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The first is theoretical education: let children understand this truth - "only when you have to endure hardships can you become a superior person", if you want to have a future career, you must cultivate the spirit of hardship;

The second is demonstration education: as parents, we must set an example. For example, the best way to encourage your child to participate in physical activity is to lead your child to exercise.

Children are required to do more housework and cultivate self-care skills, and parents should also lead their children to do it together. Mothers should be role models for their daughters, and fathers should be role models for their sons.

The third is perseverance: habit cultivation is a long-term work, and it is necessary to be patient, persevering, determined and confident. Believe in your own children and believe in your own education and cultivation ability. Long-term education, lifelong learning, and growing with children.

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Let him earn his own money and live on his own.

Exercise regularly to train children, whether it is physical exercise or character exercise.

The habitual child is harming him.

The more parents love their children, the more they must strengthen their "hardship" education. Let children suffer a little bit and suffer a little sin, which is the real love and responsibility. Being able to endure hardships comes from the accumulation of little by little in daily life, and from small things that do not compromise and retreat.

It is necessary for parents not to give in on small things. For example, when a child is reluctant to get out of bed during a cold winter day; When it is difficult for a child to complete a craft; When the child jumps rope to the end of the exhaustion; When the child is completing his share of household chores and his friends come to him to go out to play; When the child has a cold and fever; These are all occasions for exercising and enduring hardships. At this time, children need encouragement, inducement, and encouragement from their parents and families.

Ask your child to keep doing what you're doing, and ask your child to keep fighting the odds. In fact, the spirit of enduring hardships comes from this last gritted tooth persistence. Parents should lead by example and take the initiative to endure hardships with their children.

Parents can play sports with their children, such as morning jogging, playing ball, swimming, etc. This not only increases the opportunity for parents to communicate with their children, but also allows children to get exercise.

In life, take your children to participate in social practice together, and let your children learn to complete appropriate household chores. Such as cleaning, cooking, washing dishes, cleaning the room, etc., can exercise children's hands-on ability and develop the habit of loving labor, and give spiritual encouragement to mobilize children's enthusiasm. Guide your children to read more and learn more about the biographies of great men.

The more I read and listened more, I felt that the process of life is a process of constantly overcoming difficulties and overcoming setbacks. Compared to the great men, the difficulties and setbacks we encounter are really nothing.

If the child has developed a lazy personality, parents should consider whether the problem lies with themselves. Is it their excessive doting and excessive arrangement of children's lives, so that children form such habits.

This kind of love is not right, and the right love should teach children to be independent. Laziness is the nature of human beings, and who doesn't want to have a life of clothes and food? But can such a life really gain a foothold in society?

Doing so will only raise the child to be a "waste person". Parents should also reflect on whether they are not acting as a good role model for their children.

After the baby is born, it becomes the focus of the whole family's attention, the grandfather helps put on the shoes, and the grandmother feeds the child. These actions couldn't be more familiar. Parents should give their children more opportunities to exercise their independence.

First of all, you should do your own things, washing clothes and eating. Don't say that the child is still young and can't do anything, even if he washes his handkerchief and socks? If the child is unwilling, parents should not be anxious to break the rules, then the child will think that you are just joking, and next time my mother will still help me arrange it.

Parents should have patience that never gets bored, and when guiding their children, they should be gentle, teach their children to learn in a relaxed way, and focus on encouragement. When the child is done, it is necessary to give appropriate encouragement, build confidence for the child, and arouse the child's desire to work.

As a parent, you can't blindly complain about your child if you are afraid of being tired and not suffering. First of all, it is necessary to analyze whether the child is doing things beyond his ability and whether he has the ability to do them; secondly, we should be patient with our children and persuade them to develop the habit of not being afraid of hardships; Finally, parents should teach their children by word and deed. Children are afraid of tiredness, and parents must take it seriously.

Children are afraid of hardship, and this situation is a common problem for many children. His solution is that everyone can practice more, such as letting him climb mountains, or do sports appropriately. If necessary, let the child do more housework, which is a good exercise for him.

It is recommended to communicate more with the child and tell him: only when you have to suffer hardships can you become a superior person, and learning is the fairest way to get ahead of all, and there will be no regrets after paying.

My high school physics teacher, his daughter once went out with him, and encountered two roads, one was a bit bumpy but relatively short, and the other was a lap but smooth road, and let his daughter choose which one to take.

You can lead by example and take the initiative to endure hardships with your children. Parents can play sports with their children to exercise their children's ability to endure hardships.

Hello, children are afraid of hardship, and they must be corrected from an early age. From an early age, we should develop a good habit of not being afraid of hardship.

It is normal for children to be afraid of hardship, you just need to slowly cultivate his spirit of hardship and hard work, so that he realizes that this is not terrible.

Human nature is to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, at this time, you can slowly guide your children, and you must also set a good example for your children.

Let him suffer a little, and when he suffers again, he will not be so bitter, but can face it happily.

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I believe that every parent in the world wants to let their children do what they like and are good at, and at the same time naturally live a rich life, and too many parents generally do two things, the first is to arrange what major their children choose according to their own wishes, what jobs to choose, and second, they work hard to make money, earn money for their children, earn money for cars, earn money for houses, and even make money for raising grandchildren.

I have to say that poor parents are hungry before dawn. It's really pitiful, not only is it very pitiful for your hard work all your life, but also the message you pass on to your children is also very pitiful, your kind actions from the bottom of your heart convey to your children that you can't make your own decisions at all, you can't choose your own career, and you don't know what to do, you can't support yourself, not only can't support yourself, but you can't support your children, so I have to prepare everything.

No matter how well you think you know your child, you must absolutely believe that every child is an independent individual, has his own life, he must know himself better than you know him, he must have his own strengths, have his own ability, what he needs is to find a platform that can make him grow, display his own talent, and create his own life, instead of eating the bun you have bitten.

I know you are afraid of your children suffering, but suffering is a necessary part of life. Without suffering, wisdom comes from **? Ability from **?

Experience from? Happiness comes from? If you block the pain, you will block the happiness of the child, arrange everything for the child, and deprive the child of everything.

I admit that it is very painful to watch your child struggle, and it is easier to regret it than to watch your child work hard and suffer, which is the reason why many parents arrange everything for their children. But you hurt the child, so that he lost the opportunity to experience the sour, sweet, bitter and spicy life, and it is impossible for him to turn back in life.

Only by truly discovering children's talents and strengths, and using them to enrich the lives of others, can children truly find their own safety and embark on the journey back to abundance and abundance.

If you don't want to raise a rebel, you must tell him that there are three kinds of sufferings that must be suffered.

Because only when you are tired, you will know how to be idle. Only bitter can we know sweetness. So be sure to let your child learn to endure a little hardship:

Life is a piggy bank, and every effort you put in will be returned to you one day in the future. What others have, as long as you are willing to give, you can also have it.

If you feel that studying is hard and choose to give up, when you don't read anything, you will find yourself like a soldier with bare hands, in the face of the strong enemy of fate, you will be beaten all over the body because you have no protective armor, and you have no power to fight back. At that time, you will understand that reading is not bitter, and life without reading is bitter.

Don't be afraid to endure hardships, that's your way to the world. One day, those sufferings will become your wings to travel the sky.

Children who don't endure hardships, their minds are not big and mature, and they can't be self-reliant, so who will take care of you in the future, and your parents are still counting on you to provide for them when they are old.

:No pain, no gain.