I fell in love with a netizen I didn t meet, what should I do!

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Can't face it! A person you don't know, can you guarantee that he is not married? Don't have a girlfriend?

    Do you want to be his second wife? When he is a third party? It's better not to meet.

    If something happens, you can't regret it. Now the girl is just to pay attention.。。 Don't regret it then.

    There's no hurry

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's best to know his real situation first, and girls don't go out with strangers too casually! If it's too easy for him to get you, he won't cherish it.

    Besides, people who are often drunk will be so good that they will go?

    It's better to be careful.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I feel that the Internet is still unrealistic, although he said that he inquired about you clearly, but do you know him? It's easy to be deceived, persuade you to find someone by your side, you understand, maybe true love is by your side, you just lack the ...... to discover

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's see what he looks like first (you can use it on the Internet**, or you can ask him to send a** to show you, in short, you have to know what he looks like first), it's impossible to associate with a person who doesn't know what he looks like! See how much older he is than you? It's up to you to see if you're suitable.

    Also, does he really like you, if your age difference is not particularly far, he likes you, you like him, it's not impossible for you to be together, aren't there a lot of successful online dating? Hehe.........

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How could it be, I haven't seen it, and you're in love with him just by these few words.

    No, it's just a good feeling, you know? Or can you try to ask him about it?

    And then I felt that he was talking to him, but he had to think deeply, and everything had to be thought through his brain.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A lot of young people like online dating! Get to know him personally, then try out the date through reality, preferably in a public place!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You can recognize him as a big brother.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you don't want to be a second son, don't provoke.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Take a sister to him. If you also like him and love him, then go and meet him yourself. There's nothing to be afraid of when you meet a friend, let alone someone you like. /

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Summary. Hello dear! <>

    I'm glad to answer for you: netizens don't like me if they don't meet I don't need to think so, everyone has their own preferences, and not meeting doesn't mean that they don't like you, you can get to know them more, understand their preferences, and establish a good relationship.

    Netizens don't like me if they don't meet.

    The day before yesterday, I told him that Li Hu would delete each other. He said that friends understand that it is not okay to take your time? I said that I didn't want to be a friend and waste my time, and I wanted to get along with him, and he said that my friend should understand first, is it a refusal to swim and disturb the sails? I haven't met him for a month and a half, hello, dear! <>

    I'm glad to answer for you: netizens don't like to see each other I don't need to think so, everyone has their own preferences, so that if you don't meet, it doesn't mean that they don't like you, you can learn more about them, understand their preferences, and establish a good relationship.

    He may not be sure enough whether he likes you or not.

    Because of the quarrel these days.

    Why are you quarrelling?

    Do we like each other? Kiss.

    The other party doesn't want to cut off contact with you, they just want to start as a friend.

    How could he not want to break off the sock service with me, why did he refuse to get along with me? He said to be friends first to understand, I don't think he is an excuse, if you are friends first to understand, you should talk to me more, enjoy life to ** understand, right, but he didn't tell me. How is it possible to understand?

    I said that I didn't want to be a friend and wasted it, and I wanted to get along with him, and he said to be friends first, and I felt that he was rejecting me.

    Yes, also a kind of rejection.

    But he doesn't want to get along with you so quickly.

    Dear, how far have you been chatting with each other?

    If he hates you, he won't tell you to start as a friend.

    Saying that I don't trust him and doubt him, he says he doesn't like not trusting.

    That means he doesn't think you're getting along yet.

    This could also be an excuse, are you guys in a long-distance relationship?

    If you don't trust, why don't you block me?

    Because he doesn't want to disconnect with you yet.

    It's just not to the stage of getting along.

    But there is still hesitation in my heart.

    I want to get along with him, if you don't like me, harassing him and hitting ** will block him, right? But I harassed him, he replied to my message, saying that he was at work, he said that he had gone to work many times, I don't know if there was any hope of waxing, the day before yesterday he said that he would meet and fight next month, yesterday he called the bureau and now quarreled, I don't know if he will come.

    If he wants to be friends with you, he won't block you.

    If you quarrel now, he won't come.

    At the very least, you have to maintain a good relationship, and it's best to meet him so that you can better judge what his concerns are.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1.Relationships are built in different ways: Relationships are often built between netizens through the internet, and they may already have a deep emotional connection, but this connection is difficult to sustain in real life.

    Therefore, in real life, netizens may not be able to find common topics or establish the same interests, and they may not be able to communicate as easily as they can on the Internet.

    2.No experience in face-to-face communication: Since netizens often connect through the internet, they may not have much experience with face-to-face communication, which can cause them to feel embarrassed or uncomfortable in real life.

    3.Differences between real life and the virtual world: Communication on the Internet may be easier and more self-balancing than in real life.

    When netizens meet, they may find that there is a big difference between real life and the virtual world, which can cause them to feel uncomfortable or confused.

    4.Personality differences: Although netizens may have developed a deep emotional connection on the internet, in real life, they may find that there are significant differences in each other's personalities and ways of behaving. This difference may cause them to be unable to form deep relationships or friendships.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, first determine whether you are really in love with netizens.

    If you really like a netizen you haven't seen before, then the new one is this kind of performance, expecting to chat and talk to him every day, thinking about what he's doing every day, thinking about him every day, thinking about him, I don't know if the other party will be thinking about himself. What he eats, what he does every day, etc. If this is the case, then you may fall in love with this netizen you have never met.

    Third, agree on a place for each other to meet.

    In the process of meeting, you can have a comprehensive and in-depth understanding of each other, and then determine whether you are really in love with this netizen, if the two of you fall in love with each other, then you can go on with the relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend, but it must be noted that after the first meeting, you must not make deviant behavior. It's good for both parties.

    Only sincere dedication will make the other party accept it wholeheartedly. As the old saying goes, affection stops at courtesy, and this is exactly what it says. Of course, the current society is an open era, but in the end, in order to protect oneself, only when you recognize each other can you give yourself to each other.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When you feel that you like a netizen you have never met, you must keep your mind clear at this time, you may like the feeling of caring about you, not that person, if you must have a result with this netizen, my advice is: don't believe what the netizen says. In this world where the information age is so advanced, no matter what kind of person we are, we should be vigilant and not be gullible to others.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's just your delusion, because the care he gives you when you're lonely and lost makes you feel particularly secure, so you put all your feelings on him, so you feel like you're in love with him.

    Because you don't know his age, his appearance, his life, and you don't know his essence, you are just strangers across the screen, he may just be the sustenance of your feelings, not that you really like him.

    I believe you can see a lot of online dating girls being deceived on TV, just because they are naïve and simple, thinking that they met true love on the Internet, and they also ran to meet netizens, either the other party is a lewd old uncle, or the other party is a scumbag, and he shushes all the girls and asks for warmth, and he abandons you when he feels that there is no freshness with you.

    After all, everything on the Internet is virtual, too much is unreal, don't easily believe what people on the Internet say, and learn to protect yourself.

    We can talk more with real friends, so that we will not pin our feelings on the Internet, don't lock ourselves in a person's world, after all, you live in reality, when you really encounter difficulties, only real friends can help you, you can seek a little comfort from netizens, but don't put all your hopes on netizens, especially girls, don't be too active, like a person must remain reserved, to know how to love yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Online dating is actually a big hole, deceiving many ignorant and emotionally ignorant girls. You can be friends with people on the Internet, but not lovers. If you like it, don't take it too seriously.

    Don't try to switch from online dating. Because you don't know how much danger is hidden here. How many girls because of those so-called online"Boyfriend"Cheating money and sex.

    It is recommended that you disconnect from him and don't wait until things happen to an irreversible state and then regret why you want to go online dating. You're not so ugly that everyone is angry, why don't you find a boyfriend in real life.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You fall in love with a netizen you haven't met before, what can you do?

    Maybe you're just empty, lonely and cold, you're just lonely, so this netizen is just the person you imagine: he can shush you and ask for warmth, he can care about your every move, and he is considerate to you.

    However, you must know that language is different from real life, let alone for this kind of netizen who has never met before! You see those ** writers, who have set an example for us, and even written themselves as our inner idols. However, in the real world, are you sure you have met people who are as perfect as they portray in their words?

    Words, just what do we want to do in our hearts? This netizen of yours may really want to be such a warm man in his heart, so he appropriately expressed his inner thoughts with words. And you, the silly girl, have become his audience.

    Even in order to ensure the effect of the story, you substitute yourself as the heroine into this "fairy tale", which is really ridiculous.

    So, girl, wake up and get back to real life!

    Think about the bad again, girl, are you sure this netizen is a man? If he's a male, are you sure he's a handsome young guy? Or you don't care about age and looks, are you sure he's not a bad guy?

    Girl, for the sake of your own safety, you should give up this idea decisively!

    Finally, no matter what, I wish you an early exit from the web.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I think this matter, or don't be too hasty, because after all, you and this netizen have not met, and then the Internet is very virtual, not to say that all online dating is a lie, but I think that judging from most of the stories I heard, or the results of friends around me who have such similar things, I think it is better to be careful, not too lax, that is, to reveal everything to others.

    But as a tempting word, after all, it is a netizen, across the Internet, who knows what kind of person is on the other end of the network? It's still better to understand each other's minds. If you want to meet at this time, I think the first thing to do is to choose a particularly suitable occasion, that is, you must choose to meet in a crowded place, such as a large shopping mall, or a large restaurant, such as KFC, etc., because in these places with more people, the chance of some bad things happening is still relatively small.

    Then the second is personal privacy, that is, don't say that because two people can talk better, and then get rid of your own details, because for virtual things, for ourselves, we must have a sense of protection of "not afraid of whatever, afraid of 10,000".

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In my opinion, if you are not too far away, it is better to meet you, is it that you see the light and die? If it's too far away, I feel like it's okay, and I don't think you necessarily like you, maybe it's just a dependence, and I think it might be a delusion that you've generated.

    I have always held a dissupportive attitude towards this kind of liking for netizens, because many people have not figured it out that he actually doesn't like this netizen at all, he just relies on him too much, and he is not the majority of people who rely on him too much! At least not to rely too much! The reason why we will feel like him when chatting with netizens in our class is that you will naturally chat with her every day, and you will talk to him about anything, and if he often accompanies you, it will make you have the illusion of liking him, but in fact, liking and relying are still different.

    Think we're going to like your netizens easily! If you are a netizen who talks to you every day and chats with you every day, you will be particularly easy to like him, because you will talk to him about anything, and after chatting for a few days, you will habitually tell her everything that happens around you, in my opinion, it is just a habit, habit does not mean liking, I think each of us should distinguish the difference between habit and like.

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