Saying that some people say that I am stupid, that I will cook if I don t decide whether to go or no

A lot of people are like this, and that's normal. If you mean that your reaction is very intense, more than the general sense, it is that you pay too little attention to yourself, and you know too little and lead to a lack of self-confidence, and focus more energy on how to love yourself, care for yourself, and improve your direction, which will improve a lot.

Your condition is normal, and having such a reaction can only show that you are still young and have a long way to go. First, let's solve two questions: First, are you doing everything perfectly, to the point where no one can say about you?

Second, why do the people who say you say about you? There is no such thing as perfection, so there is always a part of what you are said to be said because there is something wrong with your behavior, and when you are said, do you first think about whether there is a problem with your behavior? Or to put it a little deeper, before you do those things, have you ever wondered how to cook without being told?

If you take anger as your first reaction without thinking about it, do you think it is reasonable? Those who say you are nothing more than teachers and parents, why do they say you? You should think about it for a while, and if you think that all the people who say you think it is fun to find fault with you, then you can also try to find fault with other people, and you can see if it becomes a pleasure.

If you think about the above two questions, then I can suggest that you try to look at the criticism of others with a normal mindset. I believe that you are still young, and there are many, many things to learn about everything around you, and there are some places where you really need the guidance of people, and do not refuse the help of others, even if this help is in the form of criticism, accusation or even nagging. When the needle sticks into the hand, it immediately retracts, which is a low-level nerve response.

If you get angry when you encounter criticism, you are downgrading a high-level mental activity to a low-level neurological response. Thinking more about things makes it easier for people to grow.

Landlord. Don't worry too much. It's a common thing.

The key is how you do to soothe it. If someone says yours is bad. Judge your people or as judgments.

Then you don't think they have quality. Because behind the scenes, people themselves are a manifestation of no character. You can walk over with your back straight.

Or give them a blank look. Don't punish yourself for someone else's mistakes. If it's really uncomfortable.

You can go out and see the scenery. Try to smile at yourself. They don't like you.

Or say you're nothing behind your back. Perfect. Naturally, there are people who appreciate you.

Complaining about others is also a way of shirking responsibility, you will always complain about others when you do something wrong, you will become more and more irresponsible, and complaining about others, the image of others in your heart will become bad, and you will have a feeling of pity for yourself, why others treat you like this, loneliness. So compare your heart to your heart, don't always complain about others, and learn to take responsibility.

Very normal reaction. It's just instinct. Don't worry about it that much.

Dear, they can say whatever they want, what does it have to do with you, you just do yourself, why are you depressed and angry for them, they are full of food, they have nothing to do, they are all gossip, no matter what they do.

You have to work hard and prove it to them.

What do you want to do? Are you going to change? Are you going to punish him?

Are you going to prove something? No. You're just annoyed and anxious.

They are slandering you. And you don't have the means to fight back. But I want to say.

They attack you. What's left but the mouth? So weak.

Such a fragile attack. Why should you care.

Can you control your mouth on someone else's face? It reminds me of a dog barking at a road intersection at night, and it's about time to get to its door, do you want to keep walking?

You can think differently, people say you're stupid to motivate you, you should become more confident, perfect, and go beyond those who say you're stupid.

When you say you're stupid to your face, you're really thinking you're stupid, you hate others saying you're stupid, it means that you yourself feel stupid, but you don't want people to say, you care too much about other people's opinions, you can care about other people's opinions, but not to people but to things, indicating that you are stupid must be that you are doing stupid things, when people say you're stupid, you can ignore that person, and then analyze yourself whether this thing is stupid or not, if stupid you have to understand correctly and then correct it next time, it's good not to commit it, This is growth, if you say you are angry and depressed and hate that person, this will only increase your troubles and will not do you any good, of course, you can also beat him so that they will not dare to talk about you in the future, but look at you like you talk like this is not like that hot person.

If your lover says you're stupid, you're happy. If it's an ordinary friend or someone else, you should wake up, it's really you who can't do it or you have met a villain.

Just say it, one of the manifestations of maturity is that you don't care what others think and think, you are comfortable, and you are better than anything else.

I'll be very happy, stupid outside and wise inside!

If you care too much about others, it's still yourself who is upset, some people have mouths, they don't necessarily have brains, just listen to laughter, don't take it seriously.

We are all the same, we don't like others to talk about ourselves, and we don't like to talk about ourselves behind our backs.

That's right, but just say it, ignore them, just let them talk about themselves.

It's just that some people are very annoying, and they always like to say bad things about people behind their backs! Most despised of this.

They say that about you because they feel like you're a bully.

Generally people who call others stupid, he is very stupid.

Don't worry too much about stupid people who have stupid blessings.

I am also often called stupid by others, and I feel uncomfortable when I hear it.

Does a giant care if the ants say he's short.

That's really stupid, and people often talk about me. Don't take it to heart, she's stupid if she says it's stupid?!

Hehe: If you say you're stupid, you'll be stupid.

Then don't make yourself stupid.

In fact, you don't have to mind, because you are very kind and are giving them face, and they are treating you as stupid, so it is better to have less contact with them in the future, because no matter what you do, it is difficult to change the other person's opinion of you, you just need to insist that you are kind.

Let them go, no matter how efficient they are, you will know that you can just put up with them, such people don't care about adults and villains.

There's nothing about this, your sister-in-law and brother don't think it's delicious, and you still say some lies, and they found out, okay?

You are a person with high emotional intelligence, and you will not say the bad things about others to your face, which is your advantage, so don't take this matter to heart, they say that you are stupid behind their backs, in fact, it is not necessarily, they really think you are stupid, maybe their psychology also knows your good intentions, just casually talking, so you can still be yourself, don't care what others say? Be yourself and be a person with high emotional intelligence, and you will not suffer in society.

I think you're a more considerate person, and you respect him more, so don't talk too much about your brother.

This should be your heart, and you generally don't say that, after all, it's your brother and sister-in-law. Even if you tell the truth, you should not have heard.

Your sister-in-law's cooking is unpalatable, you can teach him. Let him make good food in the future.

They are teaseing you and think you're cute. It means nothing else, you are a family that loves each other.

Once or twice once in a while, it doesn't matter. You can eat less with each other

Your sister-in-law said that the food was unpalatable, you said that you didn't say anything about him, your brother asked you, you said it was okay, your meal was not wrong, you said it was very right, he thought the food was not delicious, you thought it was okay, you still felt that your appetite was about the same, it may not mean that you are stupid, this sentence is not wrong, you may have heard it wrong, they will not say this about you.

I don't think you often go to his house for dinner anyway, so you just don't hear it.

You did the right thing, and he laughed and laughed happily. We should respect the fruits of our sister-in-law's hard work.

If your sister-in-law asks you something in the future, you can just say it's delicious

This shows that your brother is too polite, others save face for them, but they don't appreciate it.

Hello, you're right not to say it. Because you have to take care of the feelings of others.

Hello. Yours are good.

Emotional intelligence is high. Don't get cranky.

How to say it, if it were your own brother, it wouldn't be like this, in fact, you've done a good job, you just need to be worthy of yourself, and you don't have to worry about the rest.

If they really say you're stupid, you can dismiss them. Give you some face, you still laugh at me.

They don't usually say you're stupid to your face, but if they do that to you, you can tell him that you're stupid, but you're not deaf, you've hurt me.

I think if your brother and sister-in-law say this about you, they will still be heard by you, Zhuo Ming, they are really not very emotionally intelligent, you are actually correct to evaluate your sister-in-law's dishes like this, and it is actually rude to say to your face that the dishes made by your sister-in-law are unpalatable.

Personally, I think you're doing the right thing. No problem at all. They are laughed at by others, they are outsiders, and they don't think it's a big deal.

It's nothing, it's just a few episodes in life, no matter what you say, the other party may not take it to heart, so don't mind.

I think you're doing the right thing.

I think my brother was joking when he said that, because he knew you were talking the opposite. Since it's your own brother, don't care too much.

If your brother asks you, you can tell him directly, if it's your sister-in-law, you have to take care of other people's face.

Whether your sister-in-law's cooking is delicious or not is up to your brother to decide.

They like to say whatever they like, and they must still give the face they should give.

Yes, if it's delicious, you can eat more, if it's not delicious, you can eat less, and don't say it and it hurts.

Don't care too much about what others say, you have to have your own opinions, and you know that what you say is for the good of others and is good.

You're not stupid, you're honest.

What do you do when you're completely disappointed?

There are too many things in life that we have to face, because some things are not controlled by people, it is beyond your imagination, so no matter what, you will have a negative or positive attitude to face, how to choose, it depends on your outlook on life.

The reason why we are drowning in the abyss of pain and unable to extricate ourselves is because we have not yet psychologically accepted that this thing has happened, so finding a way to accept this is the only way to get out.

The death of a loved one, the failure of love, and the setback of a career will leave a painful shadow of psychological trauma that cannot be estimated.

As long as you are really relieved and convinced, you can really come out. Don't subconsciously tell yourself how hard it is and how reluctant it is. In fact, time is really a good antidote, maybe one day I will still have a little regret when I think about it, but you will find that you can actually let go.

Some shadows may not be erased for a lifetime, but you have to believe that it is your experience, although this experience is a little bumpy, but you have grown, and that is also a different harvest.

You have to believe in yourself, and if you work hard, you can come out of the shadows. As long as you work hard, you will definitely have a better life.

It's not chicken soup, it's really something that can come out. Reading, traveling, researching, trying to prove that you are 10,000 times better than living in the shadows.

If indifference is the most ruthless revenge, why punish yourself for the mistakes of others and let yourself live in the shadows?

What you have to do is make yourself stronger, so strong that you can live well without anyone hurting.

Maybe it's because your father and mother have too high expectations for you, so Bai has always criticized you since you were a child, so you don't have any confidence at all. What an ignorant parent!! Many families in China are like this, always say that their children are stupid and other people's children are smart, if they say this to others outside, it is okay, but when they come home, they should encourage their children, and it is right to do so, no one is born to understand everything, they all learn from scratch, from their parents' words and deeds, so if they always say that their children are stupid and stupid parents, they can only say that they are stupid and stupid.

It's ridiculous that they don't have self-awareness yet.

As for friends, in this world, you can have very good friends, but there are not many such friends, generally there is no interest relationship, there is no gain or loss, and there is no comparison relationship in order to listen to each other and understand each other.

If you can, go to another city, stay away from your parents, away from the people around you now, go out and know no one, and break out a new sky of your own, so that you can prove your ability.

They all say that you are stupid, you can isolate everyone and not be stupid, there is something in your heart and you know everything, what do he say about you, are you stupid if you don't say anything? version, what else do you have to crash? Quan said that you are not stupid, so why did you collapse?

He said we were stupid. Hurting people. If there is something on the Internet, we will do it if we don't suffer.

As soon as everyone wins, this one is different, some are just this person's mouth is not good, talk about what others, say something, we know it in our hearts, we won't kill. So what are you stupid about? Go your own way and let others say go!

Don't care too much about other people's eyes, don't care what others say, just do your own thing, the mouth is from the elder, how can you have time to care about what others say, you have to work hard to make achievements to block those people's mouths! Come on!