My boyfriend scolded me for swearing, but I couldn t bear it

Updated on Game 2024-04-10
52 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I can't bear it, I will make it again after I endure it for the first time, he may think it's nothing, but how can the listener accept it, so you must tell him seriously, "I'm angry, the problem is very serious!" ”

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not something you can't bear.

    You tell him that you want to scold me from the bottom of your heart.

    Or is it just the mouth.

    If yes, then tell him that I don't like it.

    Just tell him to change it.

    Don't be stiff

    Remember. Because then you won't have the strength to pull

    Not really

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Hitting is love, scolding is love! My girlfriend and I often scolded each other, and we were fine!! It's been 4 years!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Everything depends on the situation of a man, who wants to save face.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can never see the psychology of a boy, don't you ask him what is wrong?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're a fool, this kind of person still wants it, get rid of him quickly.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Oh, it depends on how much your boyfriend loves you.

    But yes. It's better to remind him.

    After all, there is a lot of scolding.

    It will become a habit.

    That's not good.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not easy to endure having a boyfriend!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You yourself say you can't stand it. So what else?

    If it's your fault that makes him so angry that he can't control himself, you can't blame him.

    If not, then there is something wrong with his cultivation.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I can't bear it, if I endure it like this, he will put his nose in the face!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He scolds you, and you still ignore him? I'm not married, but if I'm married, what's the deal?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    A good woman can change a bad man.

    Maybe he's idiomatic about it.

    You warn him and teach him not to swear.

    If I don't say it to you, I don't say it to anyone else.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since the landlord has posted this post, it is obvious that your psychology has endured enough, at least looking for comfort and venting on the Internet, so I can tell you for sure that the limit of your patience is about to reach, or that you will go back as usual after venting here.

    Others say that it is just that the final decision maker is you.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Depending on the situation,,, some places, there are these words in the dialect, there is no way, if not, your people don't have this situation, and their hometown is not, that is the quality problem, you can solve it, if it is the previous situation, or think about it, it is difficult to change the things that you are used to.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Tell him about your grievances, but be tactful.

    You can't swallow your anger!

    People who don't know how to respect are not worth continuing.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If that's the case, you should pay attention to the fact that maybe he has a new love. I would like to advise you not to continue your relationship with him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You tell him directly that women are also human beings and need to be respected, if he doesn't change and insists on doing that, it doesn't hurt to blow it, so as not to suffer deeper harm in the future, such as domestic violence, hehe, scare you!

    I know that in a man's environment, it's almost like that, but if you have any ideas, you have to tell him that feelings need to be tempered, not blindly accommodating, and if it doesn't work anymore, just wave your hand and say byebye, and walk away in style

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Let's see why, but I can't stand people who curse people with dirty words.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can't bear it, you can bring it up to him, because it's bad behavior.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If it is not a heart.

    Understandable. If it's recurrent, it's unreasonable.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    We female compatriots can't endure it like this! Ping what scolded you ??The landlord and this kind of man blow it!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    See if you like him. If not, forget it.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If he curses for no reason, then don't continue. This kind of man is too macho! If there is a reason, then it can be forgiven.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Kiss, there are the following:1If you scold your boyfriend, you don't have dirty words 1, you are like a bitter gourd, you dress so coolly, and you look so defeated.

    2. Don't talk to me, because I don't understand, and in the eyes of others, it's a very stupid thing for me to quarrel with a pig. 3. For you, I really can't think of any language to communicate with you who are different human beings! 4. The smell of inferior perfume all day long is still coming to the man's side, who has taken a second look at you?

    5. Look really creative and live with real courage! 6. You waste air alive, waste land when you die, and waste RMB when you're half-dead! 7. When you pick up the mirror, look at yourself.

    You think it's redundant, but it's actually ......You're really superfluous. 8. Scolding others, being thick-skinned, saying that mosquitoes should be difficult to book you, mosquitoes have struggled all night, and they are bored.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Boyfriend swears, at least you can see that he doesn't respect you. If he doesn't respect you, his friends won't respect you. If you don't respect you, it means that you don't love you enough, and they won't take you seriously after a long time.

    I won't talk about it any further. If your boyfriend has other bad problems, it's okay to say, this one problem must be resolutely changed, otherwise you and his future will not be good**. You can make an appointment with him for three chapters, such as giving her three chances, but also giving yourself a chance, and breaking up if there is another scolding situation three times.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If the question is being asked, you can't scold me.

    You talk to him and see what his attitude is.

    The man who asked the question didn't want to apologize.

    The boy's mother also said that she couldn't be the master of her son.

    The boy's mother also said that she could not be the master of her son.

    Then pull it quickly, such a mother-in-law can't do it.

    Obviously towards the son.

    Question: The boy is too good.

    That boy is so good.

    fine, too. Question: They are all good at all.

    They are all good families.

    Gotta bully you to death.

    Question: The boy is talking to his sister-in-law.

    The boy spoke for his sister-in-law.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    If it's the first time for your boyfriend to swear at you, you can communicate with him and say that he won't do this and hurt like this in the future. If it has been repeated many times, then the person is not worthy of you to be with him.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Analyze it on a case-by-case basis.

    1. If you have nothing to do and use you as a tool to vent your emotions, break up quickly. This is violent.

    2. If it is criticism and accusation of your fault, then you had better correct it.

    3 If swearing is just a mantra, let him avoid it as much as possible, especially after having children.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    For uncivilized people, I don't think there is any need to get along, and I should resolutely break up. Because since he can swear a lot now, then you won't get along well in the future.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    In fact, if your boyfriend scolds you for swearing, this is very normal, and then it may be because two people are angry that they will find that it is not necessary, because of this breakup.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Your boyfriend swears at you, you should see how he usually behaves to you, if you just scold you, will there be any other reason, don't easily say that you should respect the relationship or give him a chance to break up, so that he doesn't scold again in the future, if you scold again, you break up with him.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If your boyfriend swears at you, then you have to see if you still have feelings for your boyfriend, and whether your boyfriend really likes you, if you have no feelings, then it is better to break up, if you still have feelings, then you have to communicate with your boyfriend.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    If a boy swears at you, I think he must break up, which means that this boy doesn't care about you, because people who really care about you won't swear with you, so you still have to think about it carefully.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    What kind of situation do you want to divide this, and what do they scold you, if it is true that you did something wrong, then it is forgivable, if it is your boyfriend who is always like this, then it is better to separate.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Personally, I feel that you need to reconsider whether you want to continue your relationship. Because no matter what, a man who swears at you is not right, it means that there may be something wrong with his body.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If your boyfriend swears at you, I think such a boyfriend must break up, don't be with such a boyfriend, otherwise you will be sad.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    If your boyfriend is always swearing at you and doesn't care about your feelings, it may be his habit, and if it's not his habit, you consider him breaking up.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Your boyfriend swears at you, which shows that he is very disrespectful to you. Not even the most basic respect. Of course I'm going to break up with him.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If a guy often talks to you like this, meaning that he won't change for you, let alone respect you, you should break up with him.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If your boyfriend swears at you, I think it's okay to break up, at least he doesn't respect and tolerate you.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    People have grumpy times, and when they are in a bad mood, when they are in an irritable mood, they will inevitably be unable to control themselves and swear. If he knows his mistakes in the future, he can forgive him, and if he can't change them, then consider breaking up.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It feels like he doesn't love you very much, or he doesn't love you deeply. Leave him early, marry him, you will not be happy. You should find a man who really loves you.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Sometimes it's just a person's mantra, so it can be said inadvertently, so the most important thing is to get to know a person and see if they really care about you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Should break up. 1. The most basic principle of love is mutual respect, when he insults his girlfriend with ugly words, let alone whether the boyfriend has love for his girlfriend, the boyfriend doesn't even give his girlfriend basic dignity.

    2. Besides, a boy who will yell at his girlfriend and swear must not have a good character.

    3. The best existence of love should be based on the premise of protection, but the other party is obviously not the person who will protect his girlfriend, nor is he the person who knows how to have a good girlfriend. Sometimes a girlfriend's tolerance may make the other party gain an inch.

    4. Maybe the boyfriend will apologize to his girlfriend after scolding every time, but this does not change the nature of the boyfriend, a person who does not know how to respect the boyfriend will only hurt the girlfriend more in the future, so when the girlfriend can't stand it and begins to doubt the relationship, there is no need to continue to wronged herself!

    5. Big things can be solved calmly and well, why use scolding to solve the problem, scolding will only make things worse and worse, and it will not solve the problem at all! It will also hurt the other party's heart, and when it really hurts, no matter how much you make up for it, it is better not to have this happen, the gains outweigh the losses!

    The more people who love each other, the more they must respect each other, speak well, be more tolerant and understand each other, don't insist on going their own way, and don't regret it until you lose it!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    In fact, if your boyfriend scolds you for swearing, this is very normal, and then it may be because the two of you are angry that you will find that it is not necessary, because this breakup swears at me or not, it depends on the degree of relationship between the two of you.

    In fact, breaking up is a very common thing for couples, after all, there is no couple who does not quarrel and there is no couple who does not break up, and many times people don't know what they say when they are angry. As the saying goes, everyone should be responsible for what they say, and of course, no matter what kind of emotional state you are in, you should take your share of responsibility.

    Although it is normal for couples to break up, in my opinion, if it is not because of some necessary things, breaking up is actually very hurtful to the feelings of two people. You must know that many couples will have some hypocrisy more or less together, not only for boys but also for girls, and sometimes the degree of hypocrisy is really annoying.

    In fact, when two people get along together, it is normal to scold, as the saying goes, it is good to scold each other and love, of course, it is okay to scold each other, but it is best not to do it, because once you get started, it is essentially different. As for scolding, the two of them should also pay a little attention to that degree, after all, sometimes what they say is still very hurtful.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    You have to break up, the person who will scold your girlfriend is obviously not sincere enough, don't want such a man, this time he scolds you with dirty words, and next time he can't guarantee that he won't beat you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I will express my dissatisfaction first, and then carefully consider the relationship, most likely I will choose to break up, I am afraid that he will want to beat me after scolding me. So it's better to break up.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    It should be divided, angry, and scolding should not be used as a way to solve problems.

    If he doesn't give him some way to punish him, he will definitely feel that the woman's temper is too good, and maybe he will do it next time he loses his temper.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    If my boyfriend swears and scolds me during another fight, then I can assume that there is no such thing, as long as he is usually good to me, but if this happens often, then I will choose to break up.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Should break up. Men can't solve problems with violence. Not to mention verbal attacks. I don't think such a man can communicate. I won't be happy in the future.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I think if I tell him for the first time that I don't like this model, and I still don't change it, there is no need to be together.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    Nowadays, people should have a certain level of education, and swearing is very unacceptable.

    Is he just doing this to you? That just shows that he doesn't care about your feelings at all. Even if you are angry, you should grasp the proportion, so adults have the ability to control your emotions.

    Although he said angry words, he didn't think of you like that, but it would hurt his feelings to say something disrespectful, even if he apologized and reconciled, I think you must have a pimple and a shadow in your heart, and slowly there will be no trust and affection for him.

    If swearing is his habit (and some people like to use vulgar words), you can't just tolerate his bad habits. Besides, it doesn't matter what he says to others, but he should have a minimum of respect for you, and he scolds you how he wants to say it, which only shows that in his eyes you are no different from strangers on the street. Then let such a person leave him as soon as possible.

    If you did something wrong to anger him, I don't think he could express his anger in that way. Even if he keeps saying "it's all for your good, nothing else", it's very sad and unacceptable. As a man, you should know how to be tolerant and know how to solve problems calmly, this kind of "turnip and stick" method is not advisable for the education of both wives and children.

    There is still so much to go in the future, you can't afford not to make mistakes, and if he speaks very hard as soon as he provokes him, I promise that one day you will be cold.

    All I can think of is the above three situations, you think about it calmly and communicate with him. Of course, quarrels are common, and the occasional quarrel can even strengthen the relationship. But if one of the parties can't control their emotions, the quarrel will only hurt the feelings and the body.

    Two people should work together to find a suitable way to get along with each other to maintain the relationship.

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