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You're going to get used to it, don't you want to do everything you can't get used to in the future?
For example, after giving birth, you don't want BB to disturb your sleep and leave her and him aside to take care of others?
You will get used to it, believe in yourself, and you must get used to it ...
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I can't accept it, although you just said that sleeping is separate, everything else is normal, but the process of sleeping is also a process for couples to express their emotions, you can hug each other, or watch each other sleep. Wake up right next to each other. That's also a kind of happiness.
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It's a normal guy who can't accept it...
If you love him, adapt to him, after all, it's a lifetime.
ps: I've heard that Little Japan has this kind of separate room sleeping method...
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,..Probably no one will accept it.
I'm a girl, and my favorite thing is to wake up in my husband's arms every morning and give him a kiss. On the contrary, so is my husband.
So, the two of them are not together to do that, not to say anything, but they are very happy to sleep in each other's arms.
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Yes, because to love your wife is to respect her.
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No, I don't know what other people think, but if it hurts you a lot, I think it's okay at first, but it's not necessarily after a long time.
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Your home is Shaolin Temple. You go to the nunnery.
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Either way, it's unacceptable, hehe.
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Sleeping in separate beds after marriage is a bit weird. But it can't be said that it is abnormal! After all, everyone's habits are different.
Now it's called a girlfriend, that is, not married. I believe that your girlfriend will not make this request for no reason, you should ask the reason, whether it is because you are snoring too loudly, or sleeping too domineering, or if she has something unspeakable about herself. Don't make a fuss about yourself just yetAsking the reason and communicating well is the best way.
The sooner this kind of thing is clarified, the better, after all, if you are really married, it seems unrealistic to sleep in separate beds. It's really hard to judge whether it's normal or not.
It's much better for your girlfriend to be able to say this one before marriage than to get married quietly. At least if the other party insists on it, and you really can't compromise and accept it, you can choose to break up.
Of course, if you just want to get married, feel acceptable. You can also wait until after marriage to study the reasons slowly. In short, one's own random guessing is the next step. It's better for two people to communicate openly and honestly.
After all, we are not parties, the relationship between you has reached that level, and we don't know what preferences and habits you have between each other, and it seems unauthentic to give you advice indiscriminately.
At least now everything is a matter for the two of you, and after you get married, it's a family. So be cautious. But asking us here is not normal, as if it is more about gaining recognition than advice.
Because when you asked this question, you already felt that your girlfriend's request was not normal. Anyway, I still told you what I thought, and it was up to you how to decide in the end. Fate is destined, don't be too entangled.
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From a personal point of view, this is not normal, because after getting married, two people will live together and will think about having a baby. The reason why she proposed to sleep in separate beds may be to avoid contact with you, so how can you live like this? I have seen a lot of people who sleep in separate beds are couples who quarrel or elderly people who are afraid of disturbing each other and sleep in separate beds, which is not conducive to the cultivation of young couples' feelings, so I think it is abnormal.
If this happens, you have to actively communicate with your girlfriend, after all, not everyone will consider splitting the bed all at once, and there must be a reason why she wants to sleep in the separate bed. If she doesn't tell you why, and doesn't want to sleep in the same bed with you, I suggest you think again.
Marriage is a major event in a person's life, as the saying goes, "a hundred years of repair can be crossed by the same boat, and a thousand years of repair can be slept together", so the person next to his pillow must be the person who has the most fate and is closest to him. Your girlfriend proposes to sleep in a separate bed with you, this is not right, husband and wife can share a bed and exchange the income of the day, comfort each other and keep each other warm, this is the state that husband and wife should have.
Let's say that your girlfriend and you may sleep in a separate bed for the following reasons: 1. I don't want to have sex with you. Second, I don't like you. Then you have to think more about these two.
1. If you don't want to have sex, you have to communicate with your wife, some people may be afraid of the first time, or they may have had some trauma before, and then there are some things she doesn't want you to know. Excluding bad situations, if you can stick to a sexless life, you can still be together.
Second, she doesn't like you, some girls may yearn for a kind of love, but the reality is that they can only marry money, so they may like your money and don't want to be a real couple with you.
So the above are some of my views on sleeping in separate beds, I think it is incorrect, when encountering three different views, we must learn to communicate with each other, and only after understanding can we know whether we can continue to be together.
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This is certainly not normal. After getting married, it is necessary for two people to experience life together and bear everything together, including sleeping in the same bed. If you sleep in separate beds, it only means that a rift is starting to form between you.
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