My parents said it was useless for me to go out into society

Updated on educate 2024-04-02
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  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hello classmates! I also have a younger sister at home, and I am the older sister. My sister started out to be more introverted, just like you.

    I have the same number of mental thoughts as you, and I have no communication, and I am very happy. She always felt that her family was better for me as an older sister. But that's not the case.

    You have to learn to communicate with your family, tell them what you think, after all, they are your family, the only one who really cares about you, you must say it when you are sick, not to mention what to do if it is serious, live a healthy and optimistic life, this is what your parents want to see. As for whether there is a chance or not, it is not up to them to decide, it is up to you. Your parents' words are indeed inappropriate, I understand your grievances, but you have to understand them, they don't want to hurt you, but they just have a feeling of hating iron and steel, and it's good to say it.

    You just let go of it, don't care about these things, you have to learn to be optimistic and positive now, exercise your character, it's not very good to be too introverted, if you can't talk to your family (in fact, you can talk to your sister) if you have troubles, talk to your teachers, good friends, if you are weak and sick, you should strengthen exercise, not that premature babies will never be healthy. Enhance your own overall quality, be positive and optimistic about life, and maintain good communication and interpersonal relationships, which is what you need to do now.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Let go of all thoughts and worries and be your true self!

    In fact, people's personalities can be changed somewhat, I am an example, I hope it will help you: I used to have low self-esteem for some reason, I was not good at talking, unwilling to socialize, and liked to close myself off. (I like the person in the sleeve Belikovsky), and later out of society, I felt that this was really not good, so I reflected:

    In fact, the deep-seated reason for my low self-esteem is that I can't let go of a lot and think too much, which leads to my life and work not being satisfactory. So then I decided to change myself, boldly try group activities, fight for opportunities to express myself, no longer worry about exposing my shortcomings, and believe in it"Go your own way and let others say it", firmly believe: I am who I am, and once I am performing, I am the boss!

    Hehe, now, I feel confident, calm and easy-going, and my work is quite well received.

    Let it go, children, no matter what the parents are, their intentions are always good. So, what you have to do is to be a sunny, lively, and progressive teenager. (Tell you a secret :.)

    I used to have a rare smile in January, but then the first thing I did when I got up every day was to look in the mirror and push the corners of my mouth up with my hand, hee-hee, I would laugh, love to laugh! )

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