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Some unpleasant things, already in the past, why can they still be the reason why you can't communicate with people?
Learn to forget, learn to make yourself cheerful. You know, in reality, there are many people who are much worse off than you, but they are still tenacious and happy.
If you want to have good friends, the first thing is to make others feel happy when they are around you; If you want the person next to you to be happy, first of all, be happy yourself. Imagine who wants to associate with a stranger who is always sad.
Secondly, it is important for friends to treat each other with sincerity, be trustworthy, and be righteous! (Well, it's not as exaggerated as in the movie, but it's pretty much the same.)
That's how you can have good friends. Once you become friends, it's good to be able to sacrifice a little bit for your friends. There are things to be tolerant and trust in the other person. It's just that after being hurt, just remember that there was such an experience.
When you try to communicate with people, you don't want to close yourself off. You can talk about what the other person wants to talk about, and this depends on his hobbies. Then find your common ground.
If you talk about common ground, you can develop into friends. If the common ground is too far apart, then you just laugh it off and be an acquaintance.
When interacting with people, the main expression is friendliness. It doesn't matter how much you say! When you don't have anything to talk about, smile at each other and listen carefully to what they have to say.
Believe that no one will hate you and stay away from you. If you spend a little more time with him, you'll become friends. If you develop again, you will be good friends.
o( o you will find your good friends. I wish you a happy day and upward!
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A real friend is not an endless topic to talk about when you meet, but an embarrassment that you won't feel even if you don't talk when you're together.
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I think it takes self-discipline and execution to change myself. Everyone knows the truth, everyone can say a basket, but why do they know the truth, but they still can't live this life? I have also been thinking about this question for a long time, since I was a child, my parents and teachers have taught me to study hard, the same school and the same teachers, some students can get into college, and some people can barely pass.
I think the main reason for the distance is execution.
Everyone knows that going to bed early and getting up early, a regular life is good for health, but who can do it in the era of mobile Internet? We all know that we study hard and make progress every day, but who wants to study hard after work?
The main reason for the distance is execution, social impetuousness, everyone is talking too much, doing too little, only put into action, take action, have execution, the unity of knowledge and action, will definitely become better.
Of course, I don't deny my inertia, I'm a procrastination sufferer, to be honest, I also know how to improve myself, what efforts to put in, but the helpless execution is touching....Alas, let's encourage you!
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Do the following and change yourself in a month!
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To completely change yourself during the summer vacation, you must do these five things.
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Striving is not to learn repeatedly, but to surpass oneself and do better than oneself in the past time and again. That's effort, and I think there's a lot of effort, and it depends.
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A simple method is formed through many practical actions, and in the process, new habits are established. At least it seems to me that maybe it's just a small step, but it's done repeatedly.
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The 11 books in The Parchment are written by successful people in various industries in the United States over the past 200 years, who have informed the world about the secrets of success and the meaning of a happy life that it brings.
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Psychology is a science that studies human psychological phenomena and their mental functions and behavioral activities under their influence, taking into account both outstanding theoretical and applied (practical) aspects.
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Abide by the law and discipline and self-restraint. If we are always in a demanding environment to study and live, it is difficult to progress, so we should learn to restrain ourselves, demand ourselves, change from passive to active, consciously abide by the daily behavior norms of middle school students, and use it to restrain our words and deeds.
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Changing yourself first requires knowing yourself! Everything in the world is changing.
Find your way] Think about what you really want, do what you want to do, and start life again. Make life simple, clean and very happy. You don't have to cater to other people's expectations and requirements, just work towards your goals.
Start your own dreams] always remind yourself that all achievements come from great dreams, don't let others give up on your dreams, and overcome all kinds of fears.
Eliminate the fear of change] must withstand the opposition and criticism of others, eliminate the fear in the heart, and be strong enough to influence and change others.
Act as soon as possible] Act as soon as possible, start from little by little, and slowly get closer to your dreams.
Learn to feel happiness] In fact, I have always lived in happiness, but I lack the ability to feel happiness, and I have to learn to feel happiness.
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Be confident in yourself, be more self-disciplined, manage your body well, make reading good books a habit, constantly improve your temperament, enrich your experience, try some new things, cultivate some of your own hobbies, keep learning some skills, travel when you have time, appreciate the beauty of the world, meet some interesting people, each of us is unique in this world, don't always deny yourself, find out what you are interested in, what you are good at, you want to become stronger But an idea must be realized with effort.
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