What is it like to once love each other deeply, but now become the person they hate the most?

It feels really a pity, after all, two people have loved each other before, and then all of a sudden the relationship is very bad like an enemy, how embarrassing. I can't describe that feeling, but I feel that it is a pity that it is very special. Even if two people can't be lovers, they can be friends, why bother to become enemies.

Do you think back to how good you used to be to your lover, and you feel that you are particularly slapped in the face, how can you like such a person? <>

In real life, I haven't seen a few couples who became enemies after breaking up, but there are many celebrity couples in the entertainment industry who used to love each other very much, but unfortunately in the end they really became enemies, and they are the kind of enemies who are unwilling to forgive for several lifetimes. But if you feel like this, this person will leave a deeper imprint in your heart, then you won't remember him for the rest of your life. Compared with He Jie and He Ziming, I didn't hear the news that He Jie was married at the beginning, and she was married to such an unknown man.

It wasn't until I watched a variety show that the couple participated in, anyway, I felt that He Ziming really loved He Jie at that time, and the relationship between the two of them.

I remember very clearly, once when I was home from vacation, I saw He Jie and He Ziming on Weibo on the hot search. I was curious at the time, but what I didn't expect was that they actually divorced. I don't particularly understand why they divorced, and you said that you would leave, He Ziming was really funny and began to scold He Jie frantically on Weibo, lest the world be chaotic, and I don't know what An's heart is.

I think it's really embarrassing for husband and wife to make a fuss like this, and it's okay to not get along with each other in the future, and they have to become enemies.

can't be said to be the most hated, but it's also the person who is the least to see now.

It's been a long time since we broke up, but he is still in my life, and his ghost is still lingering. Now that we think about it, it was a peaceful breakup, and he did a fill-in-the-blank choice than me, and that topic was one-on-one without a choice. We, the text message content is only two words.

I replied to him with one more symbol, break up? Like an innocuous topic, I started to shed tears when I put down my phone, pretending to be peaceful on the surface, but I was hysterical in my heart, and if it wasn't for the support of daily life, everyone would be sad. <>

Before the exam question came out, he had already done a good job of foreshadowing, and he didn't reply to the usual text messages at first, without one after another, without those warm little love words, and without deliberately creating a chance encounter, so I didn't have to choose. I hate him, he drove me to peace quietly, I hate him for asserting himself in a few words, I hate him in my best first love, silent as gold, I hate him, run away from me....I hate him for hurting me because of that special girlfriend, I hate him for not knowing right and wrong, I hate him for asking me to meet because of his girlfriend's pranks, I hate him for breaking up and coming back to bother me, I hate him for flickering in my life. What I hate more about him is that he didn't take care of himself and stayed away from me.

I think most of the topics are what to do if your boyfriend has an ex who is impressive, and have you ever asked your ex what he thinks. I'm his ex, I can only ask them, the quarrel is because the relationship is not solid, don't have anything to do with me, I'm not happy about it, after the breakup, I deleted his QQ, and the mobile phone number was also deleted, although I remember it badly, but I never dialed it again.

If you can't stay together, don't disturb each other's lives anymore.

I think it's a heart-rending feeling, after all, the person I used to love the most, and now I am resented by the person I love the most, and I must be very sad in my heart, and this feeling is even more uncomfortable than others.

From love to hate, it hurts to the heart. I've been with my ex for five years, and I've fed my best youth to the dog, and I really feel unworthy for myself, so much so that I feel sick to mention him now.

From love to hate, since they have loved each other, why hurt each other so much, if you can't be the person you love the most, then let it go and have a better time with each other.

Yes, I think everyone has a person who loves and hates, just because they give too much in the relationship, but they are hurt in the relationship, then they will naturally hate this person. Of course, not all love will become the final thing, because there are also many people who are really inappropriate, so they choose to break up peacefully, which is also a lot. But those who have betrayed their feelings or have been hurt in their feelings will definitely hate out of love.

To be honest, I've experienced this myself, because my boyfriend and I are in our first love, and the two of us have been together for many, many years, and we've been in love together since we were in school. Although I also know that early love is very wrong and envious, I really can't control my emotions at that time. The two of us were together for many, many years, and he betrayed me, so it was a great disservice to me.

I used to love this person very much, and then I hated this person very much, although I know that in the end of a relationship, both parties are responsible, but I can accept that he doesn't love me, but I can't accept that he betrayed me. So I'm destined to hate him, and I'm sure there are a lot of people who think like that, because no one can accept betrayal, no one can accept that their partner is unfaithful. Because when we loved someone, we really paid a lot of blood, and we hoped to be able to be with him, but we didn't expect to face such an ending.

I think it's normal to hate him, because in this relationship, I really gave and was really hurt. If you were seriously hurt when you were in a relationship with someone, but in the end your brother didn't hate him, I don't think it's likely. If someone tells you something like that, I think it's all a lie, and it can't be realized, because we can't be so generous.

<> many people have said such a thing, that is, "the depth of love, the cut of hate", in fact, I don't think this statement is particularly reasonable, but often many people have different cognitions, he thinks that only if he has loved someone, then he will have a deeper hatred for each other, and this is also reflected in every hail song of a relationship that ends without a problem, so many netizens ask: Will everyone have someone who has changed from love to hate? What do you think?

In my view, I think that each of us must have had a reason to change from love to hate, but this kind of hatred is often not hatred, but more remorse. Life is so long, each of us will definitely have a few more failed relationships, but among these failed relationships, some of us have given our sincerity but have been deceived by others, some are just because two people do not agree and end up in a bad direction, and some have really been deeply hurt by early concealment, so there is also hatred.

But the reason for these feelings is nothing more than the inability to let go of this relationship in a real way, and it is also impossible to change our thoughts about a person. Especially in the process of falling in love, we often choose to fall in love basically hoping that they can accompany us and help us dispel loneliness, so we choose to fall in love. But in these processes, we can't control our emotions well, so we can't take the right way to face the difficulties that may be encountered in the process of falling in love, but it is easy to make normal relationships fail, and even breakups become very embarrassing.

But one thing we should know is that this relationship has passed, even if you have a certain amount of resentment or even remorse, we should also learn to let go, so that we can start a new life, including feelings. It is more through one's understanding of this relationship to gain more material that is conducive to the sublimation of one's thoughts, so that Yuan Zheng can better let himself succeed in the next relationship.

I don't think all people will change from love to hate, generally pants tremble and break up peacefully, when they are together, they all pay each other and lose their hearts, and it is not easy to hate from love. However, if it is because of a unilateral change of heart or betrayal, then it is more likely that love will bury hatred.

Personally, I don't think everyone has someone who has gone from love to hate, but I think the change from love to hate also shows that you have really loved.

I think everyone will have it, because not everyone can go to the end with their first love, and maybe people with poor vision will experience such a thing.

Not necessarily, it depends.

For example, sometimes when you feel disappointed, you don't like it, but you just don't like it, not necessarily hate, you just feel a little annoying. Not necessarily to the point of hate.

Usually everyone says that there is as much love as there is, but most of them are unwilling, and it is best to let go, neither joy nor sadness, just like a stranger.

In fact, many people like to say, if you don't love me, please tell me directly. In reality, there are really not many people who can do it, not loving someone is not a moment, it is not a moment when you look at each other's faces and suddenly find, oh my God, I don't love you anymore. It is repeated exhaustion, it is a bit of measurement and comparison, it is entanglement and pulling, it is trying to convince oneself but to no avail.

How many people can have the courage to make decisions until they are forced to do so. love is so hard!

Love) Yi pillow Hanxiang, love) but broken intestines.

No) with life and death, and again) see in vain. ...

If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, In fact, it was just a meeting in the water.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything was just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, and when everything disappeared, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit defeat, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future. Curled up in the corner, waiting for the wound to heal, experiencing the freedom of daring to love, hate, and loss.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful. In the days after letting go, I will always be unhappy, and I will inexplicably cry for a song, a play, or even a sentence, always feel that the sky is dark, the clouds are gray, and always feel that the meaning of life has been lost. However, a friend told me

You have nothing to lose, you just go back to the days before you knew him. I am relieved, just like fireworks can't hang in the sky forever, as long as they have been brilliant, why bother with days without fireworks? We are all ordinary Hongchen men and women, unable to earn the love network of love and hate, and unable to escape the whirlpool of love and being loved.

After the heartbreak and sadness, there is endless loneliness. Lonely? Perhaps.

But savoring the chic after loneliness, thinking about the happiness other than him, thinking about no longer having to rack your brains to guess his mind, will you breathe a sigh of relief and feel a little more relaxed? Is it really let go? I can face him calmly, even though there is a faint indescribable sourness in my heart, but I no longer cry, crying because a person's memory is in my heart, no matter what, it will not be dispersed.

There was such a song. Are you afraid of loving me? 》：

Are you afraid of loving me, have you forgotten your tears? The heart is waiting for the rain to fall, and the tears have reached the cheeks; Are you afraid of loving me, isn't your heart dead? One step is nothing more than a cliff.

I asked myself again and again, "Am I scared of loving you?" "The answer is yes, I'm afraid, I'm really afraid.

The heart is so fragile that it can no longer withstand the torture of pain into the bone marrow, so I let you go, and let myself have a way to live, condensing you into a painting, deeply engraved in my mind, looking, thinking, but I will no longer be the person in the painting. You can better appreciate the beauty of the painting when you are outside the painting, isn't it? Shake hands vigorously and say sincerely:

Goodbye, cherish! Turn your head and walk away freely, letting the back be deeply engraved in your mind. When you can recall the moments of your past with a relieved mind, you can appreciate the beauty of letting go.

God let me meet you at the wrong time, and I cried; However, God is fair. Would you cry if, he asked me to leave you at the right time?

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, it really requires both parties to be careful.

Patience and careful management can be maintained.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, consideration and trust.

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.

Here's a little trick:

If you want to make it last, you need to keep it fresh from time to time, that is, you need to find some fatal "killers" to deal with each other's impatience, long-term sensory numbness, aesthetic fatigue, etc., and can quickly deepen and thicken the earliest feelings in love at the fastest speed, and transform them into "compound" feelings that are like family affection and depend on each other. Only love with this kind of affection is the strongest and most long-lasting, and it will become more and more durable and unbreakable with the passage of time.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life.