My boyfriend always scolds me for having too many shortcomings, not the kind of joke. It s very impa

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Standing in a passive situation all the time, you are simply running away from the problem.

    I was scolded, and I comforted myself that it was angry words. Say you're short. You think you're a flaw. How long will you be able to use this compromise?

    You're only going to make him feel more and more bored about you. Why bother? Why not think about changing roles once.

    Why you can only press me on me to solve it. Why can't you put pressure on him to solve it? You feel like he loves you.

    How childish this is.

    Take the initiative once, have no courage, the courage to leave. Okay, you'll really find out if he really loves you. Tell him:

    I'm really sorry. I always annoy you with too many shortcomings, so you don't have to put up with it in the future. You told me to.

    Then I'll get out. Good bye.

    At least this decision lets you know any answers you want to know. Don't you feel sorry for yourself for annihilating your own personality?

    Be strong. Brave. Take a big breath without stress to feel your true self!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If that's how he loves you, then he won't love people. He doesn't know what to do to his girlfriend, and it will only make you sad. Break up with him!

    Walking with him any longer will only hurt even more! I'm from the past, and I've met such a boyfriend, and I broke up with him under the persuasion of my friends, and although I love him very much, I can't let myself be stupid anymore. Your sisters and friends are people who can accompany you through the pain, don't let the people around you feel so distressed.

    It hurts my heart to see another silly girl like me..After the pain, there will be a better one for you to encounter. Let's take it as a lesson!

    Even if he loves you and you love him, getting along with two people like this will only make two people miserable! Break up with him!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Faint, what kind of person is this, if it were me, I would grab his hair and say that I have so many shortcomings! In fact, two people have been together for a long time, and they will find that each other has a lot of shortcomings, who loves whoever loves more, who will tolerate whoever is more, you can't always blindly tolerate him like this, love is selfless, but don't you feel tired in this way, it feels like you love him too much, and he bullies you with you more than he loves You don't have too many shortcomings, but he doesn't love him as much as you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Either you're really stupid, or you're really stupid, whatever, it's not someone else's life anyway, your life is up to you, as long as you feel happy

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's not your fault!

    There are too many shortcomings, so you can't scold it like this!

    Since I think you have many shortcomings, why did I fall in love with you in the first place!

    Since you can change it, it proves that this is your great merit, didn't he find it?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is true that a woman becomes very stupid after falling in love with someone. It's smart to leave. If he doesn't keep him, go bravely.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Summary. If it is easy to reconcile, you may have to inch in the future, he hurts your self-esteem, and you will digest it yourself, and you don't need him to coax it.

    Hello, I have seen your question, the state circle will give you the best answer and advice according to your question, you just need to be patient and wait for a hail to collapse for a while. Reply to you within 5 minutes, please don't click to finish, thank you very much

    Recently, I didn't pick on me, saying that I have big pores, wrinkles, and a bad temper, and I was angry and joking, but I just wanted to see me angry, and I was really angry and then said that I was joking.

    Hello, so that it is generally said in a joking way to really say what you mind, just don't do and see if you are angry and say it is a joke, you can tell him directly, the joke needs to be funny to the other party to be called a joke, you don't think the spine of the shirt is funny.

    At the same time, you can occasionally tell him this, such as his shortcomings in a certain place, and joke about it after speaking, so that he can feel your heart.

    Some people can't empathize directly, and they need to experience it themselves to know that their words hurt.

    also talked about whether to get married in the future or not, because his words are not good, and I will have to divorce these things, and asked me if I think he is the kind of person who will not take into account my thoughts and self-esteem.

    In the process of getting along with two people, it should not be one person who criticizes the other party all the time, and the two people are equal.

    He keeps saying this without any regard for your thoughts and self-esteem.

    It is advisable to tell him these words once in a while so that he can feel them.

    I told him, he said that he couldn't be quick about the draft, said that he owed it, I still ignored him, he actually said that he apologized and didn't forgive him? He also said that he used to coax me to say that I was good, but now if I say a few bad words, I can't do it? I also talked about getting married in the future, saying that if I can't say a bad word about it in the future, otherwise I will divorce before respecting.

    Understand your feelings, this is indeed his problem, when there was a small contradiction in the spring grandson, did he coax less, just coax a few words, and then you pointed out that you slowly recovered?

    And now the Cold War, and he still says that when I am in a good mood, I will give him something that is not suitable and I want to break up, and he will seriously consider it.

    I don't understand, I don't want to coax you to set up a character when you start together.

    That's the case, to put it mildly, he's lazy, too lazy to coax you, thinking that you will calm down and don't need to waste your time and energy.

    If you say a few words of coaxing, blame you, if you coax well, it is his credit, he came to coax you.

    It is recommended not to reconcile easily this time, you can also think about the things he usually does to you and the things that are not good to you, and seriously consider this relationship.

    If it is easy to reconcile, you may have to inch in the future, he hurts your self-esteem, and you will digest it yourself, and you don't need him to coax it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello dear kiss, happy to serve you, boyfriend thinks you have a bad temper, but also think about reason 1Your own problems, emotional instability, easy to lose your temper with others, and it is frequent, then you need to correct your own small shortcomings, it is recommended that you can first ask him to list the bad temper you show specifically, and listen to his opinions fully, so that he will feel that you respect his ideas. Next, you can find ways to improve your bad temper, such as reducing swearing, controlling your emotions, and communicating with others more civilly.

    2.Sometimes it's not your fault, it's the other person's reason that causes you to lose your temper, and you have to learn to take the initiative to express why you're angry.

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