If your girlfriend is in love with your best friend, what would be the first thing you would do?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's because of this, let's have a good chat together, say it clearly, don't embarrass everyone, don't say it will only make everyone's hearts sad, you can't do anything, if you make it clear, everything will be fine! Don't be afraid, be brave and do it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forget him, I wish them happiness, as long as the person you like can be happy, it is the greatest happiness, and liking him is not to take him for yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you can't just give up, maybe you didn't do something well.

    If people are really hard-hearted, then I think you can bless them. After all, they are all friends, so it won't be particularly embarrassing to meet in the future.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Bless them? I guess you can't do it.

    I can't do it.

    At most, I'll lose two friends.

    I won't bless them either.

    Because they betrayed me.

    Why should I bless them.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Love him and make him happy, isn't it.

    If you hate him, it proves that you don't love him anymore.

    Because that's not true love.

    If you don't love him anymore, why should you hate him?

    So let's see what you think about it first.

    If you can let go.

    Just bless them from the bottom of my heart.

    As long as they can be happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Is the person you love happy? If she's happy, you should be happy for her too! It may be that you are against your heart, but love is giving. At least you have paid for love, and you will not regret it at any time!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This kind of thing has happened to me before, I only did one thing, quietly walked away, persuaded my good friends to be with him, silently blessed them, because I don't want to see him unhappy, love someone, as long as he is happy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Leave her silently! And I wish them happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Invite them to dinner!

    How good this is! Say whatever you want when the time comes!

    Say what a man should say!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Bless them? It's ridiculous, I'm not that great, and that friend of yours is not a good thing, give him a slap and resolutely say: "I'm really blind to know you in my life, and tm buddy, get out!" ”

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Think about how much you are inferior to him, and then beat him up and continue to be good friends.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you really love her, then let her go, and bless them as long as she feels that she can be happy with that man.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I won't bless them, I won't hate them, I may still love that person, if I save the relationship between us, I am willing to forgive him, if not, I will slowly forget about both of them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If that's the case, I'll go to my good friends first, and if the raw rice is ready, I'll bless them

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I can't say that I don't care about this kind of thing, and I feel very sad no matter how I say it.

    But things will always pass, and there is no need to think too much about such friends and women in your heart.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Yesterday's emotional equation was played out on this topic, and as a result, you will never have friendship again, because your friend has chosen between love and friendship! ~

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to thank your friend. Let you recognize the true face of that woman so early...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm angry, but I have to face reality.

    Only bless them behind their backs.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Go to them. You can't be a useless man.

    I don't want to find a partner in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    It doesn't matter, for such a couple of men and women are not worth it, I have had such an experience.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be relaxed, love is free.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If she really loves him more than you do, you should let her go.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I can't bless them, I can't do it, I will fall out.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Don't be a woman like this, you should drink to celebrate.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If it's all hard to say, what if it's true?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Excuse me!

    What do you think! It's a prostitute to teach you. Bet. Drink. Blowing a friend is important or a caring for you. A wholehearted girlfriend is important?..

    Ask me again! >

    What do you think! It is the one who will lend a hand to help you no matter what difficulties you encounter. When you go in the wrong direction in life, it's important to be dedicated to leading you back to regular friends. Or one that will only ask you to spend money on things. It's important to have a girlfriend who comes and goes when you call ?..

    If it's a really good, really important friend (girlfriend).So how could he put you in a dilemma between the two!Friend.

    In our lives, we will always meet such a ghost: in front of him, you will expose all your flaws: vulnerability, ignorance, innocence, impulsiveness, not too confident, too confident.

    They will also reveal their truest feelings: like, hate, loss, confusion, fear, happiness, sadness, love.

    Maybe you can hide it well in front of others, but you can never escape his eyes That fish, that is, your lifelong friend, the real love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), worried about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, When you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, a real love person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (her) wants, you will be happy when you see the person you love happy, you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, a real love person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's hard to say about this thing, and there are generally several situations.

    Generally speaking, there are three kinds of friendship that are the most important in a person's life, family, friendship and love.

    Whether it is friendship and love, when it develops to the extreme, it will evolve into family affection.

    Especially a girlfriend, if you want to live with her for the rest of your life, it will definitely eventually evolve into a family relationship. But friendship can rarely evolve into family affection.

    You spend most of your life with your other half, and the other half evolved from your girlfriend, and there can be no doubt.

    However, a person without friends is also tragic for a lifetime.

    Therefore, it is best to properly handle the relationship between the two, and pay attention to the balance when getting along with good friends, especially friends of the opposite sex. With your girlfriend, you have to trust each other.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    All important. A good friend is your security outside, and a girlfriend is a soothing soul. Having both of these is where the skill of making friends lies.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    A sensible girlfriend will make you feel that both are important, but it won't embarrass you.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    If my friend asks, I think my best friend is important, and if my boyfriend asks, I think my girlfriend is more important.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    A girlfriend is the only one, but a friend is a lifelong one, and if the girlfriend develops into a lover in the future, of course the girlfriend is important. Otherwise, you'll feel that your friends are more important.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I feel that the question is relative. Compare a little more neutral statement. It should be that both friends and girlfriends are important.

    Don't offend your friend, but you won't upset your girlfriend, if your girlfriend has to choose between the two, you can tell her privately. Friends and you are important, but you are the most important. If.

    If your girlfriend is still vexatious at this time, you can consider breaking up. Because your girlfriend is not an empathetic, reasonable person.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's all about what's important.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Look at the landlord, this problem is always necessary!

    For example, I ask you whether it is more important to eat or sleep. What will happen to you?

    Undoubtedly, without food, you will starve, and without sleep you will die of sleep. Both are equally important and go hand in hand. Eat well and sleep well, and you will have a healthy body.

    A girlfriend is also essentially an integral part of a friend. It's just that a girlfriend has the potential to turn into a loved one. If you don't have a girlfriend, you can't talk about marriage and start a family; Without ordinary friends, you are alone, lonely, helpless, and unable to move an inch.

    There is no inevitable conflict between girlfriends and ordinary friends. If you don't handle it well, since you offend your girlfriend, it's easy to lose your friends; Handled well, you have both the love of your girlfriend and the sincere friendship of ordinary friends. There is only a question of the ability to coordinate and balance, and there is no more important problem.

    What does the landlord think?

    Happy landlord!

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Friends and girlfriends can be found again if they are gone, but some friends who have a good relationship may be really gone if they are gone. Don't do things that don't cost you too much.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    I also agree that friends are important, you can make up for your girlfriend's loss, and I'm afraid you'll never see your good friend if she loses.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Of course, it's friends, and now there are too many people who value color and ignore friends.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    What about in your heart? Friendship and love are two different things, friends are chatting together, playing cards, bragging, nonsense, when they lose them, they are so lonely, love, many people say that love is holy, and now it is running away with others without money! In short, I'm on the side of friendship, what a love,!

    Don't be so naïve, the world has changed.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Personal opinions: Friends are important.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Whoever is really good to you, that is the person you need.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It varies from person to person, and I choose a girlfriend. Because friends can continue to make friends, but a girlfriend you love may only come once in a lifetime.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It depends on whether you value love or righteousness, if you are more affectionate, choose a girlfriend, if you are more righteous, choose a friend!

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    If your friend is really good to you, he won't mind if you value his girlfriend, and similarly, if your girlfriend really loves you, he won't mind if you value his girlfriend. (Of course, there needs to be a bit of a balance between that).

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Everyone has a different opinion.

    Friends are the spice of life and the indispensable encourager and companion outside.

    And the girlfriend will be the wife of her in the future, the person who will live with her parents after a hundred years, the family affection of the sublimation of love, the only person who can rely on and trust without friends by her side, and the person who can accompany her for a lifetime if her friends can't do it.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In life, family, love, and friendship are our indispensable feelings.

    Love is someone who gives you happiness in your future life, and friendship is someone who helps you when you are lost.

    True love does not affect friendship, and true friendship does not affect love.

    Family, love, and friendship are closely linked.

    That's why it's all important.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Personally, I think.

    Girlfriend loves you very much.

    It's a good fit for you It's definitely a girlfriend if it's all about the same depending on your choice, there's no answer to this question

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Actually, both are very important in your mind, or you wouldn't have asked this question.

    You say, yes?

    Your girlfriend is the person you love and the person who loves you, and the two of you may work together for a lifetime, will be your future wife, in short, will accompany you for a long time.

    You must not give it away.

    Friends are the ones in your life who help you when you are in trouble and accompany you when you are happy (a girlfriend can sometimes do that).

    If you have problems or concerns, you can tell a friend about them and he will help you solve them.

    It is also an equally important person.

    In short, both are extremely important, and I believe that you are a personable man, and you will handle the relationship between your girlfriend and your friends, they are indispensable.

    Otherwise, your life will lose its meaning.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Nourishing love is never about time, time is just about nourishing feelings! Nourishment love is the feeling! It is impossible to live without friends in the future, is it really for love to betray friendship?

    A world without friendship is like a pool without fish! And without love is like a fish without a pool! If that love is really important to you, then he "She" must also lie in you!

    He "her" doesn't interfere with your friendship back! "She" will support you.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Both are important, but they have their own priorities at different times, for example, you can be with your girlfriend every day if you are fine, but if your friend has a birthday, or something happens, you should focus on your friend. The opposite is true. There is no conflict or contradiction between them.

    Both are the most important and joyful parts of your life.

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