My girlfriend is abroad and I can t give up my job, should I break up early?

Your girlfriend is going abroad, but you can't give up your job, and the two of you are about to start a long-distance relationship, and you start to think about whether the relationship should end early.

Brother, you're so negative! First of all, it's just that the distance between the two people is far away, and your relationship has not deteriorated or disappeared, so why should you consider breaking up and ending? I have always felt that the most important thing in love is to experience and enjoy the process, not just care about the final result, like youDo you think it's really worth it to worry about the future and give up the happiness in front of you?

Secondly, does it have to be a love that sticks together every day to be called love? I also read an article before, which said that two people were together in college, and then the girls went abroad, and the boys stayed in China to take the postgraduate examination, and then for various reasons, they started a four-year long-distance relationship, and finally both of them stood in front of each other with a better attitude, and finally stabilized in Beijing and entered the palace of marriage. Therefore, a better love is that two people are nourished in this love, get **, and then become a better version of themselves, believe me, don't think so much, take love as a driving force, two people work hard separately, don't let love become your fetters, this is the practice of the strong.

In the end, everything ends well, who says you will not survive, maybe the time of separation can also make you realize how important each other is, so,Enjoy the present and be optimistic and positive about the future, so that even if you are separated in the end, you will have no regrets, and you can move calmly towards a new life.

So ah,Big man, don't encounter some difficulties and changes in love, just think about retreating, escaping and giving up first, your girl, you still need you to give her a sense of security, you are her heart booster and reassuring needle,

I don't think we should break up. It's not like your friend is going abroad and not coming back, so I think I have to wait a little longer. After all, it is not easy for two people to fall in love.

I think it depends on the depth of the relationship between you, if you still love each other, then a long-distance relationship is okay, true love can overcome distance. If you feel that you don't have deep feelings for her, then make it clear to your girlfriend early and break up early.

If he goes abroad for a short time, then you have to wait for him, if he goes abroad and doesn't come back, then it's better to break up as soon as possible, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

If no one on either side can take a step back, then don't fall in love, love is to run in with each other and understand each other. Both of them have their own pursuits and can't go together, so why waste time!

I think it's better for you to break up at this time, because long-distance relationships are very painful, and your respective pursuits are different, so I guess you won't have any common language in the future.

I think you should break up, if your girlfriend is already planning to develop abroad and you can only develop at home, in fact, neither of you is willing to take a step for each other, then breaking up is the best choice.

In this case, I recommend breaking up early. As the saying goes, a long pain is better than a short pain, and two people will have a lot of conflicts in a long-distance relationship, and sooner or later they will break up.

Yes, in order to avoid both of you being hurt in the future, it is better to end the relationship earlier, because it is a foregone conclusion that your girlfriend will go abroad, and you can't do anything about it, so you can only cut through the mess quickly and let both parties get rid of it as soon as possible.

First of all, for this question, I think it is not necessary to give up going abroad for the sake of children, because we can also continue to study abroad to improve our ability, and if we give up going abroad for the sake of our girlfriend, we are also giving up an opportunity.

In fact, there are people around me who give up these opportunities because of love, so their final result is actually not very good, because they originally had the conditions and ability to go to a better place to study, but they chose a worse school for emotional problems, or they gave up this opportunity. These opportunities are very important to us, it is possible that once we give up, we will never meet them again, and opportunities are hard to find, so at this time, I think we should not give up going abroad for the sake of girlfriends.

What's more, if you say that a bad girlfriend can be changed, if you say that after you break up, then after we give up going abroad for him, we decide that there is no need for these people, so we might as well start from ourselves and seize this opportunity. What's more, after going abroad, it doesn't mean that we will break up, but to see if the relationship between the two partners can continue, which is actually a way to test our feelings. Because two people who really love each other will not have no way to go on because of a foreign country, they will definitely be able to overcome difficulties together.

At any time, we should not give up our own interests for the sake of feelings, that is to say, it is not a good practice to give up going abroad, and the opportunity to go abroad itself is also very rare, there may be people who have worked hard for a long time and have no way to study abroad and study abroad. When we get this opportunity, I don't think it's necessary for us to give it away not only if we don't really wash it, but also give it away. And when we come back from studying abroad, we will be able to have better living conditions and better material security for our girlfriends.

I don't think I should give up because going abroad can broaden my horizons and help me with future employment.

I don't think you should give up on improving yourself for any reason at any time, so it is not recommended to give up going abroad for the sake of your girlfriend.

If you really love her and want to be with her for the rest of your life, then don't go abroad, otherwise she will be very sad.

Never give up your future for anyone. Transport.

The people who can accompany you can overcome it together, no matter how big the problem is; Although the experience of studying abroad is not as good as in previous years, it can also broaden your horizons, so don't give up the opportunity to improve yourself.

Personally, I feel that you should go abroad for the following reasons.

du: 1, it is basically impossible for your girlfriend to stay in the dao domestic - 2, foreign is a version of environmental rights, in one.

In this environment, learning a language is definitely not a problem.

3. Going abroad itself is also a great opportunity to learn and experience, and how many people want to go abroad now have no chance.

Increasing experience and learning about humanities is exactly what you should do when you are young.

4. Although your girlfriend is rich - you don't mean that you have to live on her, you don't talk about this when you go abroad.

Self-reliance is sufficient.

5. Don't worry, after you go abroad, even if you can't mix abroad, if you have been to China, you can do it just because you have been abroad.

It's a good mix. This ensures that this is true.

In fact, to put it bluntly, if you are considered to have entered the past, you should be mentally prepared.

Filial piety. First, whether you are an only child or not, have you considered the issue of your parents' support in the future?

All the hard conditions abroad are very good, but from your description, the probability of taking your parents over in the future is very small.

The moon is the hometown of Ming, not to let you give up everything in front of you. It's about creating it all.

Do what you are sure of. I'd rather not do it if I'm not sure.

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It can be seen that you are a heavy emotional very recognized.

Du Zhen, zhi listen to your description, you and.

Dao your girlfriend is also very infallible feeling, then, if you are outside the power, then in addition to considering your feelings, but also consider your position, English is not it doesn't matter, you can make a plan to see how long you can make up for at least being able to carry out a day-to-day life, communication to lay down the past? I hope that our relationship is real life, only good planning, so that lasting love, even can not keep up with the family at home and abroad to cut off all contact, contact is much more convenient than in the past, they can take their family in the past, you are happy! Come on!

Dude, if you live for your girlfriend, then go for it.

If you want to live for your family, friends, and yourself, go ahead.

This has nothing to do with whether the relationship is good or not.

See that you are a very heavy feeling.

Du is also very serious about the relationship zhi, listen to your description, you and your girlfriend dao internal relationship is also very good, so if you go abroad, in addition to considering your feelings, you should also consider your own positioning, it doesn't matter if your English is not good, you can make a plan, see how long it will take to make up for at least daily communication life, and then what to do in the past? After the relationship is the real life, only good planning can make love last, and now even if you go abroad, you don't have to cut off all contact with your family, the contact is much more convenient than in the past, and you can also pick up your family in the future, I wish you happiness! Come on!

The golden nest and the silver nest are not as good as their own thatched nests. Bad English is the small thing, the key is what you can do. English is all about speaking, and everyone in the United States can speak it. Your parents can make you a state-owned enterprise, you are relying on your own parents, and your parents who have gone abroad are not our own backers.

Simplify the complex, you can't find the direction at all if you have more entanglements, life is a lot of times in bets, whether she can love you for a lifetime, whether you can love her for a lifetime is unknown. If you don't know English well, you can learn it, you can discuss with her about making a living, if you think you can get a job, go abroad with her, and go out into the world differently.

Don't go, there's no one who can't live without anyone. It feels like you've given up too much like this, it's a pity.

Look at yourself, the key is not to regret it, to take care of family and development, and the happiness of parents and yourself in the future.

To put it simply, there has been no result for seven years, what is the reason? Are you unsure or is she unsure? Do you have some doubts or something else?

Seven years is enough to fall in love, get married and have two children, and the two have already explained the problem before they get married. So, going abroad just makes things blow up.

Although you don't specify the specific reason, it seems to be a clear thing. Do you really feel the need to keep it? I can tell you responsibly that what is retained is only reluctance and the past, not your feelings.

In some cases, it may be true that if the old is not gone, there is no new one. The unsuitable will always pass, and the suitable may be doomed long ago. Maybe the next person you meet in this world is the most beautiful part of your life.

You should give up on the relationship and start over, because you can't wait for her, she has already given up on you, and no matter how hard you try, you can't get it back, so just give up and don't think so much.

When you feel like you've lost everything, you still have a lot of it. People who are sincere to you will care about you in their hearts and will never ignore them because they are busy; The love that really cares about you will hold you in the palm of your hand, and will never let you guess how it feels. If a relationship doesn't make you happy, doesn't make you a better and happier you, it's not worth it and give up.

Everyone will have their downs, but don't let it affect you to move forward, become a self that you like more, and then meet someone who doesn't need to please. If it's not worth it, you should give up, the key is can you really give up and let go? We often feel that we can bear the consequences of our decisions, but we can't let go of our hearts to end them.

Keep a dignity for yourself, don't want it if you don't get it, and have no pride to rely on. In fact, daring to give up a relationship requires not only courage, but also confidence.

Looking ahead, there are good people waiting for you, and if you're just unwilling, let yourself grow first.

Try your best to keep it, but if you can't give up, and be happy with your new life.

Give up, it's hard to have a long-distance relationship, maybe she found a more suitable one, it's not worth giving up all the districts to recover.

Break up or find a way to go abroad to find her.

If you lose time and distance, then break up. It was futile to go on.

Let go, start your new life, and love yourself.

Breaking up with her, after seven or eight years of relationship, I gave up when I said I would give up, and I didn't take you seriously at all.

I think, first of all, your idea is biased, don't think that trying to improve yourself is for her, because even if she returns to China and will not be with you again, you have nothing to lose, you have become a better man, this is your own business.

Second, she wants to study hard and doesn't want you to bother her (don't mind if I use the word annoyance). Either she won't find someone else, thinking that as long as she is in love, she will be delayed, or she is an excuse for rejecting you (that is, what she said to you before that she still likes you is perfunctory), in this case, you have no need to keep it.

Third, in fact, I am also going abroad next year, I personally feel that if I have a boyfriend, I will be more stable, alone in a foreign country, but there is a thought in my heart, but your girlfriend may be more independent, want to fly farther, in this case, you better go with the flow, as for her next husband said that you don't have to take it to heart, about the future, who knows!