What should a 10 year old do?

Landlord, if you are talking about the objective situation, and not your excessive self-humility, then the first thing you should do is to correct your child's bad habits as soon as possible. There are many details that need to be paid attention to and how to correct them, which may not be something you can figure out by yourself for a while, otherwise you would not have formed these bad habits. It is recommended that you buy some books about the family education of primary school students, buy a few more books, read them several times, from your understanding and acceptance of some of the ideas in the book, to be able to apply some in practice, it will take a long process, but it is better to change some than not to change at all.

Also, you must not have the idea that your child starts from school, that is, your bad luck begins, you must love your child very, very much in your heart, find out and appreciate the shining points in your child (but this is essentially different from doting), and help him improve little by little while affirming him. You can't be anxious in this process, and the anxious emotions in your heart must not be revealed in front of your children. No matter what kind of personality you are or how hard you work, for the sake of your children, you must always be a happy and caring mother in front of your children.

In short, the excellent qualities that parents want their children to have, first of all, they must work hard in that aspect, even if it is pretended. In fact, while pretending, the parents themselves are unconsciously improving, aren't they?

It's very simple, you are doing it right, it is not easy to deal with ten-year-old children, there is only the most traditional method, and it is also the most effective method

Trouble, thanks!

You need to spend more time with your children, who need the care and help of their parents. Don't hit the child, talk to him well, it's useless to beat. Take him out on weekends, go fishing, go to amusement parks, parks, and go shopping.

Let him develop good hobbies, play ball, read books or something. Remember not to hit your child. Spend more time with him.

Don't take the company's temper home, don't lose your temper with your child.

1. Children learn to be independent and autonomous. Respect children's various needs, interests and hobbies, encourage them to express their thoughts and emotions, consult with them more when encountering problems, listen to their opinions, allow them to make their own choices and decisions, and tolerate children with different opinions from their parents. Let go and let children get in touch with social life, let them be tempered in social life, and improve their social adaptability.

2. Treat children's academic performance correctly. A sense of accomplishment is one of the important factors that affect a student's self-esteem. If a student experiences success on a regular basis, then his self-esteem will increase; On the contrary, if failure is often experienced, then his self-esteem will be reduced.

As a student, this experience of success or failure is mainly based on academic performance. However, for every student, it is not always necessary to experience success with good academic performance and high test scores. Whether there is a sense of accomplishment also depends on the student's attitude towards the test scores.

Therefore, parents should tell their children that as long as they listen attentively in class, study seriously and hard, and perform normally in exams, no matter how many points they score in the final exam, as long as they make progress compared to before, they should be satisfied.

3. Save face for your child. Parents should not hit or reprimand their children in front of others, and do not make children feel embarrassed by nagging them about what they have said or done in front of others.

4. Be a friend to your children. Actively participate in children's hobbies, buy children some books they like, arrange for them to go to summer camps or clubs, etc., and try to make children's lives as colorful and meaningful as possible.

5. Care and caress for children. Give them more smiles and be more interested in what they are doing. Praise and encourage any of their efforts and successes, even if they are insignificant.

When they study or practice, allow them to make mistakes, which may not be good at first, but don't blame them, don't hold them to the standards of adults. When they say, "I can't do it" or "I can't do it," encourage them to try again and never give up halfway to save time or lack patience. Otherwise, once they develop the bad habit of giving up halfway through everything, then they will never experience a sense of accomplishment and their self-esteem will gradually decrease.

6. Make children feel happy. Give them time, space, and toys to play, and encourage and support their hobbies. While learning is the dominant activity for children in school, play is still an essential and important aspect of their lives.

Some parents have a misconception that games will waste time and delay their children's learning. Because games can not only bring joy to children, but also enable them to enhance their physical fitness, increase their knowledge, and improve their self-esteem in happiness.

1. Communication between parents and children: This is the most fundamental, maybe many parents and children will have a generation gap, and they can't always figure out what their children think, but as parents, have you sincerely communicated with your children? Don't use yourself as an old man or something to pressure the child, this is the most disgusting thing for the child, and communicate with the child who wants to be a friend.

Respect your child's parents, don't always focus on their child's weaknesses, and don't compare their child's weaknesses with other children's strengths. When contacting children, parents should try to find out as much as possible about their children's strengths and encourage them to reduce their resistance to parents.

2. Learn to really care about your children: If you really care about your children, you must be able to empathize with your children, often pay attention to your children's feelings, remember your child's birthday, remember the day when the school held a parent-teacher conference, give the corresponding rewards and drums if the child does well in the exam, and encourage him if he doesn't do well. If you do something wrong, you should give him a correction and guide the child correctly.

3. Don't always object to what the child wants to do: Some parents always treat the child as a child, which is not allowed to be done, that is not allowed to be done, such as wanting to watch TV after completing homework, as a parent should not object, this is also the space that the child needs to relax, if you tell him not to watch, tell him to read a book in the room or something, although he reluctantly returned to the room, but will he read seriously? It's useless at all, just let him relax, and after relaxing, he will naturally go back to study hard.

4. The influence of the family and the inspiration and guidance of parents: parents should lead by example, the role of parents directly affects the mental health of children, parents must reflect on their personal lifestyle and attitude, pay attention to correcting their own bad personality, and provide healthy things for their children at any time. Establish a harmonious and pleasant family atmosphere.

Back home at 10:00 Rooms Every Day Not fight with your neighbour

My Own Laundry Not Talk Loudly Not Play Computer for Too Long

to our parents Fiendly to Everyone up by 6:00 every morning

Everyday (learn every day).

The order isn't normal, so let's switch it up for yourself.

1. Ten-year-old children have grown up, are sensible, and have a certain ability to distinguish between right and wrong. Therefore, if you feel that your child is not doing well, you can patiently tell your child that if he continues to maintain bad habits, the disadvantages are in. Every child wants to be a good child, so once she realizes what she is doing wrong, she will definitely change it.

2. Ten-year-old children happen to be in primary school, except for the time at home, most of the rest of the time is in school. Usually pay more attention to the child's situation at school and communicate with the teacher. To see what the child is not doing well, parents should assist the teacher more and work together to correct the child's problems.

3. In addition to family and school education, there is also social education. Let your children get in touch with some children who are usually well-behaved, so that they can play together often and learn from each other. With the role model of his peers, I believe that he will become better day by day.

4. Encouragement-oriented. No child doesn't like to be praised and encouraged, so we must find out the child's shining point in time, constantly praise the child, cultivate some self-confidence for him, and let him know himself correctly.

5. Water your children with love. Every child needs to be watered with love, so that she can feel the warmth of the world. Only then will we have more courage to face life.

6. Let your child read more healthy and uplifting books. Knowledge can change fate, let the child read more books that are in line with her age, and through the image of the role models in the book, she can correctly guide her outlook on life and values.

7. Character education: Parents are the influencers of their children's lives, and their children's conduct is largely related to their tutoring. Want to have children. With good conduct, family education is the key, and teachers can't do anything.

8. Interest in reading: Children's interest in reading is generally cultivated from an early age, as well as the long-term reading atmosphere in the family. Parents set a good example, and children will follow suit.

9. Good habits: At home, parents should educate and standardize their children's learning habits at home and develop good learning habits.