Both have a crush on each other, but say yes to be ordinary friends?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Feelings can't be rushed, and they can't be forced, since he has agreed to be ordinary friends with you, then you will start as ordinary friends, and after a long time, you will naturally have feelings.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Both have a crush on each other, but say yes to be ordinary friends? It's okay to be an ordinary friend. Ordinary friends have something to deal with, and they can do it slowly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This friend, since you like him so much, why do you want to be an ordinary friend, the object starts from liking, the opportunity must not be lost, the loss will not come again, don't give the opportunity to others, it is too late to regret, friends cherish the people in front of them.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I have a good impression of both of us, but because of some external conditions, you can't be together at all.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Both of you are a little conflicted. In fact, the two of them sat together and had a good chat. Make sure you both love each other. Don't procrastinate.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Although they both have a crush on each other, there may be one side. Still unwilling to accept the other party. Maybe you still haven't met the person you really like, so you propose to be an ordinary friend.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    We both have a good impression of each other, but if we say that we are ordinary friends, I don't think that's the case, if we both have feelings for each other and have a good impression of each other, we can continue to develop, be boyfriend and girlfriend, and then develop again. You can be a husband and wife.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although you have a good feeling for each other, but there is a lack of fate, so you can only be ordinary friends with each other, and maybe there is a chance, and it takes time to develop slowly.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Since you want to be an ordinary friend, then it's good to be an ordinary friend, it doesn't matter, you don't have to be together if you have a good feeling, there are more people you like, it's not that you have to be together with those you like.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    They both have a good impression of each other, but if they say that they are ordinary friends, then keep this relationship, and don't cross the thunder pool, otherwise it will bring some harm to each other.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Since you have a good feeling, you should be brave enough to say it, or he just treats you as the object of confiding.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is a layer of paper in the middle, no one wants to pierce it, if one party says it bluntly, it may not turn out to be an ordinary friend, and it will become a pair of lovers.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are some real reasons that you need to strengthen in communication, so that you can't help but be ordinary friends, but you don't know why, hopefully.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Be an ordinary friend, so that you can contact for a lifetime, and it is impossible to face a breakup, I think this is also a very correct choice, maybe it is really not suitable for the two of them to be lovers.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    That means that the relationship between the two of you has not reached a certain point, which is why it is like this.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think if we both have a good impression of each other, I think we can develop it further, don't say that it was good before, just do it? It can be further.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If two people have a good feeling, don't be in a hurry, contact slowly first, as long as there is fate, you don't care about this time.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If that's the case, it's probably the relationship between friends, and there is no relationship between men and women.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you have a relationship with a man, a woman will be hurt, and since you are afraid of getting hurt, then don't start any relationship easily.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    True love requires not only love, but also mutual insight into each other's inner world.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Since we both have a good feeling for each other, I think you can sleep for a while, and maybe you can be boyfriend and girlfriend.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There is nothing that cannot be solved with a glass of wine, and if one glass is not enough, then one glass after another will always have results.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you have a good feeling, why should you be an ordinary friend? Is there any obstacle or gap between you? Is it beyond the past?

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, this is also a way of chatting, and what people say is ordinary life, which is normal.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Friend, you are right, since I deserve to be an ordinary friend, it is okay.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then keep your promise and be a good friend for the rest of your life. Of course, the closer ones are also good friends.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let it be, start as ordinary friends first, and slowly develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, I think it's just that the two of you didn't pierce that piece of paper, as long as you pierce that piece of paper, the two of you will know what true love is.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Get along well, and the other party suddenly says to be good friends, why is this? In everyday life, when people express their feelings to someone they like, some responses are rejected in the name of "friends". They often say:

    Let's be friends. This is essentially a rejection of a romantic relationship, even if the phrase is wrapped in the sugar-coating of "being a friend and hail friend", it is essentially a refusal to develop a romantic relationship with you. Like any form of social exclusion, it can cause real psychological and even physical pain to people.

    2. At the same time, the two sides affirmed the contact within the "scope of acquaintance and friend relationship", in order to better interpersonal relations.

    To make a classification, people often interpret relationships that are neither relatives nor lovers as "friends". But the "friend" in this sentence may not be a real friend, but it affirms some kind of indescribable connection between your shouters.

    3.Some people choose to respond to the wishes of others with "or be friends", which may be due to two reasons: "refusal" is considered unkind and impolite due to stereotypical social etiquette.

    As an image management strategy, some people may choose to disguise their rejection "in the name of a friend". Another possible reason is that both parties will sincerely hope that the other party will be hurt less by themselves, despite the fact that the rejected party will still feel pain.

    4.After the other person says "be friends", no matter what the reason is, you need to draw a line with the other person and temporarily make friends with "what can't" and "can't". This clear personal boundary includes both mental and physical aspects.

    On a psychological level, people need to accept the setting of "friends". And understand from a friend's standards what they can expect, allow, and pay each other. At the physical level, people also need to distinguish what kind of physical contact is outside of their "friend category".

    For example, if you don't agree with the idea that "friends can have sex too," you shouldn't continue to have sex with each other under the condition of "being friends."

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Mainly due to the fact that there are some contradictions between two people in the process of getting along, and the lack of communication between the two sides, it will lead to Bizheng Kuanfang not wanting to be with you, or it is more appropriate to be friends with regret.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In this case, I think the other party is to get closer to you and be a better friend, such as a confidante, to bring the relationship between you and you closer, and to be more smiling is conducive to your future relationship and development.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I think it's very likely that the other person doesn't like you, or that it is more suitable for two people to be friends.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is a saying: Things gather like and people divide by groups.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    It depends on what kind of friend you're talking about.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's a must.. It's hard to find a soulmate.

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