good job in the present. Two people get along together, the most important thing is whether they get along, whether they are happy at the moment, whether they have plans for the future, and whether they can enter the palace of marriage, which is the most important thing to think about and care about at the moment, rather than looking at his past and ignoring the current relationship, this is the end of the book, so I don't particularly care about his past.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you and your friends really love each other, you don't care about the past of your other half, because the past doesn't belong to me, although everyone will have an experience that makes them unbearable, but for me, if you really like someone, then I don't care about your other half's past. First of all, I must realize that the past only represents the past, not the present, what I should pay more attention to is whether two people can really accept each other in the process of getting along now, whether they can really accept each other, whether they can really accept this relationship, whether they can let each other find happiness and joy in the process of getting along, as long as these conditions are met, then I don't need to understand the past, I am not interested in knowing, or should let myself let go of the burden in my heart, To enjoy the life of the moment and enjoy the sweet love between two people at the moment. On the other hand, if you are too entangled in a relationship with your other half, the past, for the past has always been unable to let go, then it is difficult for two people to get along in the process of getting along with the real harmony, each other will produce a big knot in the heart, which is obviously not conducive to the development of feelings between two people, since the other half of the past is particularly concerned, the heart can not let go at all, then there is no need to start the relationship between the two people, Since you choose two people to be together, you should accept and tolerate each other, only in this way can you really make the relationship between two people last, and you can really let yourself experience happiness and joy from this relationship.

    As long as we are happy together, everyone will have a past.

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