The boy chasing me wants to AA system, is it appropriate? How do I explain this to him?

Since it is the man who pursues you, it means that he likes you, so do you like him or not, and if you oppose AA, you don't like him.

Then take the opportunity to say goodbye to him!

If you like him, then ask him why he wants AA!

If you ask clearly, there is no misunderstanding between the two.

Or I'll show you the whole process, I'll ask you to do it haha!!

You don't like to go out, he prefers to let you accompany you to pay back AA, this is a lot of money.

There is nothing inappropriate, it can only be said that he is very rational and does not spend money blindly, but it also shows that he is a little stingy, in the eyes of the Northeasterners.

I rely on chasing girls and AA, you need to pay more attention to this kind of man.。。。 I can't say it's bad, but I'm afraid it's Grande... You should know the story of a bowl of spicy hot.

I don't think there's anything wrong with the AA system.

But it's you who are being chased.

If you like it, accept it and don't care about what people on the outside world say.

If you don't like it, just say it, and you don't have to beat around the bush.

Yes, this is the guarantee that you will go further.

I don't think the AA system is a measure of whether you should agree to be with him.

Our family's education has always been to share the expenses with boys, don't accept gifts from others if you don't like them, and don't owe them anything. I also know a girl, when I meet a suitor, the one who comes does not refuse to accept all the orders, she feels that her time is also precious, and I should pay the corresponding price of simplicity and understand each other in this kind of relationship.

My boyfriend gave me a bag of puffs on my birthday when he was chasing me, and it was the same ...... I bought at the grain storeI didn't comfort myself with this patience and thought that I had eaten an alternative version of the macaron, which is also a girl's crispy breasts! Now we go out to play or eat, although we have never said AA or anything like that, but it has always been evenly shared, and I invited him for this meal and the next. Besides, he and I are in a different place, and every time he comes back, the cost of the journey is very high, and he pays for it.

Most of the money during college was given by parents, and no one should take their parents' money to squander.

Zweig had a saying, "She was too young to know all the gifts of fate, and she had already secretly marked **." I think the AA system is a symbol of equality between men and women, and it is a normal thing in a relationship. Of course, there is a sentence in Friends that says that all love that can't rise to money is unreliable, what I understand is to see how much he is willing to spend for you, if you think you like each other very much, appreciate each other, and think that he is a trustworthy person, then agree to be together!

I think the AA system is a symbol of equality between men and women, and it is a normal thing in a relationship. Of course, there is a sentence in Friends that says that all love that can't rise to money is unreliable, what I understand is to see how much he is willing to spend for you, if you think you like each other very much, appreciate each other, and think that he is a trustworthy person, then agree to be together!

The boy wants to pursue you, but the scum is now proposing to you to have a system in the future, I personally don't think you need to agree to his request, just make it clear to you when you are pursuing you, and if you want the AA system in the future, it means that in this boy's intimate money is the most important, and in the future, even if you are with him, there may be a lot of things, Du Chun does it to make you feel very annoyed, especially in terms of money, he will be very clear with you.

If there is a boy who wants to chase after you, then after proposing AA Hongnai, you shouldn't bother him, because he is a boy after all, after all, the AA system will make girls feel uncomfortable.

Look at what your boyfriend does, if he has the ability to make money, then I advise you to break up, if he is just a student, I suggest you cherish him, about the reason to envy the bend, first of all, he has the financial ability to aa, to prove that he doesn't care about you, his consciousness has been planned for the breakup, and then he is a college student who relies on his brother and parents to give him living expenses, if he is not very generous in other aspects of Jane.

It shouldn't be. I'm not a money worshipper, but I guess the banquet is that I will definitely see the sincerity of the boy before I answer Sun Zhaohail. In fact, if he wants to chase you, wait for him to chase you, why are you in such a hurry, and you can't agree or not.

If a boy wants to chase you, you propose the AA system later. I think as long as he truly loves you, you can first agree to his pursuit, and then try to date with each other, can they actually be together? Or do you want to see if you can really love each other?

Personally, I think that if a boy wants to chase you and proposes the AA system, then this kind of boy you should try to stay away from him, Sakura is suspicious because your future marriage is also AA system.

A man wants to chase you and bury the hole and propose the AA system, I think you better not agree to this man, if he even gives you these things to figure out, how will you get along in the future, right, anti-Pi Song is bent and you see it yourself, this is my personal advice.

First of all, I think such a guy is particularly sensible, or he still doesn't love you deep enough, so he put forward such words before dating.

A boy pursues you, but if you propose the silver qi AA system in the future, you'd better not agree, if it is said that when Cha Boqin gets married, he will lose the raising of the RV child and so on, it is very troublesome. This boy is too scheming.

My understanding is that he doesn't want to suffer and he doesn't want you to suffer, and all the expenses in the process of pursuing you are AA, and even if you fail, you don't have to pay too much. Iron Rooster.

I definitely don't like a boy chasing me because I think he's going to be a bit of a calculus. In fact, the culture of each country is different, but I am in China, and then I will accept the culture brought by my motherland that has been passed down for less than a thousand years, so I will not accept the man's constant emphasis and clear distinction, in going out on dates, all kinds of movies, eating, I will feel that going out with him is not interesting, will feel boring. Maybe many and most girls will think like this, and it doesn't mean that the boy has to pay, the important thing is that his attitude will make people feel very uncomfortable.

What I like is a comfortable relationship is to be able to come and go with me and you to come and go, and I don't have to be so clear every time. Because if a boy is very determined to agree with you, I will feel very boring to do this with him, will lose all interest, and then I don't want to continue to do something with him, and the next time I may meet and go out on a date, I won't agree again, so as long as there is a boy with a slightly higher emotional intelligence, he won't do this, because if this girl is more reliable, she won't always ask the boy to pay the full amount alone, he will feel that if they go out together this time, Maybe those boys and girls cry when they eat, and they can buy tickets, or buy movie tickets, or tickets to play, and everyone will feel that both parties have paid, and then they will feel very happy. <>

Usually this kind of chasing girls has to AA system.,Boys basically don't like girls.,And it's a bit annoying.。 Over time, many girls may not agree to go out with him, whether as a girlfriend or a friend, they don't like this kind of boy, so if you are this kind of boy, you must change this bad problem, because it is a bad habit for you to get along with other people, and it is also a shortcoming for you. <>

I hope that the boy will still be generous, and then the girl will not always take advantage of the boy, and there will definitely be a pay, but it may be a little less in terms of money, but if it is me, I will pay him almost the same, and then both parties will pay together, and then get in return.

Foreigners can do it, why can't you?

No, because the first image I had was that this person was stingy and unwilling to spend money for himself.

I don't like such boys, if you want to AA system when you fall in love, it's easy to estranged each other, and it's not interesting to fall in love at all.

No, I'm not trying to be cheap, I just think that such a boy has no gentlemanly demeanor, and it's not good to be too real and persistent.

For most people, it's better for boys to be generous, and if girls are willing to AA with you, it's of course very good, but it's strange that you force others to AA system.

I definitely don't like it, everything is AA, so the relationship should also be AA? This is certainly not possible. AA boys are not willing to pay for you, so they don't pay in the relationship, you pay alone, and you will be affected in the end.

No, because I think sometimes a gentleman will look like a gentleman when you have a treat, and of course as a girl, you can't let boys consume all the time, and sometimes the AA system is okay.

A boy who chases me for an AA system, I won't like it. Because if he is not even willing to spend money for you when he is in love, if he is so calculating, he will definitely be more stingy after marriage.

I don't like it, although the AA system is normal, but it is always uncomfortable for the man to bring it up, and he will feel that he is calculating, and he is too clear in his heart, such a person is not very popular.

Like. Nowadays, girls are more independent, and most of them will not let boys pay together, and the AA system will make boys respect women more and put women in a more important position in their hearts.

I really don't know what the subject is trying to explain to the other party, is it that he likes you, you don't like him, or you are interesting to him, or do you hate his AA system?

1.If you don't mean anything to the other person:

If that's the case, you can just eat and refuse him decisively. The AA system is better, so as not to owe him anything. Next time you invite back, please come and please go The relationship can't be broken.

If you really don't like the other person, keep your attitude, politely decline, and thank him for accompanying you to dinner.

2.If you are interested in the other person:

Since he is chasing you and inviting you to dinner, this has already shown his meaning to you, if you also like him, smile at him more, he is not a fool he will understand, so you don't need to explain anything to him specifically.

3.If you hate the AA system:

When he pursues you, he still wants the AA system to have a meal with you, and he will think about the AA system when he does anything with you in the future, and if you don't recognize the consumption concept of the AA system, then this man doesn't need you because this is his consumption concept, and it is difficult to change. I once saw this kind of strange thing on gossip Weibo, men and girlfriends have an AA system for eating, a travel AA system, and even an AA system for going out to open a room.

If you don't like this kind of Western-style romance, then whether you are interested in this person or not, he is not enough to be the object you want to get along with and spend your life with, then you don't need to explain anything to him, respect the other party's way, have a meal with him, and then let's make a decisive flash.

I don't know what you want to explain to the other person, no matter what you want to say, it's not actually the most important thing, think about whether the other person is the person you want, if so, get along well, if he is not, then you don't need to say much!

Explain it to him? What does that mean? Say: You chase me, invite me out to dinner, and ask me to spend money? Are you kidding? White wolf with empty gloves?

I don't think there's any need to explain anything.,Anyway, it's already out.,The meal has been eaten.,AA on AA.,After all, there's not much loss.,It's equivalent to spending money to improve the food.,But it's just this time.,Next time I believe he asks you again, you won't agree.。

Is this boy really, stupid? How can anyone chase girls like this? He refused to even invite him to dinner, it seems that he is destined to be single.

As a girl, you don't seem to care about this person, and you don't even know his temperament and character? I don't think it's possible for him to be known and "widely praised" if he was like this, right? If he made it clear that he wanted to pursue you, then he hadn't said anything before?

If you don't have any interest in him, I personally think that you shouldn't go to the appointment, after all, if there is no drama, you should just say it clearly, so as not to embarrass everyone.

Or is it just wishful thinking on your part that he's pursuing you? That guy never showed any intention of pursuing you? If that's the case, there's nothing to blame, it's normal for friends to go out to eat AA.

In any case, I think that if a guy really wants to pursue a girl, then the guy must have to pay for dinner, but there is no need for a girl to be surprised that she has to pay for herself, after all, you are not yet a family. It's just that if you really meet such a boy, then it's better to use this date to buy out this relationship that hasn't started yet, and there is no need for a next time.

Today I watched "Late Night Canteen", and I think what Hermes said to Elizabeth is actually quite right. It's not really about money, it's an attitude. Or it is a collision of ideological differences caused by the difference in ideas between the boy and you.

In fact, it's just a meal, you may not be able to afford him, and you may not lack this meal. That guy may really want to chase you, or he wants to die with you. But this also exposes one of his characteristics - rationality.

There is no doubt that this boy is very rational and is a master of financial management, or he likes you, but his thoughts, the culture he accepts is saying, if you like you, you have to give you enough respect, so you have to AA with you. Maybe in his heart, this way of dealing with it is the best.

Of course, when I say this, I rule out that he is a strange setting. Because at least he's AA, not asking you to pay. It's not like I've never seen such a guy - eating with a girl (the girl who is chasing) and making the girl pay, and it is a matter of course.

I really don't know if I'm chasing a fart like this.

And this kind of thing is not easy to say, because it is an established fact that he likes you, but his way of paying will definitely make you uncomfortable, and this method of payment also reflects many other problems, not only the gap between the concepts of the two sides, but also the outlook on life, and the concept of financial management.

Of course, if Mi doesn't like this boy, then it's better to do it, just don't say anything to him. Anyway, even if there is nothing wrong with AA, but in the hearts of many people, they also think that this is a symbol of the man's unreliability, so you say that it is not appropriate, and you say that this kind of performance is not quite in line with your appetite, there is no problem. After all, everyone has a different opinion.

You just say to him, "I don't think we're a good fit, so let's not be together." "It's not straightforward, but I think it might work.

Therefore, AA is just a payment method, and the difference between him is only what you want about that guy!