I m not complaining about anything, but I m really unhappy with my current life

People have to adapt to society, not society to adapt to you. So you're going to learn to fit in. It's okay if you don't study well, do you think about how hard you studied yourself?

If you study hard and your grades are still not good, it doesn't matter, do you feel that your ability has improved? Sometimes the exam is just a surface, the key is whether you can or not. I didn't do well in exams either, I'm not discouraged, I think I did my best.

Interpersonal relationships are not good, think about what the reason is, if you are humble and sincere to get along with people, I think there will be a lot of friends. In the third year, you should consider your goals and directions, if you want to continue studying, you must study hard, and I believe that you will get something from your efforts. If you want to integrate into society as soon as possible, you need to think about what you plan to do and plan your career future.

I think you mainly lack self-confidence, you have to believe in yourself, if you don't trust yourself, look down on yourself, how can others care about you.

At first glance, it is a long time of idleness, which produces a sense of confusion and crisis. In your spare time, you can work part-time or participate in club activities, get in touch with outsiders, and exercise. People, only by breaking through will they grow.

Congratulations, you already have the basic qualities to be a great man. He was the same old man as you were back then.

First, stop all your worries right now. Find out what to have fun about your day before going to bed, say "yes" to yourself when you wake up, look in the mirror and smile at yourself when you comb your hair, and treat everything with the utmost enthusiasm! Do this every day, and after a long time, you will naturally know what you are going to do.

It's good to work, you can only look for direction in your work.

Wait a few more years and you'll know how stupid you are now.

Knowing that he has a lot of problems to learn and improve, he is still wasting his years here, reading more books, learning more, and getting in touch with the society more.

Dear, youth is capital, you are wasting your youth...

If you are dissatisfied with reality, if you can't change, try to adapt, study hard, work hard, and don't learn well, you have to find a career that adapts to yourself and you like to do, you have to start from small things, you can't be high or low, as long as you like it, you will be able to do a good job, the premise is that you must be serious, you can't do a good job, because you have to live, you have to support your family in the future, you have to endure hardship, there will be sweetness, bad interpersonal relationships are related to your character, be generous, open-minded, There are many people who are stronger than themselves, and at the same time, you must see that there are many people who are not as good as themselves, no matter what you do in the future, you must be enthusiastic and sincere to your friends, you must be serious and responsible for your career, and you must be strict with yourself, and when you get out of the fog, you will see the palace of success, self-change will be difficult, you will encounter a lot of problems, you must believe that you must persevere.

It's okay to change these bad things!

Think about what you want to do in the future, and then try to enrich yourself and develop in this area, and slowly you will feel very good.

There are reasons for complaining about your dissatisfaction with other people's lives, first, you have to reflect on yourself whether your personality is unsatisfactory and stingy? Susceptible? or introverted and not good at communicating with others; Second, it is you who are dissatisfied with reality, and the attitude of the people around you towards you makes you feel that you are hurt, and then you complain; Third, complaining is actually a kind of escape, it is an escape that you have not done well, you are complaining about others, and at the same time you are complaining about yourself; In the end, it may be that your life is too monotonous and boring to make you feel like life!

People who rarely complain are generally more cheerful and lively, generous, kind, helpful, righteous, he gives people a sense of vitality, very young and sunny, such people are healthier physically and mentally, and it is easier to get along with others. So to not complain, 1Don't think too much, don't complain, live simply, open your heart, don't make simple things complicated, but make complex things simple; 2.

Be generous and tolerant, learn to tolerate others, people are mutual, learn to give; 3.Work hard in life, read more books, broaden your horizons, and enrich your life; 4.When there is a problem, first find your own reasons, complaining will not solve the problem, but will make the problem more complicated, you just need to try to be worthy of your heart, do not complain for the result.

Because of the lack of enthusiasm for life in life, so you will complain about it, think about it from another angle, you are the best, you can also do great, you can also bring others a pleasant feeling, why complain, complaining will only lower your level.

I am very dissatisfied with my life, and I always want to complain about whatever I do. Friends who have such a similar situation must need to pay more attention and need to use the right method to solve it. This has a lot to do with the individual's mentality, and changing the mentality and life method is the best solution.

1. Try to change the status quo of your life. When a similar situation occurs in your own life, first of all, you don't need to worry too much, you don't need to be too nervous. We might as well change our life situation, do something we want to do, and take a few days off in the company to relax.

Traveling, playing with friends, participating in outdoor activities, etc., are all great solutions. Not only can you change the current situation of your life, but it can also help you think about the current situation of life.

2. Set some goals for yourself. If you don't get the life you want, you will have such a phenomenon, and it is also a very "dangerous" thing to appear, and if you don't pay attention to it, you will be in trouble for a long time. It is a very good solution to set some goals for yourself, and after having goals, you can not only give yourself the direction to guide, but more importantly, you can make life more fun and exciting.

I've had this experience before, but since I set a goal for myself, I don't have this mentality at all, and although I feel that life is very tired, I feel very grounded in my heart because this is the life I want.

To sum up, you don't need to be too nervous when you encounter a similar problem, but you need to solve it in the right way. Everyone will have different ideas, and everyone will have different solutions, but when we think correctly, it is easy to solve the problem.

Then tell yourself that there are many unsatisfactory things in life, and you need to face them with an optimistic attitude, so that you can make yourself happier.

Hello, I am Mr. Wang Siyu, and I am good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation

Question: Family and interpersonal interactions: I am very confused about myself.

Question: I was scolded every day at home, and I had no direction to go out.

Who will scold you?

Ask parents. And grandma.

I'm also a little suicidal.

Answering their scolding makes you start to doubt yourself, but no matter what, our lives are precious, they show concern in the way of scolding, because they don't know how to communicate with you, it's not that they don't love you, if you are born because of this, they will be very sad.

Thank you for sharing your feelings and thoughts with me, can you tell me what happened?

If you can talk to me, I'd like to listen to you.

Can you tell how old you are?

Are you safe now?

If you are not satisfied with your life and want to complain about everything, you should actually convince yourself and find that there is something good in life to become positive.

Then try to talk to someone, tell the other person what you think, and ask the other person to enlighten you.

This mindset should be changed. Make yourself strong and do something to change the situation.

You can talk to your relatives and friends about your inner feelings, and vent some emotions and emotions.

I think you must not put too much pressure on yourself in life, and you must maintain an optimistic attitude towards life.

I've heard such a little story.

Do you have any insights from the little story of Stupid Nazao?

In fact, people who always complain are not that the world is too bad, but that you are too narrow-minded.

If life is a game, when you are always complaining, it is destined to get you out early; If life is a competition, when you complain, it is destined to make you lose your fighting spirit; If life is a picture, when you complain, it is destined to make you lose the beauty of color.

The future can only be pursued steadfastly, and there will eventually be success with it; In the future, only by working hard will we have no regrets in life.

Friends, don't let complaining stop you from caring for your life, try to be grateful for what you have, so that our lives can be more perfect and brighter.