The custom of obtaining a marriage certificate in rural areas, the custom of marriage in rural areas

The man and the woman are drinking at home, and the man drives the wedding car to pick up the woman in the morning.

Marriage customs in rural China vary slightly depending on region and ethnicity, but typically include the following:

Proposal: The man or his relatives go to the woman's home to propose marriage, expressing their intention to marry the woman. The woman's family usually arranges tea and asks the man to kowtow to the woman's parents to show their sincerity.

Engagement: The man gives the bride price and dowry to the woman's family and signs a marriage contract. The bride price includes items such as silver, silk, and ornaments, while the bride price includes foods such as pigs, chickens, and fish.

Wedding: On the wedding day, the man brings his parents and relatives and friends to the woman's home to pick up the bride, and a series of wedding ceremonies are carried out during the process of picking up the bride.

Wedding: The wedding will be held at the man's home or the home of both parents, including passing through the door, serving tea, handing over a glass of wine, visiting the church, etc. At the wedding, the couple wears a traditional wedding dress and gown and accepts blessings and gifts from the guests.

Toast: The couple and both parents should toast the guests to express their gratitude and blessings.

Post-marriage gifts: After marriage, the man's family will give gifts to the woman's family to express gratitude and respect.

These are some of the common rural marriage customs, but the details and rituals may vary slightly depending on the region and ethnicity.

Weddings are an extremely important part of folk culture. Because most people only get married once in their lifetime, they want their wedding to be unique and creative. Although the format and process of weddings are now gradually westernized, that is, the man wears a suit and a bow tie, and the woman wears a white gauze skirt and holds a gift flower, and finally the two take the oath to kiss and exchange rings in the presence of the priest.

However, there are still some traditional marriage customs and etiquette in today's Chinese land, and today, the author will talk to you about the traditional marriage customs reported by ethnic minorities. Marriage, because of the different cultural customs in each place, there will naturally be regional differences in marriage customs, so the marriage customs in the countryside are compared with those in the city, and some interesting rural marriage customs are worth seeing.

1. After the groom arrives at the bride's house, the bride's parents will sit with the groom for a while, and then the bride's sister and sister-in-law will appear on the stage, start to ask for red envelopes, and agree on the price of the noodles, which is generally negotiated in advance. When the wedding noodles begin, the groom should eat them quickly, and the bride's family will quickly grab them. The implication is to win the rich, so the two parties will try their best to grab the happy face.

Under normal circumstances, the groom can only eat one bite, and the noodles are robbed.

Second, after eating the wedding noodles with the opening fee, the groom comes to the bride's door, and the bride does not open the door, and if you want to open the door, you have to take a red envelope. Of course, these red envelopes are all requested by the bride's family.

3. Door lock fee When the groom enters the house, the bride's parents have already locked the door, and if you want to marry the bride back, you have to pay the door lock fee, not give a red envelope, and do not open the door. Some clever grooms will arrange in advance for the Seeping Savages to hold the gate with their hands and not let them lock it.

Fourth, three cannons When the groom has almost taken out the red envelope, the bride should get on the sedan chair, but the groom must put enough three cannons, and the firecrackers are longer than the other, so that the bride can get on the sedan chair.

Fifth, if you don't go back, you can't go back to the road when you get married, which means that the husband and wife don't go back.

Sixth, grab the red quilt after the hole room On the night of the cave room, the groom and the bride will grab the only red quilt, and whoever grabs it will have the final say in the future.

My hometown is a rural village full of rustic atmosphere, and the marriage customs here are very interesting and impressive.

Here are a few of the marriage customs I've introduced::

1.The "hole room" before the wedding

In my hometown, the pre-wedding "cave room" is a very interesting custom, which is usually done in the bride's house, where the groom and his best man need to enter the bride's bedroom in various interesting ways, such as climbing the window, climbing over the wall, etc. Once in the bedroom, the groomsmen will hide the bride and let the groom look for her. During this process, the groomsmen will constantly create all kinds of jokes and pranks to make the groom feel embarrassed and funny.

Finally, after the groom finds the bride, they will go out together and start the formal wedding ceremony just early.

2.Wedding car procession.

In my hometown, the wedding car procession at the time of marriage is also a very interesting custom.

The bride and groom will sit in a luxurious wedding car, while the other vehicles will follow. These vehicles are usually very beautifully decorated, such as with streamers, garlands, balloons, and so on. During the driving of the convoy, the people on the bus will constantly set off fireworks and firecrackers, creating a very lively atmosphere.

Sometimes, the motorcade will stop and let the bride and groom get off the bus and dance with passers-by, which is very funny.

3."Grab red envelopes" at weddings

In my hometown, "grabbing red envelopes" when getting married is also a very interesting custom.

At the wedding, the bride and groom will put some red envelopes on the table, and the guests of the wedding banquet can go and grab these red envelopes. In this process, everyone will scramble to grab the red envelope, and sometimes there will be some funny scenes. Finally, those who grab the red envelopes will get some small gifts, such as candy, small toys, and so on.

4."Drinking a glass of wine" at the wedding

In my hometown, it is also a very interesting custom to "drink a cup of wine and make a megabird" when getting married.

At weddings, the bride and groom each pick up a glass of wine, then exchange glasses and drink each other's wine. During this process, the bride and groom usually drink very happily, and the other guests will also drink, creating a very lively atmosphere.

Overall, the marriage customs in my hometown are very interesting and impressive.

Legal analysis: Collect it at the marriage registration authority where one of the men and women has a household registration. The marriage registration authority generally refers to the Civil Affairs Bureau.

According to the relevant provisions, when a mainland resident marries, both the man and the woman shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to complete the marriage registration.

Legal basis: Article 4 of the Regulations on the Administration of Marriage Registration provides that when a mainland resident marries a woman, both the man and the woman shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to complete the marriage registration.

Where a Chinese citizen marries a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident marries a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the marriage registration.

Marriage: Usually the man asks the matchmaker to send the matchmaker, and the gift is sent to the post, which has the man's birthday on it. After the woman receives the post, she combines it with the woman's eight characters and calculates. If the harmony is to reply to the simple promise, it is called the permission post, which is regarded as a formal marriage.

Choosing auspiciousness: that is, the man asks the woman for a marriage date. First ask Mr. Yin and Yang to calculate the auspicious day, avoid a single day, obscure day to bend, still double moon and double day, with the flower festival and Laba Festival the days are the most.

After choosing, write the wedding day on red paper, and the gift will be sent to the woman by the matchmaker. If the woman has no objection, the parties will start to prepare for the marriage.

Preparation for marriage: The man builds a new house and decorates the interior, and the woman buys a dowry. The dowry is divided into full marriage and half marriage.

The whole marryer has four sets of boxes and clothes, which means prosperity in the four seasons; Half-married is divided into two sets, symbolizing pairs. Most of the middle-sized families are married to the full-length family, and the majority of the peasant households are half-married. The rich have a super dowry, and they are extremely luxurious.

One or two days before the auspicious day, the man prepares a big gift and sends it to the woman's home, which contains large meat, chickens, geese, clothes, etc.