My boyfriend is poor at home, and I don t agree with us being together, so I went to the police stat

It's all come to this point, what else is there to say?

Like your adoptive parents, are you afraid that if you marry a daughter, do you have to collect some child support? 18-year-old 10,000 yuan a year, should receive 180,000 yuan, ask your boyfriend to pay, hehe......

The power of choice is always in your hands, unless you don't love him, and it's not your parents who marry him, why be so pedantic, to eliminate the troubles of his parents' family shows your sincerity, and you yourself have to make it clear with your guy to draw a clear line about the three chapters of the law, after all, you are not a child.

Don't listen to the 1021342464 of ignorance downstairs.

I think she must be the devil, and if she can't eat grapes, she can't eat grapes, which is really obscene.

Are you just afraid because of the small problems of the cost of living? Hahaha.

Laugh off the big tooth ......

Resolutely support you to overcome difficulties and climb the Great Wall.

No matter how holy the lilies were, they could not escape the sad ...... of being beaten down in the dirt by the rainNo matter how beautiful the tulip is, it can't escape the flower language ...... death

Everything has already become a certainty, at the moment of your birth, when your biological parents left you, everything has already written the ending for you, no matter how painful you struggle in the process of ending this, in the end you can't escape the shackles of fate

As your name suggests, the heart is like water and let it be? Otherwise, it will only add unnecessary troubles ...... to yourself

That's what I said, but if I were you, maybe I'd leave your boyfriend and ......It's not that I'm tempting you to leave your boyfriend, it's just that if you really get along with your boyfriend, it will be very bitter in the future, no matter how good your boyfriend is, and no matter what preparations you are for. Reality is reality, if you are together and have a child, do you know how difficult it is to raise a child now? If you don't talk too much in a month, you have to pay at least 1,500 yuan?

If you are in a big city, you will get about 2000, which is still a small amount, do you want to eat? Want to get dressed? Where to live?

Hehe, think about ...... yourself

When you meet me, we are also fated, and I hope I can be an opportunity for you to change your life......Goodbye, little girl! Hey hey

It is not a problem for men to be poor, it depends on whether men are unwilling to accept poverty. Go home with your boyfriend and talk to your parents about your plans, your plans, and your long-term plans for the next 5 or 10 years. Explain your determination and guarantee your happiness.

The family just wants you to be happy, and only when they see that you are happy will you get just and blessings.

Alas, your parents are also for you to live a better life, which is not wrong, you say that your boyfriend loves you and is motivated. It's harder, and if it's my daughter, I won't agree to be honest, I can't help you, it's up to you.

The two of you make as much money as you can in other places, the more the better, so much better than living away from your parents! Your parents know that you have the ability to support yourself and are very determined to be together, so you won't insist on opposing it, come on!

I think we should stick to it. True love can't be measured by money, and the lotus root supports you, girl.

The main thing is not to look at you yet.

You go back and talk to your parents.

If you really can't do it, you will pretend to be separated from your boyfriend.

Let your parents chill for a while.

Think of another way. Now everyone is so excited, it's not easy to solve it.

Summary. Hello dear, the man's parents are against you being together, and you can work with your boyfriend to convince his family to agree that you are together. Some couples insist on their feelings, they will slowly persuade their family members to agree to them being together, and the family members also slowly understand the woman's character, words and deeds through daily interactions, and slowly accept such feelings from the heart.

Through daily interactions, let the other party's family know more about you, so that they can recognize you [more than heart] [heart].

My boyfriend's family is against us being together + he doesn't dare to come to me + what should I do.

Hello dear, the man's parents are against you being together, and you can work with your boyfriend to convince his family to agree that you are together. Some couples insist on their feelings, they will slowly persuade their family members to agree to them being together, and the family members also slowly understand the woman's character, words and deeds through daily interactions, and slowly accept such feelings from the heart. Through daily interactions, let the other party's family know more about you, so that they can recognize you [more than heart] [heart].

Let your boyfriend communicate more with his parents, so that his parents know the depth of your relationship

We are in a long-distance relationship, he is in Hebei, and I am in Kunming.

Do you know the reasons for the opposition.

I know that it's far away, and then I say that my mom can't move, and I don't want to go to their side, my mom.

And then he said, I'm afraid that his son will be under a lot of pressure in the future, and we have so much money to do if we have a child.

Let the man communicate with his parents, and truly love someone, he will love her for who she is, not for the money, fame and status attached to her. Love makes people brave and makes people desperate to break through all difficulties and obstacles, instead of racking their brains to make excuses for their withdrawal.

Although money is very important, marriage is for love, and the matter of money can be done by two people together

And told him that he would work hard to improve himself and reduce the burden on his other half.

His grandmother was going to live or die, and asked him to go back and not let him be on my side, and then his mother told him, "Let's cut off contact between the two of us, and said that my family has a big burden, and what will my mother do in the future, and there will be more places to ask for money in the future, and my mother will not want to go to their side, and then it will be far away."

What do boyfriends think, whether they want to listen to the family arrangement or stick to being together.

If the boy insists on being together, he should be responsible for explaining to his parents that although this relationship is not easy, the two are willing to work hard to make life better.

I'm afraid of his grandmother.

We can face the rest all the time, and now it's just waiting for me to go to the city, but I don't know if it's worth it.

The old man is like this, he doesn't want to go far away, and he is responsible for convincing his parents to do it

If he dares to break up with me on this ground, I will only think that he doesn't love me anymore. More money and less money can be solved through hard work, and it is not something that cannot be intervened by human resources such as birth, old age, sickness and death. As long as two people have the same belief and enough confidence to be able to share weal and woe in the days to come, why not struggle.

Boys who really like you will have a sense of responsibility, will want to give you a better life to work hard, and will be self-motivated, instead of feeling that it is not suitable for you because of their own poor conditions, and then want to break up with you, this is a manifestation of selfishness and irresponsibility, not to mention anything else, when you really experience this step of marriage, you will know how uncomfortable this irresponsible situation is for you, so it is recommended to take a good look at your boyfriend from an objective point of view, after all, his thoughts are very dangerous!

So according to his logic, if he wants to break up, will he die alone? In fact, he doesn't, so replacing the next one will solve the problem of poverty? Finding a rich girl can solve this.

I feel that this problem hurts my IQ, so if I am poor, I will make money quickly, and if I don't like it, I will say it directly.

Because he doesn't love you enough! Poverty is an excuse for a scumbag, and he keeps saying that he is afraid that you will suffer, be tired, and can't afford to wait, that's all false. If he really loves you, will he let you go?

If he really loves you, you will become the motivation for his efforts, he will try to make your life better and better, he will try to shorten the time you wait, men are not afraid of poverty, women are not afraid of going through that bumpy period together, they are afraid that he will take poverty for granted, he can not work hard, and he can empty the reason for the white wolf.

Knowing that he is poor and afraid of dragging you down, then he can't bear to let others drag you down. A man with such low self-esteem, what do you think of. For a man in his early twenties, no one in this world is richer than you, this is the most energetic age of your life, you are actually afraid of poverty, just like Ma Yun said

I don't know how much I get paid the same" is not particularly sarcastic.

I think this guy is very good to you, don't break up with him. Because he doesn't want you to suffer with him, you also have to know how to cherish it.

Then break up. He has realized that your family is different, and this is also a good way to stop wasting your feelings and let you find a better one.

I think this boy is very good, because his family is poor, so he is afraid that you will suffer with him, so he wants to break up with you, but I think as long as the two of you are very happy and happy together, it is not a problem for the man's family to be poor.

This boy must love you very much, he doesn't want you to struggle with him, I hope you can find a good condition, you must refuse him.

You tell him that as long as he can become better and better and can create a better future for you, you don't really mind the conditions at his home.

At this time, you need to give him some self-confidence, so that he feels that your life with him can be changed by his efforts. Don't put too much pressure on him, let him relax.

You should tell him that you don't care, that his family is poor, as long as he works hard. In the future, you can make your own money, buy a house, buy a car.

You have to tell him that you don't care about his wealth and poverty, but about his people, and you have to tell him that you love him very much.

You tell him that you don't really care about this, and now that you have no money at home, it doesn't matter, the two of you can work together and believe in your ability.

In fact, your parents are not disagreeing, they are not worried about handing you over to him, not two people like it, you know, although love is heavy, it is inseparable from bread. It seems that your parents love you very much, and you are also a good daughter of filial piety.

If you really like each other and want to be together, there's only one way, and that's to work together. You can encourage him to get him a job, even if it's ordinary, tell him to take his time, and tell him that you believe he can do it. No parent would bear to hand over their daughter to someone who has nothing to do and is not motivated.

Self-motivation is not blindly whimsical, it is to be pieced together bit by bit. If he works harder, your parents will be pleased, looking for a job, it doesn't need to be good, at the beginning, as long as you are willing to work hard.

Also, you have to change, for example, this is an example, you don't know how to do housework, but you start to learn to do it slowly. And let your parents see that you're because of him. You're using facts to prove that when you're together, you're only going to get better and better.

You're working together.

Then take advantage of the good mood of your parents to say something about your boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally, pick a typical one, highlight his advantages, such as responsibility, self-motivation, filial piety, love, stability, etc.

I believe that as long as you both work hard for this relationship, your parents will slowly accept it.

In the end, everyone is happy, you can sell together as you wish, and your boyfriend is willing to work hard, which means that there is security in the future, and your parents can rest assured.

You now have at least 2 guarantees, one: your feelings. Two: In fact, the hearts of parents are the most softened. They just want you to have a good time. You can prove it to them.

It's better to listen to your parents' opinions, after all, your parents are from the past, and they will have more experience and see people more accurately.

Distance and poverty are not problems, the key depends on whether you want to be with him or not, everything else is secondary, your parents are just worried that you will suffer if you marry in the past, and they want you to find a better condition so that you will not suffer.

First of all, it depends on the relationship between you, if he is good enough for you and very self-motivated, I think you can stick to it, maybe this boyfriend is a potential stock.

You have two problems to solve:

If you love him, you can prove your determination to your parents with your actions, and believe that when they know your determination, they will not stop you.

Second, your personal problems. If you believe that you love Him, He has qualities worthy of your love for a lifetime. Then choose him, because everyone's life is really short.

If you look down on material things after many years, then you will suffer for the rest of your life for the original choice, or to put it mildly, regret for a lifetime. But if you're a material woman, and you're not an amorous woman, then you can find someone rich.

The key is that when you choose, you are sure that if you put it low in your heart, you will be sad if you can't let it go, and whether this kind of low will accompany you for a lifetime, and whether you can bear it. Know yourself!

Think twice!

Top-performing stocks are the best. However, potential stocks cannot be ruled out. Right.

Your boyfriend as long as he has potential. Look, look at the present. Let your boyfriend show off his abilities and talents, and let your parents see your boyfriend's potential and strengths.

Increase your bargaining chips with your parents.