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Your boyfriend always makes you cry, and it depends on why you're crying? If it is touched, then it is suitable to be together, but if it is not touched, but sad, it should not be suitable to be together, as your boyfriend, it always makes you sad and sad, and it can't make you happy, then there is no need to be together.
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Not suitable, it means that this boyfriend can't bring you happiness and happiness, and you will only be miserable and cry when you are with him, so of course it is not suitable to be together.
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If your boyfriend always makes you cry, it means that he doesn't really like you, if he really likes you, I believe he won't do this to you, even if you cry, he will coax you.
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The key is that you analyze the reason why you cry every time you cry, is it because you are wronged? Why be wronged? What is the reason for finding this crux of the problem? Or are you asking too much? Clear your mind first, and then strengthen communication with your boyfriend.
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Then it's not suitable to be together, if you like your boyfriend who loves you and is reluctant to make you cry, there is no need to be together.
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Then this mainly depends on whether your boyfriend's behavior is problematic, or whether you are more emotional, if it is indeed his behavior and behavior, if you get married, you still have to consider it.
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Falling in love is to be comfortable together No one wants to fall in love in order to find a blockage If the two of you are often unhappy together Then the long pain is better than the short pain Or break it up Why make yourself uncomfortable It means that the two of you are still not suitable Find a suitable one After all, happiness in life is the most important thing.
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Since your boyfriend always makes you cry, it proves that he doesn't care enough about you and doesn't love you enough in his heart, whether or not to be together, you should think carefully before making a wise decision.
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I don't think the two of you are suitable to be together, because if a man keeps making you cry, then even if you are with him, you will not be happy.
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I think the first thing to do is to figure out if your boyfriend doesn't care about your very simple and rude way of doing things, or is it because you are too squeamish and likes to cry or is very sensitive in front of your boyfriend?
Can you calmly analyze it, give a few specific examples of how many times he made you cry, recall the cause and process of the incident, and the words of both parties in the process? Attitude? Divergent opinions?
Wait. That is, we have to analyze the essence of the problem through the appearance of things, whether your boyfriend doesn't care about you, or you are too sensitive.
In addition to this, the second point is that you need to look at your boyfriend's nature, which requires observing his attitude or style towards the people around him and the people around you.
If he is a rational and slow-burning person by nature, and many times you cry because of your sensitivity, then you can sit down and communicate, you can tell him what you like or are more acceptable ways of communication, and I believe that as long as you communicate more, your state will improve.
If you find that he is just not patient with you or is just more rational in front of you, it means that your weight in his heart needs to be improved. It depends on whether you have to be him, if it doesn't reach this level, then it is recommended to calm down first, because the one who loves deeply will be more difficult and sad.
My boyfriend often makes me cry, yesterday because he didn't want to send me to work, I had a big fight with him, he hurt me by mistake, I was so aggrieved at that time, I cried, so angry that I went downstairs to work in the company by myself, and blacked him out. In fact, for boys, some things are just jokes, but in the hearts of us girls, they will be infinitely expanded, and they will feel that their boyfriends don't love them.
Sometimes there are small conflicts between couples that must be communicated and resolved in time, don't hold it in your heart, boys have big nerves, and it is difficult to take the initiative to pay attention to girls' emotions.
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I would break up with the other person immediately because it was not suitable to be with the other person at all. The other party can't give him what he wants, so he often makes himself sad.
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In this case, I would have broken up with him. A man who really loves you will not always make you cry, he will feel very sorry for you, he is afraid that you will be sad and sad, and he cares about your feelings.
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Parted. This shows that the boyfriend doesn't love his girlfriend at all, and if it were me, I would choose to break up to stay away from such a scumbag.
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chose to end this relationship, because if a boy makes a girl cry, it means that he is incapable of protecting the girl, and the girl will gradually be disappointed.
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Maybe your boyfriend is a withdrawn person. The so-called isolation is due to the fact that the heart has been in sorrow, hidden deep in the heart and unable to be revealed to outsiders. I think if you want to redeem it, you might be able to try to understand what is hidden deep inside him.
If it weren't for what I said, I would advise you to give up on him. Fate should be severed, and the thread should not be broken.
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If something like this happens to me, I'll talk to my boyfriend and tell him that I don't like this and that I want him to change it, otherwise it's going to be hard to get along with.
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Happy crying is because of happiness.
Crying sadly may be a feeling of grievance.
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Personally, I think that when your boyfriend sees you crying and doesn't coax you, in this case, you shouldn't be too angry, or should you make a final judgment based on the specific reality to see if your boyfriend really cares about you? People who care about you.
First of all, you shouldn't cry for no reason, it may be that there is a quarrel between you and your boyfriend, put the girl, after the quarrel with your boyfriend, your boyfriend is more stubborn, no, let yourself, girls will often cry, if you are also the same reason, then in this case, what I want to say to you is that crying is useless, it does not solve the problem fundamentally, and in this case you can't count on your boyfriend to coax you, Instead, you should try your best to calm down your emotions and communicate with your boyfriend well, so that you can really solve the problem and really make the relationship between the two of you harmonious.
On the other hand, if you encounter some setbacks and difficulties in your career or study life, in this case, you can't help crying, and your boyfriend sees you crying and doesn't coax you, it may be that your boyfriend himself belongs to the kind of person with rough lines, he doesn't know how to pity the fragrance and cherish the jade, and he doesn't care about people very much, in this case, when you calm down, you should also communicate well with your boyfriend when you are in a good mood, so that he can learn to care about you in the future. But if you always cry because of some small things, then your boyfriend may also gradually get used to your behavior, so when he sees you crying, he thinks there is no need to coax you, after a while, you can calm your emotions, which is also a process that allows you to gradually mature and grow.
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One that completely ignores your feelings.
Although men are thicker than women, no one is really low EQ and has no feelings for the other party's feelings, even if it is a man who really can't coax people and cares about people, when you are angry, he will say a few good words or accompany you to be silent.
At least he won't be completely like a nobody, doing what he should do, ignoring your feelings.
Especially when you have just started to get along, he should be more attentive to you at this time, if you can't get his care, then it is even more impossible to hope that he cares about you in the future.
Maybe a person has a very wooden personality, can't say nice things, and doesn't know how to comfort people at all, but sincerity and sincerity can be felt.
If you're still asking yourself"Does he love me or not?"When it is"Not loved", whether he was raising fish or not, that is"Fish farming"。
At this time, the relationship between you should be carefully examined, as long as you are not overdone, then ignoring your feelings is basically equivalent to not loving you so much, maybe there is a liking, but this kind of liking is not worth all kinds of trivialities in the long years ahead.
The other is that you are overdoing it.
Because everyone defaults to men coaxing girls, sometimes girls will be more sensitive, and if there is a little wind and grass, they hope that the other party will coax, and it may be okay at first, but if the other party is busy with work, it will be more tiring to deal with this kind of thing often.
Slowly, he will ignore your requests, because it is not a big deal, in which case you have to communicate well in conjunction with Marshall Luxemburg's "Nonviolent Communication".
Learn to state objective facts, which here refers to objective facts, such as you didn't pick me up when it rained today, not that you didn't come to pick me up or you didn't love me, these are two completely different expressions.
Then express your feelings, such as being uncomfortable, instead of blaming, why don't you come, at least see if the other person has any reason first.
Finally, it is to propose a solution, and some people only complain that communication without giving the direction of the solution is vexatious, because the other party does not know what you want to do.
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1. Tell him when you need comfort If your boyfriend may not be able to know your emotions right away, but you especially want him to comfort you, you might as well tell him that you are not very happy now, and I believe he will definitely be in a hurry to find a way 2. Pull him to watch idol dramas with you Pull your boyfriend to watch idol dramas, not to learn the routines inside, but more to learn the care of the male protagonist for the heroine and help in life.
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The boy may have a low EQ, or he may not know how to coax him. It's okay, emotional intelligence can be improved, and each of us is born with a blank slate. Improve him through diplomatic influence.
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It's right to coax a girlfriend, but straight men really don't know how to coax their girlfriends to coax you to what extent you are satisfied This is really a headache for straight men!
Because I'm the straight man of steel...
I hope all women are sensible, think with their hearts, and understand which boy is true love for you and which boy is a flamboyant fool!
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Isn't he young, not very mature?
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Why are you crying, do you cry if you're fine? If he cries if he is fine, I hope you take him to see a psychiatrist, and if he cries when he encounters some difficulties, it is a nest. If you cry when you encounter something sad, you may be a sentimental and kind child, etc.
It's an interesting question. Look at them separately. The first type is the kind type.
Encountering something touching and such excusable circumstances shows that the tears are low. A good thing, it means that the person is not too bad. No problem at the root.
The second type is the pit cyst type. If you are a person who cries when you encounter difficulties and setbacks, it is recommended to stay away. Why are you keeping?
Boyfriends are for self-protection, not for wasting paper.
There is a physiological reaction called crying. I don't know if he is. But I definitely am.
It's not because of this, it's just that the crying point is very low. The lacrimal ducts seem to be twisted together. You ask him if it's physiological.
As far as I know, there are quite a few people who have this strange feature. Anyone will cry, whether it is a boy or a girl, a boy loves to cry, maybe ask him the reason. Maybe he has something on his mind.
I don't think it's okay to cry, the problem is to have a degree, cry for a little thing, cry when you quarrel, cry when you encounter a little difficulty, and ......cry when you encounter a little difficultyLet's really hurry up, everyone.
I may belong to such a type, but when it comes to things, I'm not afraid of pain, and I won't cry no matter how bad the fall is, but when I quarrel with my girlfriend or see her in a bad mood, when I feel bad about her, I'm more entangled and sometimes it's easy to cry, maybe I'm more fragile in my heart, emotionally, but I won't cry easily in other things, but I'm very brave and not afraid of setbacks.
The feeling of a crying boyfriend is that such a boy is gentle, delicate, and sensitive enough, but he is really cute, and sometimes, he is really annoyed! However, what's the use of being annoyed, everyone is crying, who would lose his temper with a tearful child?
If a man is willing to shed tears in front of you, he must like you very much, there is no doubt about it. Please also cherish such a man.
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The boyfriend you made is easy to cry when he encounters something, which means that his psychological pressure is too low, so he is prone to low mood, coupled with low tears, something will happen to cry to relieve pressure. The best thing to do is to talk to him. Crying is not a man's advantage, only if you give yourself the courage to find a way to find a problem, you can't solve it and ask others for advice, and this situation will definitely change after a long time.
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Maybe it's because he feels that he is inferior to others and feels that he is not good enough, so he will be like this, he should encourage him more often, praise him more, and he will become confident when he is slow, so that he will not cry often, usually take him out to play more, and chat with him more.
Capricorn: Capricorn.
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